Appreciative of Angels
I'm sure we've had our days when random, little, encouraging things that people say could get us teary-eyed. I'm reminded of Jan's story about the old guy in the elevator who told her she's gonna be alright. These people might not know the impact of these short messages they say, but it sure does give me an impact.
Once, I was walking in a mall and just a random acquaintance, not even a close friend, went running just to say "Patty, I've been praying for you". And my male friends, who aren't really expressive before have all been telling me they love me and they care for me. Even those whom I thought were very shady and cold to me, walks into me and says "Don't lose hope" or "You can do it". Simple words like "This is our fight", or "We can do this" just makes me feel appreciative and I think I must have done something right in my lifetime to deserve the love of these people.
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Wonderfully said!
Wonderfully said!
Positivity is so powerful and infectious.
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Family and Friends
What a wonderful story. Sometimes family and friends can say the best thing at the right moment. Sounds like you have had some very special people thinking and praying for you lately. When I'm praying to God there is often time that I'd hear "you are going to be okay." Doesn't mean that I'll be okay here, but know that He knows that I'll be OK with HIM. Still I'm wanting to be here still. Glad that you found sound peace in the people you meet. Hope it continues.
Hugs! Kim
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It really is sticking with me
It really is sticking with me, that experience. And, like you, I've had some really positive experiences with people. People who were just acquaintances who turned out to really care and people who are in my inner circle that went above and beyond.
Some really nasty stuff, too, unfortunately. I had a woman who is in the horse world around here and is a real piece of work that many people can't stand tell me last week when I finally confronted her that 'maybe your stage four cancer is karma. Ha ha ha ha!' Then several smiley faces. She posted this publicly. It's really going to help with her already poor reputation. I'm just laughing thinking about it. Shows a lot more about her than me. I'd confronted her on ripping people off with her terrible horse training that she has no idea what she's doing.
But, for sure, those little words of encouragement and support from strangers are so uplifting! And maybe sometimes it is an angel just reminding us that all is not lost as long as we're still here. I can't say how much it made me feel better. I found that when the doctor finally came in and told me the news I was totally calm about what he was going to say. Yes, I burst into tears of relief but I don't think I'd have melted down, either, if it had been bad. Not at that moment, anyway. I do find a lot of strength in my faith. I'm not of any particular one, I just absolutely believe in a higher power and that He loves us and wants the best for us. None of this has shaken that belief and nothing will.
Jan
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Wow, that was so mean of her
Wow, that was so mean of her to say that. By that statement alone I can already see she's a very insensitive and rude person.
Right after I was diagnosed, it occurred to me if this disease is a punishment. But then I remember that God doesn't send us punishments because He is a forgiving God. Rather, he gives us trials and challenges. There are reasons for it. We might not understand right away and we might even question Him for giving it to us, but He is miles ahead in this journey and He has a plan that is beyond our human understanding. And I do believe that God doesn't give us problems that we can't handle. That's why whenever I think I'm on the losing end, I say to myself, "You should be proud. God thinks you can handle cancer that's why He gave you this."
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PrayerAnnabelle41415 said:Family and Friends
What a wonderful story. Sometimes family and friends can say the best thing at the right moment. Sounds like you have had some very special people thinking and praying for you lately. When I'm praying to God there is often time that I'd hear "you are going to be okay." Doesn't mean that I'll be okay here, but know that He knows that I'll be OK with HIM. Still I'm wanting to be here still. Glad that you found sound peace in the people you meet. Hope it continues.
Hugs! Kim
Yes, it really helps. I also feel the same. There are times when I'm scared and I feel so uncertain and I feel like losing hope but whenever I pray, there's this certain calm that envelops me and gives me a soothing feeling, as if telling me everything's gonna be okay.
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That's a lovely thought. Oneplsletitrain said:Wow, that was so mean of her
Wow, that was so mean of her to say that. By that statement alone I can already see she's a very insensitive and rude person.
