Question for after being done with treatments

Im not to sure that im too happy with my medical oncoligist right now.  It seems he went from being very axious to getting me in to do chemotherapy back in June, when i started, to not being too concered about my cancer comming back.  I have MMT also known as carsinisarcoma uterine cancer stage 2 grade 3. The pathologist and doctors found, after surgery, that there was not as much MMT (an aggresive type of uterine cancer) in my cancer as they thought after biopsy. I was and even now greatful for that.  Of course i hope mine never comes back, but of course i have been thinking about that.  In fact as I was deciding about radiation and what to do i concidered my cancer in my desition.  I even asked my radiation oncologist last week what he would do if he saw a spot of cancer when he was doing follow up. He told me, even though he didnt think it would come back, he would follow up with external radiation just in that area.  I really thought that was a good plan.  I felt like i could live with that, especially with the amount of radiation i was given 23 years ago.  My radiation Oncologist also said to me his first exam with him after i was done  would be a vaginal exam. He didnt want to do a ct scan right off but did not sound like he was against ct scans all together.  I felt good about that as well.  He seemed pretty well balenced.

So this is why I am not liking my medical oncoligist right now.  After my apointment with him on tuesday, he told me he wanted to see me in three months, which is great, but he told me he would not be doing a CT scan or a vaginal exam.  It sounded like it was something he did with all his patients no matter what cercomstance his patients were in.  He told me we would only do a CT scan if there were problems.  That scared me to death.  All of the sudden i found my self asking him what i should be looking for in regards to problems that might occure.  I dont like his thinking. He has strickly gone by the CA 125 number all along. My number was good al along but never had my blood taken while i had cancer inside me (dont know that CA 125 number.  He didnt ask about what is going to be going on with my radiation.  Okay the plan was just bracytherapy all along, but i will be honest that wasnt always my plan.  I did a lot of research before i decided that was okay for me.  Un like my radiation doctor, I felt like he wasnt thinking of me as a patient.  I guess you would say i felt like a number.  

Has any one had a doctor like this? should i be worried? I had a gyncological oncologist who did my surgery, but he under diagnosed me and told me i didnt even need chemotherapy. Although after my gynocologist called him and told him i was doing chemo after all, he at least except i was doing.  I havent seen him since a few weeks after surgery. I dont know that i trust him any more and there is not another gyncological oncoligist in my area. I would have to go an hour away. It sounds like i wouldnt be seeing my radiation doctor until 3 months after my medical oncoligist which isnt until march thats almost five months after i am done.  Should i wait that long before a vaginal exam?  It would be even longer after that before i had a CT scan. (unless of course there were problems)

Im not sure my medical oncologist would order me a CT scan if i felt i needed one.

What would you guys do?  I would really like to hear others on this one.