What to eat when everything tastes like cardboard?

I know the superthread has info on this, and trust me, I've been there. I have tried so many things from there with limited success. I'm hoping to get some more current ideas of what to try on my husband. He's hungry and willing to try things, but we have a very limited menu right now. He was able to eat beef bone broth and noodles seasoned with thyme, cream of wheat, oatmeal, avocado, aloe Vera juice, vitamin water, skim milk. I sincerely appreciate all and any ideas!

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  • ByeByeCancer
    ByeByeCancer Member Posts: 54 Member
    edited October 2017 #2
    Hey, I'm mostsly going to

    Hey, I'm mostsly going to follow your post to get additional ideas for my husband.  It is hard to even want to eat when nothing tastes good.  But, I'll add a list of what he is eating over last couple days:

    Brown Sugar Oatmeal with a benacalorie mixed in.  

    Smoothies with a benecalorie blended in (protein powder, cashew milk, yogurt, blueberries, banana, and a benecalorie in the vitamix)

    Chicken noodle soup.  I was trying to get healthier, organic versions...but then noticed a packet of ramen has almost 400 calories!  Might switch to that if we need the extra calories.

    Velveeta shells and cheese 

    Diced peaches 

    Vanilla pudding

    Orgain pre-made protein drinks.  Vanilla only (says he doesn't like the smell of the chocolate).


    Hopefully others can add some fresh ideas too.  

     

     

  • christine2080
    christine2080 Member Posts: 71

    Sort of depends on his

    Sort of depends on his condition.  Is he having problem with taste-buds, swallowing, dry-mouth, all of the above, the type of problem may indicate different foods.  I went through all of that, and am heavily addicted to salads now, because they are moist, soft, chew and swallow easily, and olives have a distinct and strong taste. I also was determined to get my gut environment recovered from chemo, and it was good to push a lot of bulk fiber through.

    This week Costco salad shrimp adds protein, blueberries add other vitamins and wholesome sugars, and next week I will switch them out and add something new, Norwegian smoked salmon maybe?  There are dozens, maybe hundreds, of different types of olives. Amazon will deliver some in two days, and they are frequently cheaper than the local specialty source.   Moroccan olives are very good, the Greeks sell a medley package with at least five different ones.  November we will do Italy -  Spain, Portugal, France, and California are out there somewhere.

    Wonderful ideas!

    Anothersurvivor, thanks so much! Your posts have been invaluable to me! I wish we had a thank button on posts! We tried pickles this afternoon, but they had no taste for him. You have given me lots of ideas to work from!

  • AnotherSurvivor
    AnotherSurvivor Member Posts: 384 Member
    Sort of depends on his

    Sort of depends on his condition.  Is he having problem with taste-buds, swallowing, dry-mouth, all of the above, the type of problem may indicate different foods.  I went through all of that, and am heavily addicted to salads now, because they are moist, soft, chew and swallow easily, and olives have a distinct and strong taste. I also was determined to get my gut environment recovered from chemo, and it was good to push a lot of bulk fiber through.

    This week Costco salad shrimp adds protein, blueberries add other vitamins and wholesome sugars, and next week I will switch them out and add something new, Norwegian smoked salmon maybe?  There are dozens, maybe hundreds, of different types of olives. Amazon will deliver some in two days, and they are frequently cheaper than the local specialty source.   Moroccan olives are very good, the Greeks sell a medley package with at least five different ones.  November we will do Italy -  Spain, Portugal, France, and California are out there somewhere.

  • AnotherSurvivor
    AnotherSurvivor Member Posts: 384 Member

    Wonderful ideas!

    Anothersurvivor, thanks so much! Your posts have been invaluable to me! I wish we had a thank button on posts! We tried pickles this afternoon, but they had no taste for him. You have given me lots of ideas to work from!

    Keep in mind that for the

    Keep in mind that for the first months/years this is a problem that is going to evolve A LOT.   I hated some of my first whole foods, got depressed, stumbled thru attempts, eventually arrived at workable.  Now, more or less good, I have gone back and tried some of those first whole foods and realize they REALLY DON'T TASTE VERY GOOD. 

    A really good barometer on taste is the mini Snickers bar that comes in halloween candy.  It is a very highly engineered food, and we all pretty much know what it 'should' taste like.  I used it to evaluate recovery.  I know that I pretty much got all my taste back because it tastes 'true' to my memory of it.  Interesting all those processed sugars are now hideous to me.  I can detect corn syrup at almost any level, and it all tastes bad.  I haven't decided yet if my taste is now better or worse, but it is certainly different.  Natural flavors in raw fruit and things like olives are great.  Unfortunately wine and beer didn't make the cut, but I probably needed to drink less alcohol anyway.

