Moli updating

molimoli
molimoli Member Posts: 514
in Uterine/Endometrial Cancer #1

Hello ladies I hope today finds you all in good spirit and tomorrow will come with clearer views and NED.

My Journey continues . Just as I expected, my surgery is postponed although I had my pre-op meeting on Friday I still have a meeting with the plastic surgeon on Tuesday instead of surgery, due to the fact that I requested further surgery as discussed in previous post. I am now of the feeling that I am pushing my luck but I have no intention to have 5 to 7 hours of surgery and wake up with this same old soft, hanging belly,come what may.I will be surprised if no further tumors are found by day of surgery as my pelvic region seems awfully busy,and entire abdomen feels quite heavy but no ascites.  I am now practiced at not letting my brain go into worrying distractions as I wait. It will be what it is , my magic wand is useless so I will go with the flow daily. nothing I can do, although I am now very ready to get this phase over with.

  New date will be set hopefully shortly after Tuesday's visit and so I wait and continue with my herbal drink for what it's worth.

I will update on Tuesday.

I have been reading post s but sometimes feels too tired to respond, response or not I never cease to think of us all as a team so I am hoping that peace will find anyone still struggling to understand why or how cancer found them. Don't waste the energy pondering, there are no answers, it  just is.

Moli loving and hugging . Stay tuned.

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  • Unknown
    Unknown
    #2
    Wishing you a speedy surgery date

    Go for what will make you happy and healthy.  I will hope and hope that nothing further develops between now and then!  Hugs Nancy

  • EZLiving66
    EZLiving66 Member Posts: 1,483 Member
    #3
    Moli, you have mastered the

    Moli, you have mastered the art of waiting!  I, on the other hand, have no patience whatsoever.  I like your attitude though especially with the plastic surgery.  Please keep us updated about the surgery.

    Love,

    Eldri

  • ConnieSW
    ConnieSW Member Posts: 1,688 Member
    #4
    EZLiving66 said:

    Moli, you have mastered the

    Moli, you have mastered the art of waiting!  I, on the other hand, have no patience whatsoever.  I like your attitude though especially with the plastic surgery.  Please keep us updated about the surgery.

    Love,

    Eldri

    Hmmm

    somehow I missed this post, Moli.  Hope you get everything worked out tomorrow and can move ahead quickly.  The waiting was the hardest part for me and I can't imagine how you have managed it so calmly all these months.

    Have you finished settling in to your new home?

  • Lou Ann M
    Lou Ann M Member Posts: 996 Member
    #5
    Sending hugs and prayers, and

    Sending hugs and prayers, and love, Lou Ann

  • molimoli
    molimoli Member Posts: 514
    #6
    ConnieSW said:

    Hmmm

    somehow I missed this post, Moli.  Hope you get everything worked out tomorrow and can move ahead quickly.  The waiting was the hardest part for me and I can't imagine how you have managed it so calmly all these months.

    Have you finished settling in to your new home?

    Thanks Connie I am hoping so too.

    I might have been a little bit harder if I didn't look at it as a reprieve, or had my hands and brain full with to do things.

    I have moved but still getting settled, but just things I can do slowly when I am laid up from surgery.

    I manage to stay calm pretty early into this journey as I have adopted and embraced this "whatever will be will be" attitude it affords me peace of mind.If i can't do anything to reverse or change what 'is' it goes immediately in my imaginary 'later basket' like bills. 

    Moli, Nuff love.

  • molimoli
    molimoli Member Posts: 514
    #7
    Lou Ann M said:

    Sending hugs and prayers, and

    Sending hugs and prayers, and love, Lou Ann

    Thanks

    Much appreciated Lou Ann. I am taking those hugs and prayers with me tomorrow, Plastic surgeon day!! sometimes I question my sanity, LOL but I am braced for the expected roller coaster ride. Que sara sara.

    moli,hugging.

  • molimoli
    molimoli Member Posts: 514
    #8
    unknown said:

    Wishing you a speedy surgery date

    Go for what will make you happy and healthy.  I will hope and hope that nothing further develops between now and then!  Hugs Nancy

    Thanks for wishes and thanks for the hugs,really needed Nancy.

    Healthy is way down the road but for now happy is what I've got, I am thankful.

    I wish for you and all renewed courage,peace of mind, NED and Nuff laughter.

    Moli, Thanking the creator for all of you my team members. Wishing I had healing powers.

     

  • molimoli
    molimoli Member Posts: 514
    #9
    EZLiving66 said:

    Moli, you have mastered the

    Moli, you have mastered the art of waiting!  I, on the other hand, have no patience whatsoever.  I like your attitude though especially with the plastic surgery.  Please keep us updated about the surgery.

    Love,

    Eldri

    Patience is learnt after nuff,nuff crap. Eldri

    Oh yes I have , but I hope my mastery doesn't lead to anything detrimental.Not to worry I am too braced and excited about flat belly, Noticed I haven't mentioned the C. Thats Dr Sujimoto 's business , he can deal with the cancer, I will deal with my expected CUTE.

    Moli, returning love and hugs.

    '

  • Editgrl
    Editgrl Member Posts: 903 Member
    #10
    molimoli said:

    Thanks

    Much appreciated Lou Ann. I am taking those hugs and prayers with me tomorrow, Plastic surgeon day!! sometimes I question my sanity, LOL but I am braced for the expected roller coaster ride. Que sara sara.

    moli,hugging.

