Appointment to Discuss Pathology Report & Questions I should ask.

Charissa
Charissa Member Posts: 129 Member

Hi wonderful warrior ladies. I have my appointment with my oncologist this Thursday the 9th. Can you please provide me with questions I should ask. I had the radical robotic hysterectomy three weeks ago. I know he said that regardless if it spread or not, due to the type of cancer I have, chemo will be started four weeks from surgery. That means NEXT week. Yikes.

I will definitely ask the type, grade, and stage and how many lymph nodes were extracted and which ones (if any) showed up positive. Other than that, I'm not sure what else to ask.

Thank you, in advance for assisting me. I couldn't feel more blessed to have found you. Even though I don't get on here daily, I am bragging about all of you to my friends. I talk about all of you, as if we have been friends forever. Again, I know it is because of you guys offering me hope that I have been doing so well. When I first received the diagnosis, I thought it was a death sentence. But, meeting all of you, I know that I have a good chance of beating this.

Love, hugs, and healing to all.

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  • CheeseQueen57
    CheeseQueen57 Member Posts: 933 Member
    Ask for a copy of the report

    And a copy of the surgery report. As a matter of fact, you want copies of everything. Not only for your interest but should you seek a second opinion. Ask what type of cells the were, Endometrioid, sarcoma, clear cell.  How far through the uterus did the tumor penetrate?  I would seek a second opinion on the pathology. Pathology is pretty subjective. My cancer center made it pretty easy. They took care of sending the slides down to Johns Hopkins in Baltimore. I did ask them to send the block but they refused and unlike Cathy, I have no pathology relatives to pull strings. The report came to the Sam conclusions as Fox Chase.  I'm being treated at Fox Chase in Philadelphia for Stage IIIc, Grade 3 Endometrioid cancer. 

  • janaes
    janaes Member Posts: 799 Member
    Gosh Charissa I dont know

    Gosh Charissa I dont know that I can answer your question.  I did have lots of questions and about my cancer and I asked what the side effects were and why the doctor wanted to do the treatments he suggested.  I ended up asking if they could have meeting with a bunch of doctors to discuss my cancer and I am so glad that, I think it was about 7 doctors, were involved in the dessision on what to do.  Any ways if you start chemo next week we might be starting close to the same time.  One of the nurses is supposed to call me today to set up my first chemo appointment. I could start next week. I hope all goes well for you. 

  • Kvdyson
    Kvdyson Member Posts: 790 Member
    Questions

    Hi Charissa, because I had already accessed my pathology report from my hospital's online portal, I had already done a lot of research on my diagnosis (uterine MMMT, stage 1b, grade 3) before going into that first follow-up appointment. I knew for sure that I was going to get a second opinion. I asked my gyn-onc's opinion about it and he was perfectly fine with it although he warned me that it could come back with a different diagnosis (he was right). I also asked him about the recent studies indicating progression-free survival and overall survival for my diagnosis. He warned me away from retrospective studies since so much has changed in the last few years.   

    I was particularly interested in finding out about my treatment plan, specifically, what chemo meds would be used and why, how many chemo treatments over what period of time, whether a port was advisable for the chemo treatments, what type of radiation and why, how many radiation treatments and over what period of time, and the expected benefits and side effects of both types of treatments.

    I recommend taking a tape recorder or some sort of recording device with you. I did and found it incredibly helpful to listen to it afterwards since both my husband and I missed a lot of what the gyn-onc had said. 

    I hope this information helps. Good luck to you on Thursday and please let us know how it goes. Kim

     

  • Virgil90012
    Virgil90012 Member Posts: 35 Member
    American Cancer Society List of Questions

    Hello Charissa,

    I don't post often because I don't usually have additional comments since the wonderful ladies on the Board have said it all.  In addition, my diagnosis was Stage 1A, Grade 2 in October 2014 and I didn't need (knock on wood) any additional treatment other than surgery (removal of all ladies' parts, omentum, 27 lymph nodes, and peritoneal wash).  So I have don't have much to share about chemo or radiation.  With regards to questions to ask, along with what the other ladies have mentioned, I found the questions on the American Cancer Society website helpful when determining what questions to ask my gyne-oncologist.   The link is the following: http://www.cancer.org/cancer/endometrialcancer/detailedguide/endometrial-uterine-cancer-talking-with-doctor  Hopefully this helps you and good luck with your appointment.  I hope it brings you some good news. 