Right after I was diagnosed, it occurred to me if this disease is a punishment. But then I remember that God doesn't send us punishments because He is a forgiving God. Rather, he gives us trials and challenges. There are reasons for it. We might not understand right away and we might even question Him for giving it to us, but He is miles ahead in this journey and He has a plan that is beyond our human understanding. And I do believe that God doesn't give us problems that we can't handle. That's why whenever I think I'm on the losing end, I say to myself, "You should be proud. God thinks you can handle cancer that's why He gave you this."
That's a lovely thought. One thing that worries me is that my husband doesn't have faith, he never has. He's scientific and analytical. When I survived the blood clot he had faith for a while. He'd been praying for me in the chapel at the hospital and the next day I woke from the coma. He was then very excited about believing and, instead of trying to disprove God, he'd look for information to prove Him. I was so happy and told people that if I had to get cancer and go through what I did for him to have faith it was worth it. ow that I've had more things happen he's become bitter and keeps questioning if there's a God, why is this happening to me. I'm frustrated and disappointed and I try to explain that we all have to die and have hard times and belief doesn't stop that. And that there are people much worse off than I am. I'm afarid that when I'm gone he'll become very anti-religion and it breaks my heart. I've tried to talk to him about it but he's not listening.
Jan
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your story reminded me of an experience I once wrote about in my blog. I do agree it is sure nice to encounter support and understanding. And if I was king I'd try to outlaw ignorance and insensitivit. :-)
See the following link for my story from 2013...
https://pscamihorn.me/2013/12/01/surgery-tomorrow-11302013-update/
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I had goosebumps after
I had goosebumps after reading your encounter. I believe he really was an angel.
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Powerful
God has a unique way of sending just the right person across our path during difficult times. For instance, the other day I was feeling a little down until I read some of the comments on this site. There is hardly a day that does by that God doesn't send someone by with a small word of encourgement that lifts my spririt at just the right time. He knows what we need and assures us that we are not alone. "Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go." Joshua 1:9
Just a small word of encouragement, or an offer of help can make a world of difference when dealing with Cancer. I believe God doesn't ask us to move mountains with our faith but to use what He gives us when He places the opportunity before us. Jan, you may never know this side of heaven how your life has affected your husband's faith, but we are only called to plant the seed and let God do the rest in his timing.
I agree that I don't believe God is punishing us by giving us Cancer, but I prefer to think that if someone has to have it, He has given me the strength to endure.
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Phil, what a beautiful story!
Phil, what a beautiful story! Thanks for sharing that! I wept when I read it.
Phoenix, I love your biblical quotes, thank you so much for sharing them. They give me strength when I read them.
Really, I'm starting to think that there are lots of angels on here. You are all so amazing, sensitive, perceptive, strong, encouraging, kind, and lots more. Being on here is one of the positives about cancer. Because there are some positives. Some of the people it's brought into my life or brought closer to me are a gift I wouldn't have had otherwise.
Jan
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My thoughts exactly.Phoenix_66 said:Powerful
God has a unique way of sending just the right person across our path during difficult times. For instance, the other day I was feeling a little down until I read some of the comments on this site. There is hardly a day that does by that God doesn't send someone by with a small word of encourgement that lifts my spririt at just the right time. He knows what we need and assures us that we are not alone. "Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go." Joshua 1:9
Just a small word of encouragement, or an offer of help can make a world of difference when dealing with Cancer. I believe God doesn't ask us to move mountains with our faith but to use what He gives us when He places the opportunity before us. Jan, you may never know this side of heaven how your life has affected your husband's faith, but we are only called to plant the seed and let God do the rest in his timing.
I agree that I don't believe God is punishing us by giving us Cancer, but I prefer to think that if someone has to have it, He has given me the strength to endure.
My thoughts exactly.