    Take peace and strength with

    Take peace and strength with you, too, Moli.  Sending much to you.

    Chris

  • Gardena
    Gardena Member Posts: 102
    #11
    molimoli said:

    Thanks

    Much appreciated Lou Ann. I am taking those hugs and prayers with me tomorrow, Plastic surgeon day!! sometimes I question my sanity, LOL but I am braced for the expected roller coaster ride. Que sara sara.

    moli,hugging.

    Best wishes, Moli~

    Today is the day, Moli... the cute flat stomach is on its way. Best wishes for a smooth and successful surgery and a speedy recovery. l will be thinking about you throughout the day, sending you cosmic (((hugs))).

  • Abbycat2
    Abbycat2 Member Posts: 644 Member
    #12
    Yes, moli, what will be will be...

    I have frequently reminded myself of 'que sara sara' over the years.  I am wishing you a cute and flat stomach and a successful surgery for that other business your doctor is concerned with but which will remain nameless. Glad to hear that you are settling into your new home and the major stuff is done.  Keep us posted, my friend.

    Nuff Love right back at you,

    Cathy

  • giggs100
    giggs100 Member Posts: 91 Member
    #13
    Abbycat2 said:

    Yes, moli, what will be will be...

    I have frequently reminded myself of 'que sara sara' over the years.  I am wishing you a cute and flat stomach and a successful surgery for that other business your doctor is concerned with but which will remain nameless. Glad to hear that you are settling into your new home and the major stuff is done.  Keep us posted, my friend.

    Nuff Love right back at you,

    Cathy

    On your surgery tomorrow

    Best Wishes on your surgery tomorrow.

    Jerri

     

  • molimoli
    molimoli Member Posts: 514
    #14
    Abbycat2 said:

    Yes, moli, what will be will be...

    I have frequently reminded myself of 'que sara sara' over the years.  I am wishing you a cute and flat stomach and a successful surgery for that other business your doctor is concerned with but which will remain nameless. Glad to hear that you are settling into your new home and the major stuff is done.  Keep us posted, my friend.

    Nuff Love right back at you,

    Cathy

    Yu too funny Cathy,

    The 'nameless' thingey won't be let back in my brain.Let the doctor knock himself out trying to cure or manage it.I am doing me. Thanks for well wishes.

    que sara sara has helped me dismiss or put to rest stressful things that means squat in the overall scheme of life,  glad it has come to your rescue too.

    Moli--I am hugging.

     

  • molimoli
    molimoli Member Posts: 514
    #15
    giggs100 said:

    On your surgery tomorrow

    Best Wishes on your surgery tomorrow.

    Jerri

     

    Thanks Jerri

    Jerri I have received and logged the best wishes,  as surgery will be later they will come in handy no doubt.

    Moli--wishing you showers of blessings.

  • molimoli
    molimoli Member Posts: 514
    #16
    Gardena said:

    Best wishes, Moli~

    Today is the day, Moli... the cute flat stomach is on its way. Best wishes for a smooth and successful surgery and a speedy recovery. l will be thinking about you throughout the day, sending you cosmic (((hugs))).

    Thanks Gardena

    I will log all your wishes and unleash them come surgery day.

    My visit with plastic  surgeon today was to confirm his agreement to work with my oncologist, one will remove tumors and one will remove floppy belly.I am currently hosting both conditions. I will need your kind wishes for both .

    Moli sending Nuff love.

  • molimoli
    molimoli Member Posts: 514
    #17
    Editgrl said:

    Take peace and strength with

    Take peace and strength with you, too, Moli.  Sending much to you.

    Chris

    Thanks Chris I can use your wishes, daily.

    I have received the peace and I have received  the strength,thanks for the vibe,I will keep and cradle  them until the hill gets too steep  (as it may) Then I'll cash them in.

    Moli- wishing NED blessings to you and all our sisters.

  • molimoli
    molimoli Member Posts: 514
    #18
    Updating Visit with plastic surgeon.

    My visit was calming and informative, compitent man with excellent and  funny bedside manner.I was not rushed ,He took time to explain the whole procedure and the expected setbacks, He will be away for easter holiday , in the mean time I am on the operating room list and will be called as soon as possible after his return. The secretary thinks  mid April before we will get in but knowing they are willing to accommodate me  diminishes any frustration of waiting period.My cup is nuff,nuff full.

    I will keep updating .

    Have a wonderful holiday when it comes,  May you all stay strong and continue to chase NED in your individual way.

    May the unknown,unseen and unsure powers of Earth be kind to us as we try to descramble this journey in many different ways. 

    Plenty Love my sisters ,cheer up and embrace every new day as we get them at no cost to us, love the gift inspite of our plight. If you are loving others tell them, If you caused others to be sad, fix it,if you are angry with life forgive it and live it.

    If you have loving and supportive partners  kiss 'em now and give thanks. Don't forget to say why you are kissing, surprise kisses makes you a suspect. Love your selves, we come with a no exchange clause.

    Moli-- loving the very thought of us from yonder caring about each other, out of sight but on our minds, total strangers, amazing!!!

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