    Cathy

  • Charissa
    Charissa Member Posts: 129 Member
    edited June 2016 #6

    Ask for a copy of the report

    And a copy of the surgery report. As a matter of fact, you want copies of everything. Not only for your interest but should you seek a second opinion. Ask what type of cells the were, Endometrioid, sarcoma, clear cell.  How far through the uterus did the tumor penetrate?  I would seek a second opinion on the pathology. Pathology is pretty subjective. My cancer center made it pretty easy. They took care of sending the slides down to Johns Hopkins in Baltimore. I did ask them to send the block but they refused and unlike Cathy, I have no pathology relatives to pull strings. The report came to the Sam conclusions as Fox Chase.  I'm being treated at Fox Chase in Philadelphia for Stage IIIc, Grade 3 Endometrioid cancer. 

    Thank you, CheeseQueen57. I

    Thank you, CheeseQueen57. I wrote down all the questions and will take them with me tomorrow. I think this is the first time speaking with you. Such a pleasure to meet you.  I appreciate your time and for sharing your wisdom. Hugs and blessings of success in treatment.

  • Charissa
    Charissa Member Posts: 129 Member
    janaes said:

    Gosh Charissa I dont know

    Gosh Charissa I dont know that I can answer your question.  I did have lots of questions and about my cancer and I asked what the side effects were and why the doctor wanted to do the treatments he suggested.  I ended up asking if they could have meeting with a bunch of doctors to discuss my cancer and I am so glad that, I think it was about 7 doctors, were involved in the dessision on what to do.  Any ways if you start chemo next week we might be starting close to the same time.  One of the nurses is supposed to call me today to set up my first chemo appointment. I could start next week. I hope all goes well for you. 

    It looks like we are on this

    It looks like we are on this journey together. What a blessing to have someone at the same point as myself. I will private message you, when I get my appointment. Keep me updated on how yours turns out. Keep a positive outlook, don't let the cancer dominate your thoughts or define you, be BIGGER then it, enjoy each and every day. We got this!!!!

  • Charissa
    Charissa Member Posts: 129 Member
    Kvdyson said:

    Questions

    Hi Charissa, because I had already accessed my pathology report from my hospital's online portal, I had already done a lot of research on my diagnosis (uterine MMMT, stage 1b, grade 3) before going into that first follow-up appointment. I knew for sure that I was going to get a second opinion. I asked my gyn-onc's opinion about it and he was perfectly fine with it although he warned me that it could come back with a different diagnosis (he was right). I also asked him about the recent studies indicating progression-free survival and overall survival for my diagnosis. He warned me away from retrospective studies since so much has changed in the last few years.   

    I was particularly interested in finding out about my treatment plan, specifically, what chemo meds would be used and why, how many chemo treatments over what period of time, whether a port was advisable for the chemo treatments, what type of radiation and why, how many radiation treatments and over what period of time, and the expected benefits and side effects of both types of treatments.

    I recommend taking a tape recorder or some sort of recording device with you. I did and found it incredibly helpful to listen to it afterwards since both my husband and I missed a lot of what the gyn-onc had said. 

    I hope this information helps. Good luck to you on Thursday and please let us know how it goes. Kim

     

    Wow, thank you, Kim. Great

    Wow, thank you, Kim. Great questions. My list is growing. Hope he has enough time to answer them all. Lol! I will definitely start a new post or add to this one, once I get my results. Praying for a favorable outcome. I had symptoms for 15 weeks, prior to surgery. So, the cancer was in there and angry for a long time. Plus, my OBGyn thought it was a polyp and made it that much more angry when she attempted to remove it and was unsuccessful. I had the worse cramps and hemorrhaging for the next week and half until my hysterectomy. I'm hoping by her doing the surgery and not getting it all, it didn't cause it to spread rapidly. I'll know everything tomorrow. Thank you, again, for all your time, love, and support. This is the BEST group ever!

