Uterine Ablation led to Cancer - CANNOT GET TREATMENT

Hi - I am a 38 year old woman with a clean bill of health my entire life up until July 2016.  I had a uterine ablation as per my doctor's suggestion to accompany a tubal (there was no medical reason for an ablation to be performed, he said it would help lighten period).  I agreed without batting an eye as he's been my trust ob/gyn for as long as I can remember.  This was the first and only time I didn't do research on what a doctor said to me during any visit, even anything discussed during a routine visit I would look over and confirm.  18 months prior to July I had the ablation and tubal performed and felt fine.  I didn't have a period for a number of months.  I started spotting and feeling "off" on July 9th, I expressed concert to a close friend that I had cancer (still not knowing it was a risk associated with an ablation).  I also said the same thing to another friend July 11th.  Everyone else, including all doctors, thought I was insane for having this gut feeling.  I was tested for everything under the sun EXCEPT for cancer due to being symptomatic of something (I knew it was cancer) and my labs were always abnormal but never anything alarming.  I went to at least 6 other specialists for anything but cancer for further testing.  My health over the past 10 months as gotten increasingly worse and I was beggin for help and cancer screening.  Finally, about 5 weeks ago, April 2017, I developed a large mass in my neck and my doctor looked at me in terror and stunned disbelief because I had been saying this all along for almost a year and now I had a mass.

I am seeing an oncologist who was focusing on my neck and head.  I told her we were looking in the wrong spot and convinced her it was in the repro organs.  I was scanned with contrast and a clear kidney bean shaped carcinoma was present during that scan.  I was scanned again and it was deemed inconclusive, next it was not visible at all.  They couldn't come up with a clear diagnosis based on inconsitent findings.  My lab work is getting increasingly more abnormal.  My thryoid is working 10 times as hard as it should be and at one point I had a positive cancer marker finding.  The next labs were negative but the thyroid was still getting worse.  At this point a few weeks ago my body wide pain scale was a 10 and I had a low grade fever and trouble walking. 

I NEED HELP.  We know we have seen a tumor, we have had positive imaging and lab work for cancer.  I am now at the point where I can't eat solid foods due to lymph node enlargement and sores in my mouth and throad.  I CANNOT FIND A DOCTOR TO TREAT ME.  I can literally feel myself dying and it is rapidly escalating by the day.  To those who have had uterine cancer due to an ablation or otherwise, since it is very common for testing to be unfounded or to show positive results mininally and inconclusive the rest of the time, how did you get treatment?  I'm sitting here facing a certain death and I am keenly aware of it.  Noone will touch me or remove the uterus due to the different images we have collected.  I need help and I need it now.  My time is running out.  I can no longer walk, I can't breathe from the thyroid robbing me of oxygen because it's working overtime to process the hormones and the other night I almost bled out while sitting on the toilet.  I'm also leaking or pouring out a watery or mucusy like fluid all day.  I am in so much pain I cannot take it.  My fever is 101 or 102 everyday and I have sores all over me.  I am SICK. 

Can someone please help me and advise on how treatment was acquired if you had abnormal testing for uterine cancer.  It is one of the hardest to detect making early intervention  nearly impossible.  I'm absolultey at a more advanced stage at this point which another doctor even confirmed based on symptoms and increasingly unfavorable lab results. 

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE - how do I find a doctor who will treat me??  I'm wasting my life away on a daily basis with tests when I should have had a full hysterectomy and follow up treatment plan at this point.  I am dying under doctors' care and they are not moving; only insist on further tests.

How do I get care and get it immediately?  I live in the tri state area and am willing to fly anyhwere in the nation if a doctor will take my case. 

I am the only surviving parent to a 9 year old boy whose father we lost in 2012.  I cannot become disabled and die when we know I have this and we know the cause and appropriate treatment and leave my son with no parents.  I need someone to determine where this has spread to and stage it and start helping me immediately.  This entire cancer was preventable and caused by that ablation.  I need support and guidance now, please.

I am desperate.  Please help.

Thank you - Jennifer