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There was a song called send
There was a song called send me an angel.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jCHE0Tjw6MA Quite honestly, I could really use one now. Someone told me that we are angels sent here to prove ourselves and once passed will get our wings provided we've earned them. Eventually I'll find out but not today.0 -
Send me an angeldarcher said:There was a song called send
There was a song called send me an angel.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jCHE0Tjw6MA Quite honestly, I could really use one now. Someone told me that we are angels sent here to prove ourselves and once passed will get our wings provided we've earned them. Eventually I'll find out but not today.I love that song! I've been a fan of the song because of the gregorian version of it which is what I usually listen to when I just feel so low and I start to pity myself (even before I found out that I have cancer). Here's the gregorian version which adds more ethereal feeling to the song.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bud_rR82JigIf you or anyone (like Jan) could listen to this, I hope this gives you hope. The song is Don't Give Up by Gregorian. I listen to this song when I feel like giving up. Gregorian's vocals aren't audible much but listen to Sarah Brightman's vocals and the lyrics, they're so comforting and encouraging.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oeEoR6PQV8U0 -
A beautiful song that I have
A beautiful song that I have listened to alot during my journey is the contemporary christian song "Press On" by Selah. Here is a youtube link with slide show and words for any interested:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XLwtF9KYbnE0 -
That is a beautiful song.Phoenix_66 said:A beautiful song that I have
A beautiful song that I have listened to alot during my journey is the contemporary christian song "Press On" by Selah. Here is a youtube link with slide show and words for any interested:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XLwtF9KYbnEThat is a beautiful song. Thanks for the link. I just know Jan will love this.
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Send Me An Angel ....
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1UUYjd2rjsEAnd the lyrics from the two songs below
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"Send Me An Angel"
The wise man said just walk this way
To the dawn of the light
The wind will blow into your face
As the years pass you by
Hear this voice from deep inside
It's the call of your heart
Close your eyes and you will find
The passage out of the dark
Here I am
Will you send me an angel?
Here I am
In the land of the morning star
The wise man said just find your place
In the eye of the storm
Seek the roses along the way
Just beware of the thorns
Here I am
Will you send me an angel?
Here I am
In the land of the morning star
The wise man said just raise your hand
And reach out for the spell
Find the door to the promised land
Just believe in yourself
Hear this voice from deep inside
It's the call of your heart
Close your eyes and you will find
The way out of the dark
[4x]
Here I am
Will you send me an angel?
Here I am
In the land of the morning star
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Do you believe in Heaven above?
Do you believe in love?
Don't tell a lie, don't be false or untrue
It all comes back to you
Open fire!
On my burning heart
I've never been lucky in love
My defenses are down
A kiss or a frown
I can't survive on my own
If a girl walks in and draws her name in my heart
I'll turn and run away
Every day, we've all been led astray
It's hard to be lucky in love
It gets in your eyes
It's making you cry
Don't know what to do
Don't know what to do
You're looking for love
Calling Heaven above
Send me an angel
Send me an angel
Right now, right now
Send me an angel
Send me an angel
Right now, right now
Empty dreams can only disappoint
In a room behind your smile
But don't give up, don't give up
(Give up, give up, give up)
You can be lucky in love
It gets in your eyes
It's making you cry
Don't know what to do
Don't know what to do
You're looking for love
Calling Heaven above
Send me an angel
Send me an angel
Right now, right now
Send me an angel
Send me an angel
Right now, right now
Right now
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My Song of Choice - Need You Now
Everytime I'm down or lonely or going through another test is "Need You Now (How Many Times)" by Plumb. I'm hoping that this is the right link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ylnx0NA9X4. When you go through a cancer dianosis you do whatever you can to keep moving on. This song reminds me that I'm able to continue even though I'm scared. I'm a prayer warrior for all of you on this board every day even when I'm not posting. I've been here for many years and hope to help as many people as I'm able to.Hugs! Kim
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That's a lovely song KimAnnabelle41415 said:My Song of Choice - Need You Now
Everytime I'm down or lonely or going through another test is "Need You Now (How Many Times)" by Plumb. I'm hoping that this is the right link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ylnx0NA9X4. When you go through a cancer dianosis you do whatever you can to keep moving on. This song reminds me that I'm able to continue even though I'm scared. I'm a prayer warrior for all of you on this board every day even when I'm not posting. I've been here for many years and hope to help as many people as I'm able to.Hugs! Kim
Very inspiring. And thanks for the prayers. Prayers is the strongest weapon we have.
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Deep Theta - Deep Alpha - Crystal bowl
I go to sleep each night listening to the music, mostly by Stephen Halpern. During chemo, this music saved my sanity, maybe my life.
This one is probably my favourite https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eyXqJkmH7Pk
Tru
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