  • Charissa
    Charissa Member Posts: 129 Member
    edited June 2016 #9

    American Cancer Society List of Questions

    Hello Charissa,

    I don't post often because I don't usually have additional comments since the wonderful ladies on the Board have said it all.  In addition, my diagnosis was Stage 1A, Grade 2 in October 2014 and I didn't need (knock on wood) any additional treatment other than surgery (removal of all ladies' parts, omentum, 27 lymph nodes, and peritoneal wash).  So I have don't have much to share about chemo or radiation.  With regards to questions to ask, along with what the other ladies have mentioned, I found the questions on the American Cancer Society website helpful when determining what questions to ask my gyne-oncologist.   The link is the following: http://www.cancer.org/cancer/endometrialcancer/detailedguide/endometrial-uterine-cancer-talking-with-doctor  Hopefully this helps you and good luck with your appointment.  I hope it brings you some good news. 

    Cathy

    Thank you, Cathy. That will

    Thank you, Cathy. That will help immensely. I am feeling good now with three weeks behind me since surgery. Life is getting busier by the minute, raising two teenage girls and it being summer vacation. I am finding less and less time to study, read, and educate myself further. I sincerely appreciate you chiming in. Your link will be very helpful. So nice for you to remain on here to support us and let us know there is hope. Blessings with hugs.

  • janaes
    janaes Member Posts: 799 Member
    Thank you Charissa for your

    Thank you Charissa for your encouraging words.  I was thinking about you last night and hoping you were doing okay as you were preparing for your appointment today. Feel free to message me any time.  lots of love,

                                                                                                   Janae

  • brissance
    brissance Member Posts: 192
    God Luck and Prayers w/ You

    Good luck w/ todays appointment..  you are in my prayers...  

    Having to break away from studying the therapy and fixating on cancer cells and chemotherapy and the whole cancer world.. the break from this to tend your growing daughters and embracing the excitement of life will be great therapy for you. Enjoy these young women totally..  they are watching you closely and learning how to deal with life crisis in the future.  Your grace and positive attitude is exactly what you all need and you are doing a tremendous job, I am truly impressed.  I know it will turn out well for you.  YAY team!

  • Charissa
    Charissa Member Posts: 129 Member
    Update From Appointment

    Hi Ladies, I had my appointment yesterday. I can't be more thrilled. It is amazing and simply a miracle, what was presented to me. Mind you, I had symptoms for almost four months; with my doctor sending me on vacation thinking all my hemorrhaging was due to a persistent polyp.  Surgery to remove the polyp and the hysterectomy took place six weeks after my vacation. Up until my appointment yesterday, I didn't know what type I had only what grade - 3.

    My oncologist started out with, "Well this is a most reassuring pathology report. In fact, it's a miracle. There was no evidence of cancer in the cervix, right or left ovary, right or left fallopian tube, left or right parametrium, the omentum or the 21 lymph nodes extracted. The tumor only invaded .3 mm of your 13 mm myometrial wall. The tumor size was 5.5 cm. The histologic type is Endometrioid Adenocarcinoma, NOS; FIGO Grade 3; pathologic staging pT1a, NO. I feel confident we got it all and am only recommending 3-5 low doses of brachytherapy for preventative measures. We will continue monitoring you closely, with having a CT scan done every 12 weeks for the next two years."

    We were assured, prior to the report coming back, due to my symptoms, the length of time I had symptoms, and the grade of cancer that I would have to do chemotherapy NO MATTER the outcome of the pathology report. So, to say the least, my hubby, daughters, family, friends and I are very pleased and feel comfortable with his treatment plan. In the meantime, I am working with a holistic doctor who will prescribe alternative treatments to kill/keep cancer at bay, along with following a cancer prevention diet through a dietician. I am remaining hopeful with the brachytherapy and the alternative meds and diet, I can beat this.

    Thank you, everyone, for your love support, and for being here for me. I'm sure I will have more questions, once I start the radiation. In the meantime, I'm going to celebrate the staging, my treatment, and concentrate on healing from the hysterectomy. I feel like I can breathe a little. You guys are the most AMAZING women and I feel truly blessed to have found you. I hope to give back to the newcomers, what you all have given to me - encouragement, wisdom, love, and support.

    Big hugs to each of you. May you truly be blessed for your commitment to walking alongside this journey together.

  • TeddyandBears_Mom
    TeddyandBears_Mom Member Posts: 1,814 Member
    Charissa, Soooo happy for you

    Charissa, Soooo happy for you!  congrats on your outcome. The brachytherapy was the easiest part of this entire journey for me.

