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  • NewHere
    NewHere Member Posts: 1,428 Member
    #22
    Trubrit said:

    I've tried

    I found her on Facebook and sent a freinds request and message, but have had no response. I have googled her name, and happily no news (no news is good news, right?!!)  My next move will be to message someone on her FB friends page. I am seriously worried about her.

    Tru

    Thanks Tru

    If you get a hold of her, please say hello.  I have been concerned for awhile.

  • Canadian Sandy
    Canadian Sandy Member Posts: 784 Member
    #23
    Trubrit said:

    I've tried

    I found her on Facebook and sent a freinds request and message, but have had no response. I have googled her name, and happily no news (no news is good news, right?!!)  My next move will be to message someone on her FB friends page. I am seriously worried about her.

    Tru

    How did you find her on

    How did you find her on Facebook?

     

  • Trubrit
    Trubrit Member Posts: 5,804 Member
    #24
    Canadian Sandy said:

    How did you find her on

    How did you find her on Facebook?

     

    Name

    She posted a news article way back, and her name was in that article. Even though she is not on FB under that exact name, I was lucky to run across her. 

    Tru

  • Canadian Sandy
    Canadian Sandy Member Posts: 784 Member
    edited November 2017 #25
    Okay ty

    Okay ty

  • Joan M
    Joan M Member Posts: 409 Member
    #26
    Jan, Sorry to hear about your

    Jan, Sorry to hear about your health problems. 

    I sure hope things have  improved for you and your husband. 

    It's been a tough battle for you and it is worth the fight. 

    Stay strong!  

  • JanJan63
    JanJan63 Member Posts: 2,478 Member
    #27
    I'm still here

    Sorry for not posting sooner. Now I know who asked to friend me on FB, Sue! I can't seem to get back on my feet after the septic shock. Last week I was diagnosed with clinical depression. I've been kicked in the butt and fought back so many times from odd side effects that most people don't get to partial blockages and I just can't seem to find it within myself to fight again so I can have something else come up and start over again. I've lost my will to fight anymore.

    I spend most of the time in bed and am too weak to stand for more than several minutes at a time. I am so tired and weak it's horrible. I'm short of breath just sitting here typing this.

    Thank you all for your concern. I'll get through this eventually. And then something else can knock me back down. I even told my husband that if I get sick again with someting else before I get over this I want a do not recussitate order.

    Jan

  • Tunadog
    Tunadog Member Posts: 235 Member
    #28
    Best of Luck

    You are in my Prayers 

  • Lily Flower
    Lily Flower Member Posts: 260 Member
    edited November 2017 #29
    Jan!!! So good to see you

    Jan!!! So good to see you replied. We were all worried about you. You have been fighting this for so long and so hard. You will get through this. We're all rooting for you. Stay strong! 

  • Trubrit
    Trubrit Member Posts: 5,804 Member
    #30
    JanJan63 said:

    I'm still here

    Sorry for not posting sooner. Now I know who asked to friend me on FB, Sue! I can't seem to get back on my feet after the septic shock. Last week I was diagnosed with clinical depression. I've been kicked in the butt and fought back so many times from odd side effects that most people don't get to partial blockages and I just can't seem to find it within myself to fight again so I can have something else come up and start over again. I've lost my will to fight anymore.

    I spend most of the time in bed and am too weak to stand for more than several minutes at a time. I am so tired and weak it's horrible. I'm short of breath just sitting here typing this.

    Thank you all for your concern. I'll get through this eventually. And then something else can knock me back down. I even told my husband that if I get sick again with someting else before I get over this I want a do not recussitate order.

    Jan

    No Happy Dancing Man

    I want to post my Happy Dancing Man, just because you are here again on the forum, but so sad to hear of your struggles that I will not post him, yet. 

    It is good to hear from you, Jan. You have been missed terribly. Thank you for taking the time to post, at the cost of your strength. 

    It is so scary when our beloved members don't post.

    So today, we get to hear from you and from Joan. Not always good news, but better than nothing. 

    I'm glad you figured out how I was on FB. 

    Tru

  • Canadian Sandy
    Canadian Sandy Member Posts: 784 Member
    #31
    So good to hear from you Jan!

    So good to hear from you Jan! I’ve been so concerned about you. Keep your faith strong. You are one neat person and we need you to help us in our journeys. Please try to move around a bit.....I didn’t and my muscles were to weak when I did.

    you are in my prayers Jan.

  • Ruthmomto4
    Ruthmomto4 Member Posts: 708 Member
    edited November 2017 #32
    Jan I am so sorry

    i hope you get your strength back, we were all so very worried about you. Rest and take it easy know we are all thinking of you! 

  • beaumontdave
    beaumontdave Member Posts: 1,289 Member
    #33
    JanJan63 said:

    I'm still here

    Sorry for not posting sooner. Now I know who asked to friend me on FB, Sue! I can't seem to get back on my feet after the septic shock. Last week I was diagnosed with clinical depression. I've been kicked in the butt and fought back so many times from odd side effects that most people don't get to partial blockages and I just can't seem to find it within myself to fight again so I can have something else come up and start over again. I've lost my will to fight anymore.