  • Klingels
    Klingels Member Posts: 78
    edited October 2017 #6
    food

    14 weeks out, my husband does best with oatmeal, fruit smoothies, diced peaches and pears, and soups. Swallowing is no longer an issue, but food doesn't taste good.

  • ByeByeCancer
    ByeByeCancer Member Posts: 54 Member
    I should also add that my

    I should also add that my husband can't taste anything anymore (25 radiations done, 10 to go) so he just goes with what he can swallow.  Before eating or drinking anything, he takes a swig of magic mouthwash.  I honestly don't think he'd eat anything without numbing his mouth and throat first with that mouthwash stuff.  It seems to work REALLY well. 

    My husband didn't want me to add the benecalorie stuff into the food either until he got a lecture from his oncologist because he'd lost 15 pounds. The week he had thrush was very rough and I think he lost most of the weight that week. 

    I'm going to look into the One Bite at a Time book. I would like to make more foods instead of using the prepared stuff.

    I think it is just so hard to be interested in food when it all tastes bland. No fun at all.

  • ByeByeCancer
    ByeByeCancer Member Posts: 54 Member
    Oops, forgot to add that we

    Oops, forgot to add that we have not tried the Mega Blast goldfish, but I will!  Thanks!

  • caregiver wife
    caregiver wife Member Posts: 234
    edited October 2017 #9
    found at Amazon

     

    Soft Foods for Easier Eating Cookbook: Easy-to-Follow Recipes for People Who Have Chewing and Swallowing Problems 
  • christine2080
    christine2080 Member Posts: 71

    Hey, I'm mostsly going to

    Hey, I'm mostsly going to follow your post to get additional ideas for my husband.  It is hard to even want to eat when nothing tastes good.  But, I'll add a list of what he is eating over last couple days:

    Brown Sugar Oatmeal with a benacalorie mixed in.  

    Smoothies with a benecalorie blended in (protein powder, cashew milk, yogurt, blueberries, banana, and a benecalorie in the vitamix)

    Chicken noodle soup.  I was trying to get healthier, organic versions...but then noticed a packet of ramen has almost 400 calories!  Might switch to that if we need the extra calories.

    Velveeta shells and cheese 

    Diced peaches 

    Vanilla pudding

    Orgain pre-made protein drinks.  Vanilla only (says he doesn't like the smell of the chocolate).


    Hopefully others can add some fresh ideas too.  

     

     

    Thanks, ByeByeCancer!

    Thanks, ByeByeCancer! It sounds like you're having much more success than I! I looked into ordering the Benecalorie after you mentioned it, but husband said it did not sound appealing. I ordered a cookbook that should arrive any time now. It's called One Bite At a Time, Nourishing Recipes For Cancer Survivors. I'm trying to prepare for post treatment and maybe get some ideas for right now. 

    I'm with you on the ramen. It's ready and waiting in the pantry. I made a smoothie that sounds a lot like the ones you're making. It was not a hit. I have convinced him to take nausea meds so I'm hoping he can tolerate more things. 

    Have you tried mega blast goldfish? He was able to eat a few of them with soup.

  • Lady54
    Lady54 Member Posts: 7 Member
    What to Eat

    Custard is a good choice. Contains eggs and is very smooth. Also, the cookbook, “Goes Down Easy:Recipes to help you cope with the challenge of eating during cancer treatment” by Elise Mecklinger and the dieticians at Princess Margaret, may offer you some options. It’s available through Indigo.

  • CivilMatt
    CivilMatt Member Posts: 4,724 Member
    Try everything

    c2080,

    Eating, tasting, not tasting, swallowing are one of the biggest hangovers from treatment.  Easy, fast and full of calories and nutrition are priorities when it comes to food.  Virtually nothing is appealing, nothing.  I tried all the suggestions, but unlike a normal person most everything was not worth an honorable mention, it is an area of your life which is so mixed up that words can barely explain the condition.

    As a caregiver, do not take it to heart, we mean well, it is just such a high hurdle that we have to keep trying things. Prepare yourself for rejection of all the old favorites.  Eating winds through a road marked with  lots of failures and some successes.  Capitalize on your victories and realize that almost all of us recover to a good food new normal.

