Any tongue cancer patients here?

I'm almost 2 months out from surgery. Not a lot of time but my noticeable speech impediment bothers me. My surgery involved a smaller tumor on the left side, which made my tongue tighter while pulling to the left.

Has anyone experienced a similar surgery and saw their speech improve with time? I honestly don't see how it can improve much with my tongue in this situation.

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  • Msreadalot
    Msreadalot Member Posts: 4 Member
    I lost the front left half of

    I lost the front left half of my tongue in October 2014 and I still remember how talking was something that was more difficult to do, I had to really think and concentrate on pronouncing my words as clear as I could. I still do, for that matter. First, though, I would like to address the psychological impact my altered speech had on me. I didn't realise how much this would effect my self image, especially in the beginning when my speech was worse. I am more accepting now, of course, but I will never sound like my old self. I am well aware that I am very lucky as things could always be worse. I went to speech therapy for a while but I think I had every side effect from radiation a person can get so I stopped going. I also have radiation fibrosis which effected my speech because of the soreness, but medication seems to be helping. I am a nurse in a busy hospital and my coworkers tell all the time how much better I am talking, and I am not getting many intense looks as people try to concentrate and comprehend me. No one has asked what country I am from in months. If I have learned anything from this site it's that you measure progress in weeks and months so don't get discouraged. You might want to see a speech therapist as there are exercises you can do to strengthen your tongue. I still do them and feel they have really helped me. Good luck to you.

  • Tonita
    Tonita Member Posts: 197 Member
    edited May 2016 #3
    My speech bothers me and it's

    My speech bothers me and it's not really all that bad.  My tongue bothers me.  I have all of my tongue but it's been changed from the surgery.  There is a blob of skin on the top and the tip has shifted from the way it was sutured after the tumor removal.   My family and friends think my speech is fine, but I don't and I know it's not like it was before.  There is still numbness, not only in my tongue, but my neck and ear as well.  All of it maddening. 

  • SASH
    SASH Member Posts: 421 Member
    edited May 2016 #4
    Own worst critic on speech

    Many times you will find that you are your own worst critic when it comes to your speech.  Most can understand me most of the time, but when meeting someone new or talking on the telephone especially to someone new, it is more difficult to understand me.  The longer people listen to you the easier they will learn your new speech patterns.  There will be words that will always be more difficult to say, so you just think ahead and find other words.  

  • swopoe
    swopoe Member Posts: 492
    edited May 2016 #5
    SASH said:

    Own worst critic on speech

    Many times you will find that you are your own worst critic when it comes to your speech.  Most can understand me most of the time, but when meeting someone new or talking on the telephone especially to someone new, it is more difficult to understand me.  The longer people listen to you the easier they will learn your new speech patterns.  There will be words that will always be more difficult to say, so you just think ahead and find other words.  

    Agree, SASH. I think my

    Agree, SASH. I think my husband sounds perfectly fine. He thinks that his B's and D's sound the same. I dont hear a problem, but he is not fully happy. We got some tips from my aunt who his a speech therapist (for elementary school kids), and he is practicing. But I still think he sounds fine. It is true that we are our own worst critics.

  • stevenpepe
    stevenpepe Member Posts: 234
    edited May 2016 #6
    The letters S and T,

    The letters S and T, especially combined, are difficult. As luck would have it, my name starts with those letters. The letters D and X are tough too. The words This and That make me cringe. I am finding that I look for alternative words that I can pronounce better. I never lost the letter F so I may change my name to Frank. Please call me Frank.

  • donfoo
    donfoo Member Posts: 1,773 Member
    early days

    Hi Steve,

    It is early days and it takes time quite some time for the new normal speech pattern to stabilize. Do ask about speech therapy; they can advise the details about working on your speech. Good luck. 

     

  • abbimom
    abbimom Member Posts: 87 Member
    takes time

    I had tongue cancer 16 years ago.  I was diagnosed in college and the change in my speech was hard.  The best advice I can give is to strengthen your tongue muscles and get speech therapy.  They will help give you the tools to work on getting those sounds better.  I still hate talking on the phone!  My one regret is that I did not exercise my tongue like I should've.  It is a muscle and needs lots of practice.  Your speech will get better with time and practice but it may never be the same.  I had to accept that, and now it is just a part of who I am.  Good luck!!!

     

  • SusanUES
    SusanUES Member Posts: 125
    You kinda learn to live with your limitations...

    I'm a year out and my speech is noticably different (although others rush in to tell me it's fine, I know the truth).  I get slurry after eating and I have to speak a lot slower.  The great majority of the time, people have no problem understanding me but there are definitely times I have to repeat myself.  Yes, it's upsetting...especially since there won't be much improvement byond this point...but I've learned to live with it.  You make your peace with the change and just go from there.  I learned a long time ago that if I beat myself up over things I can't control or improve, it's self-imposed failure and sadness.  So this is the "new" me and I gotta be okay with that...and you will be okay with the "new Steven" too.