    I spend most of the time in bed and am too weak to stand for more than several minutes at a time. I am so tired and weak it's horrible. I'm short of breath just sitting here typing this.

    Thank you all for your concern. I'll get through this eventually. And then something else can knock me back down. I even told my husband that if I get sick again with someting else before I get over this I want a do not recussitate order.

    Jan

    Good to hear your typing

    Good to hear your typing again[ can't think of a better substitute for voice], sorry your feeling like Life's punching bag right now. I felt that way all of 2015, but at least I was up and doing while the hits were coming. I hope they'll found you the right stuff for the depression, sometimes meds are the best way to go, though they've yet to be able to put will in a pill. I'm thinking of you and hoping some things start going right, and you feel some will coming back........................................Dave

  • darcher
    darcher Member Posts: 304 Member
    #34
    What helps

    What helps is keeping in mind those that need you or care for you.  Family.  Your children and husband.  For me I see my two little ones who are now 4 and 6 and their innocense gives me the courage to push on.  I have to is what I tell myself.  They're too young to know what this is about.  I don't want to be some vague memory for them.  If I recall, your daughter is old enough to be aware and your husband had a heart issue recently.  They'll both need you and I'm sure are there to assist when you request. 

  • PamRav
    PamRav Member Posts: 348 Member
    #35
    I’m so glad

    to see your post. I️, all of here were so worried about you.  Please don’t give up. We are all here for you even if we can’t drive over to your house with a hot meal.  

    Take care of yourself. And pop in here once in awhile, please 

    peace, love, and healing  

    pam

  • Mikenh
    Mikenh Member Posts: 777 Member
    #36
    JanJan63 said:

    I'm still here

    Sorry for not posting sooner. Now I know who asked to friend me on FB, Sue! I can't seem to get back on my feet after the septic shock. Last week I was diagnosed with clinical depression. I've been kicked in the butt and fought back so many times from odd side effects that most people don't get to partial blockages and I just can't seem to find it within myself to fight again so I can have something else come up and start over again. I've lost my will to fight anymore.

    I spend most of the time in bed and am too weak to stand for more than several minutes at a time. I am so tired and weak it's horrible. I'm short of breath just sitting here typing this.

    Thank you all for your concern. I'll get through this eventually. And then something else can knock me back down. I even told my husband that if I get sick again with someting else before I get over this I want a do not recussitate order.

    Jan

    Nice to see you back and

    Nice to see you back and sorry about the clinical depression issues. I know how tough they can be (two family members had similar issues and medication helped one of them overcome it). I do hope that you can recover from this current setback.

  • NewHere
    NewHere Member Posts: 1,428 Member
    #37
    JanJan63 said:

    I'm still here

    Sorry for not posting sooner. Now I know who asked to friend me on FB, Sue! I can't seem to get back on my feet after the septic shock. Last week I was diagnosed with clinical depression. I've been kicked in the butt and fought back so many times from odd side effects that most people don't get to partial blockages and I just can't seem to find it within myself to fight again so I can have something else come up and start over again. I've lost my will to fight anymore.

    I spend most of the time in bed and am too weak to stand for more than several minutes at a time. I am so tired and weak it's horrible. I'm short of breath just sitting here typing this.

    Thank you all for your concern. I'll get through this eventually. And then something else can knock me back down. I even told my husband that if I get sick again with someting else before I get over this I want a do not recussitate order.

    Jan

    JAN JAN!!!!

    I am so happy to see you.  Sorry you had more %^&**((    You have gone through much, but you are way awesome.  It is okay to be depressed with the things you are going through.  It is means you are normal.  It hits us all, and you have had it rough for sure.  I am not sure I have the right words, other than I know the stuff I have gone through becomes a memory and not as bad with a passage of time (though things bring it back) and that we are all here for you for whatver venting, laughing, crying whatever.  And also do not take my words as telling you as to what you should do or feel, we are all different going through different things.  Just words of so happy to see you...

  • Annabelle41415
    Annabelle41415 Member Posts: 6,742 Member
    edited November 2017 #38
    Sorry

    Sorry you are struggling so.  We've been worried and wondering where you were.  Thanks for letting us know.  Wishing you the best.

    Kim

  • lhduffer
    lhduffer Member Posts: 90 Member
    #39
    So sorry

    So sorry to hear of all you are still going through but glad to see you respond.  You are, and have been, such an important voice to so many on this forum and you mean a lot to all of us.  All the best.

  • Joan M
    Joan M Member Posts: 409 Member
    #40
    Jan, sorry you are suffering from depression

    Medication and counseling should help you get your fighting spirit back.  I understand how you may want the DNR.    

    I'm still fighting the battle, and sometimes seems like fighting the doctors for the best possible treatment available. 

    Praying for you to feel better soon!

  • Cathleen Mary
    Cathleen Mary Member Posts: 827 Member
    edited November 2017 #41
    Jan,  so very glad to see you

    Jan,  so very glad to see you 'back in board'.  So sorry for all that you are going through....know of my prayer and concern.  Wish I could do more. You are a beloved member of the forum.

    CM

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