    It took me 7 months of smoothies and sampling before my taste buds came back on line.  For me recovery was in the summer and I found great pleasure in tomatoes, cucumbers and olive oil (what are you going to do).  It doesn’t make sense, it just is.

    Eat up.

    Matt

  • Lisa I.
    Lisa I. Member Posts: 16
    What to eat

    My husband is now 2.5 week’s post treatment and is finally able to swallow some solid food. Tonight he managed some mashed potatoes and gravy although he said it didn’t have much flavor but he ate it. He has managed some chocolate ice cream and did eat a few noodles in cream sauce Yesterday. Diced peaches and pears have also proven to have some flavor. We have tried puddings, jello and smoothies. I made banana “ice cream”, freezing sliced bananas and then blending with a food processor. He said he could taste that! 

    We were thankful that Drs suggested he have a feeding tube put in prior to the start of treatment, as he lost almost 50lbs during the pre-treatment and onset of treatment...all since early July. He began using it early August and was only using that for nutrition cartons. we managed 1250 -1500 calories a day. Thank GOD! He is now maintaining weight and we have just begun trying solid food again Since his throat has been soooo badly burned.

    Any suggestions you all have is very much appreciated!

    thanks! Lisa I

  • christine2080
    christine2080 Member Posts: 71
    Lisa I. said:

    What to eat

    My husband is now 2.5 week’s post treatment and is finally able to swallow some solid food. Tonight he managed some mashed potatoes and gravy although he said it didn’t have much flavor but he ate it. He has managed some chocolate ice cream and did eat a few noodles in cream sauce Yesterday. Diced peaches and pears have also proven to have some flavor. We have tried puddings, jello and smoothies. I made banana “ice cream”, freezing sliced bananas and then blending with a food processor. He said he could taste that! 

    We were thankful that Drs suggested he have a feeding tube put in prior to the start of treatment, as he lost almost 50lbs during the pre-treatment and onset of treatment...all since early July. He began using it early August and was only using that for nutrition cartons. we managed 1250 -1500 calories a day. Thank GOD! He is now maintaining weight and we have just begun trying solid food again Since his throat has been soooo badly burned.

    Any suggestions you all have is very much appreciated!

    thanks! Lisa I

    Lisa I,

    Lisa I,

    What was your husband's cancer diagnosis and treatment?

  • donfoo
    donfoo Member Posts: 1,773 Member
    Fats and protein

    There are twice the calories in protein and fat than carbs. Just try to get as many calories in as possible.

  • bebo12249
    bebo12249 Member Posts: 181 Member
    Last 3-4 weeks of tx i lived

    Last 3-4 weeks of tx i lived on Boost Very High Calorie. Wasn’t available local; bought from Amazon..

  • christine2080
    christine2080 Member Posts: 71
    My husband has 2 weeks of

    My husband has 2 weeks of treatment left. He continues to experiment with food, trying to find something, anything that he can taste. He hates Ensure, but has fin resigned himself to drinking two a day. Not as much as he needs, but it's a start. He has some saliva & can faintly taste sweet and some sour. He eats oatmeal, cream of wheat, grits, eggs and toast for breakfast. He tried California roll sushi, fresh ginger (no taste whatsoever), & tuna roll for lunch today. For dinner he tried liver pate & could taste it and enjoyed it. Finally, something with calories! For a midnight snack he's able to eat NutterButter wafers & rice milk/1%milk. He also drinks a bottle of aloe Vera juice a day. I have canned peaches and canned pears waiting next.

  • JBBW
    JBBW Member Posts: 30
    Yes, but it's cardboard soaked in sea-water

    So, I took advantage of my time when everything tastes like cardboard (soaked in sea water) to eat a lot of the things I didn't originally like the taste of.  More vegies.  Lots of bland stuff.  Things with textures that were different helped me.  I did like mushrooms before but even more so now.  They have just the right consistency to not hurt my mouth sores.

  • BlacksuitDC
    BlacksuitDC Member Posts: 18

    Hey, I'm mostsly going to

    Hey, I'm mostsly going to follow your post to get additional ideas for my husband.  It is hard to even want to eat when nothing tastes good.  But, I'll add a list of what he is eating over last couple days:

    Brown Sugar Oatmeal with a benacalorie mixed in.  

    Smoothies with a benecalorie blended in (protein powder, cashew milk, yogurt, blueberries, banana, and a benecalorie in the vitamix)

    Chicken noodle soup.  I was trying to get healthier, organic versions...but then noticed a packet of ramen has almost 400 calories!  Might switch to that if we need the extra calories.