    There is a thread that was started shortly after the Ladies going through chemo thread documenting the radiation journey for several of us. You may want to take a look at it to give yourself some insight before you get your brachy.  I think it is titles Let's talk about radiation.

    I'll double check that and edit this information if I have it wrong.

    Time for you to celebrate!

    Love and Hugs,

    Cindi

  • Charissa
    Charissa Member Posts: 129 Member
    edited June 2016 #14
    Thank you, Cindi. I am still

    Thank you, Cindi. I am still trying to process it all. It feels so surreal. We had honestly set ourselves up for the worse, based off what little we were told and how both the OBGyn and oncologist rushed things in the 7 days after the initial lab results came in. We were never given any news of hope other then the oncologist PROMISED to take the very best care of me. He was suspecting the worse, considering my grade, my symptoms, and length of time I had the symptoms.

    It was quite interesting yesterday, as he kept looking at the report, then going into the computer to make sure he wasn't missing anything and comparing this to that - almost, like he was in disbelief. We are definitely celebrating as a family. I am hoping to be able to continue home schooling my daughters through high school and watching them graduate, go off to college, and hopefully one day they both marry and give us grandbabies.

    On the other hand, I feel extremely sensitive to others on here that haven't received such favorable news. It breaks my heart. Regardless, we are all in this together. There is a bond with this group, like no other outside of it. No one truly understands what it is like to receive that phone call and confirmation, until they have lived through it. Life is forever changed, but hopefully all for the good in helping us to see the daily blessings, reprioritize what is important, and how fragile life really is.

    Feeling blessed all the way around.

  • Charissa said:

    Thank you, Cindi. I am still

    Thank you, Cindi. I am still trying to process it all. It feels so surreal. We had honestly set ourselves up for the worse, based off what little we were told and how both the OBGyn and oncologist rushed things in the 7 days after the initial lab results came in. We were never given any news of hope other then the oncologist PROMISED to take the very best care of me. He was suspecting the worse, considering my grade, my symptoms, and length of time I had the symptoms.

    It was quite interesting yesterday, as he kept looking at the report, then going into the computer to make sure he wasn't missing anything and comparing this to that - almost, like he was in disbelief. We are definitely celebrating as a family. I am hoping to be able to continue home schooling my daughters through high school and watching them graduate, go off to college, and hopefully one day they both marry and give us grandbabies.

    On the other hand, I feel extremely sensitive to others on here that haven't received such favorable news. It breaks my heart. Regardless, we are all in this together. There is a bond with this group, like no other outside of it. No one truly understands what it is like to receive that phone call and confirmation, until they have lived through it. Life is forever changed, but hopefully all for the good in helping us to see the daily blessings, reprioritize what is important, and how fragile life really is.

    Feeling blessed all the way around.

    That's the best news!

    Wonderful prognosis from your doctor.  You should certainly feel happy with finally receiving your treatment plans.  And also good news, you get to keep your hair, although you might be a little jealous of my 3/4 inch hair - certainly cool in this summer heat and humidity!  Hugs Nancy

  • Virgil90012
    Virgil90012 Member Posts: 35 Member
    Wonderful News

    Congratulations on such wonderful news. It has been my experience that oncologists don't mince words.  They tell you the truth whether it is good or bad.  So your doctor's comments are extremely positive.  I am very happy for your news and to NED for your future.

    Cathy

  • CheeseQueen57
    CheeseQueen57 Member Posts: 933 Member
    Wonderful News!!!

    So Happy for you!

  • Kvdyson
    Kvdyson Member Posts: 790 Member
    What a relief!

    Charissa, what a wonderful result - congratulations to you!!! Truly a miracle!

  • janaes
    janaes Member Posts: 799 Member
    Charrisa,  I have to admit i

    Charrisa,  I have to admit i was a bit sad that we wouldnt be doing chemo together. But I am glad you have great news.  Thanks for your sensitivity of  those who will be or have faced chemotherapy.  Lots of love. Janae

  • EZLiving66
    EZLiving66 Member Posts: 1,483 Member
    Kiddo, I was so happy for you

    Kiddo, I was so happy for you I stared to cry tears of joy.  That is wonderful news!!!!

    Love,

    Eldri

  • Soup52
    Soup52 Member Posts: 908 Member
    edited June 2016 #21
    Charissa, what wonderful news

    Charissa, what wonderful news! I am so happy for you! Celebrate!