  • OldiesBob
    OldiesBob Member Posts: 6
    I would echo others

    I would agree with all the points made by others - that we're our own worst critics, that it may well likely improve over time, and speech therapy couldn't hurt. I have had two sections removed from my tongue, and another removed from my frenulum (little membrane under the tongue that connects to floor of mouth). I do believe that the more you "practice" - and consciously slow your speech down - it can gradually improve.

    (Now undergoing induction chemo to be followed by chemo and radiation - no idea how those will impact speech. Just have to wait and see.)

  • jackflash22
    jackflash22 Member Posts: 524 Member

    The letters S and T,

    The letters S and T, especially combined, are difficult. As luck would have it, my name starts with those letters. The letters D and X are tough too. The words This and That make me cringe. I am finding that I look for alternative words that I can pronounce better. I never lost the letter F so I may change my name to Frank. Please call me Frank.

    Funny

    your post gave me the laugh of the day....Frank

  • onerealmom
    onerealmom Member Posts: 1
    radiation burns on tongue

    My husband  has gone through  6 weeks of radiation  after surgeryfor squamous cell  caicinoma,they removed part of his tongue and did a recostructive flap.He has 2 days left with the radiation  therapy he is now having  trouble  eating and drinking  due to his tongue burning, he also has the thicker  saliva and a cough.he has a peg tube which is keeping  him nourished but ANYTHING  that he puts in his mouth burns like hell any suggestions.magic mouthwash  isnt doing ANYTHING.

  • dunedintech
    dunedintech Member Posts: 90
    Similar

    I had a small tumour removed on the left side of my tongue in 2013. At the time my speech was a little weird but over time this has improved significantly. If anything it's given me a slight English accent which people can't work out as I'm from New Zealand ! 

    Time is the great healer here I reckon. Good luck. 

    CPC

     

     

  • The lucky one
    The lucky one Member Posts: 4
    edited June 2016 #14

    The letters S and T,

    The letters S and T, especially combined, are difficult. As luck would have it, my name starts with those letters. The letters D and X are tough too. The words This and That make me cringe. I am finding that I look for alternative words that I can pronounce better. I never lost the letter F so I may change my name to Frank. Please call me Frank.

    I too am about 2.5 months out

    I too am about 2.5 months out from a partial glossectomy and am having the same issues with my speech. S and T are for sure the hardest sounds to make and I am very self conscious about talking. I have noticed a slight improvement in the last week however. So I am hoping things will get even better with more time. People who know me well say the biggest difference in my speech is the way I move my mouth as I make more sounds with my teeth which keeps my jaw kind of tight. I have not seen a speech therapist but I'm seriously considering it as I've heard it has helped with others. Good luck to you!

  • tommyodavey
    tommyodavey Member Posts: 728 Member
    Not Too Bad

    So far I have hesitated posting in your thread because it is obvious your surgery was worse than mine was.  My surgeon cut a fairly large section on the base of my tongue which hurt like he**!  Going into the surgery was the worry part.  Will he take my whole tongue?  Leave me ½?  In the first few weeks I had some trouble adjusting to my speech impediment but over time it got better and now no one even notices it.

    What I did lose was the ability to whistle.  My tongue is shorter now so I can't use it to clean my teeth after a meal.  And it looks really crooked.  Again, no one can tell unless I point it out.  What broke my heart was what the rads did to my voice.  I used to be able to sing quite well, no so good anymore.

    No complaints other than what I post here.  Due to modern medicine I have a chance to live longer.  Had it run its course I'd be gone by now so who am I to complain?  So many have/had it so much worse so I know how lucky I am.

    Give it some time and see what returns.

    Tom

  • SusanUES
    SusanUES Member Posts: 125
    Whistle

    Tommy, ths is very interesting.  Until I read your comment, the thought of whistling never crossed my mind one year post-rads.  Just tried and I can't manage it either, so joke's on me!  Yup, I can't do a mouth clean with tongue either...I chew a sugarless gum after meals and that tends to loosen up stuck bits of food.  I'm tone deaf and sing like a frog, so no problem there...but I can appreciate the loss you feel.  One of the women undergoing rads at the same time I had mine was a taste tester for Coke and lost her job and also sang in her chuch choir.  I felt so bad for her.  Anway, thanks for the whistle alert and keep on truckin'!

  • CivilMatt
    CivilMatt Member Posts: 4,724 Member
    singing is good

     

    stevenpepe,

    My speech was very quiet and difficult after surgery and rads, but has improved a lot.  People around me have mentioned the change for the “more normal”.  I did  go through some speech appointments where they work on strength of the tongue, high and low sounds, swallowing, breathing, etc…

    If you can talk, you should be able to improve it.

    Good Luck,

     

    Matt