    Velveeta shells and cheese 

    Diced peaches 

    Vanilla pudding

    Orgain pre-made protein drinks.  Vanilla only (says he doesn't like the smell of the chocolate).


    Hopefully others can add some fresh ideas too.  

     

     

    A liquid that makes swallowing easy

    Dear ByeBye C,  I am posting this here as it could help your husband. Right now, you need to get food into him. real food to keep his weight up or steady.  Try this.  I know it will help.  

     

     

    If you have little or NO SALIVA, dry mouth, or just a very hard time swallowing, loss of soft pallet, this is for you.  Buy frozen bags of OKRA. ($1.00 a bag at regular groc stores).  I put 4 bags into a deep covered pan and cover the okra with water.  Simmer it for 8-10 minutes to speed up the process.  Then I turn off the heat and let it ‘steep’ for 3-5 hours. The ‘product’ is the liquid not the okra.  I save the drained liquid and repeat the process (without the heat). I even repeat a 3rd time.  Take a bite of food and a sip of this liquid and down it goes.  Warm the liquid for some foods according to taste.  Like making sun tea.  The ‘tea’ is the liquid.  The tealeaves, which get tossed, is the okra. I end up with a very thick heavy liquid. The thickness of this ‘tea’ protects the raw, sensitive skin in the patient’s mouth.  With no saliva, teeth edges can feel like steak knife blades.  This thick liquid keeps food trapped in a heavy solution and away from a sore mouth and tongue. If you don’t have such a hard time swallowing, then you can thin the ‘tea’ to suit. Great because it last longer and you have escaped a bad quality of life derailment. FYI: It is a challenge to pour.  Gravity can steal it and dump it on the counter.  I pour/transfer it over a bigger bowl using a small cup to help control this part.  I use a funnel to fill bottles. You can put the liquid into a small Gatorade bottle and take it to a restaurant. You can tint it orange or red.  It ‘looks’ like Gatorade to everyone.   There is not much of a flavor to this ‘tea’ and it takes on the flavor of some foods which makes it nicer. I make up a batch of this every other day.  Okra ‘tea’ makes swallowing EVERYTHING easy. No, it not fun but it works. I can eat steak, some breads, angel food cake, etc. It beats Ensure Plus 24/7.  It is easier to eat what the patient used to LOVE than trying to get the patient to eat something they never liked. Also learnt to enjoy the smell of things.  Maybe we always enjoyed the smell of our favorite foods as much as the actual taste.  The smell and texture. I think all 3 were/are linked to the foods we love. Texture is often shot along with taste.  Maybe all that is left is smell. Smell is better than nothing. FYI pick food that stays together when you chew.  Think bubble gum. You chew, and it stays in the same – one piece.  Find foods that do this.  Chicken and tuna break all up. Rice goes everywhere. Angel food cake stays but regular cake crumbles up. Ham stays together, hamburger does not and is sharp and hurts a raw tongue. Some brands of potato chips crumble up but some stay in a paste. Sweet potatoes stay together but Idaho potatoes (mashed, fires) are like a sponge and stick in the throat.  Steamed new potatoes are good and have a nice flavor that hopefully the patient can ‘taste’.   

  • CEA1267
    CEA1267 Member Posts: 4
    edited November 2017 #20

    My husband has 2 weeks of

    My husband has 2 weeks of treatment left. He continues to experiment with food, trying to find something, anything that he can taste. He hates Ensure, but has fin resigned himself to drinking two a day. Not as much as he needs, but it's a start. He has some saliva & can faintly taste sweet and some sour. He eats oatmeal, cream of wheat, grits, eggs and toast for breakfast. He tried California roll sushi, fresh ginger (no taste whatsoever), & tuna roll for lunch today. For dinner he tried liver pate & could taste it and enjoyed it. Finally, something with calories! For a midnight snack he's able to eat NutterButter wafers & rice milk/1%milk. He also drinks a bottle of aloe Vera juice a day. I have canned peaches and canned pears waiting next.

    I also hate ensure until a

    I also hate ensure until a volunteer brought me a Vanilla ensure blended with orange sherbert. to me was heaven to the taste and easy on the mouth at that time. Still drink them. I am 7 months out of 8 weeks of chemo and 36 radiation treatments for  tongue base cancer, my taste buds are still changing. Experimentation is a key. Stay with softer foods and move slowly to the harder coarser foods. things i loved a month ago I can't eat now because of the taste. But I can eat that is the Great thing.