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  • molimoli
    molimoli Member Posts: 514
    #62
    Kaleena said:

    Moli - thinking of you!

    sending hugs and much more!

    kathy

    Feeling all dem hugs.

    Thanks Kathy ,as I am always thinking of you and your interesting journey,keeps lifting me up.

  • molimoli
    molimoli Member Posts: 514
    #63
    debrajo said:

    Thats my girl!  Make you

    Thats my girl!  Make you happy... God knows there is little joy in this cancer nightmare!  My DIL(42) is "Dying" from metestise breast cancer now.  The mets are in her bones and liver.  She is doing an oral chemo and is stable now.  They gave her 3-10 years(?), but she is very pro-active.  A friend of mine's DIL is also in the same boat and has decided to do nothing...at all.  Her husband helps by doing the MJ in his home.  She is 38 and has a 17 YO and a 7 YO.  It was too late for surgery, chemo didn't stop the tumor growth, neither did radiation.  So she quit everything.  Of the two girls, I think she is the happest.  My DIL is always on the hunt for SOMETHING to keep her stable....very nerve-racking!  So, whatever you are happiest with, so I(we) will be also.  I pray the scan shows a great go-ahead for surgery and that will be that!  Looking for the up-date and keeping up lifted-up.  Your daughter being in love with live is the greatest medicine we mama's can have!  Love to you, Debra

    Love you out there routing for us all like mama bear, Debra

    Thanks a million for your unselfish way. Love Moli.

  • molimoli
    molimoli Member Posts: 514
    #64
    Lou Ann M said:

    Keep that amazing strength

    Keep that amazing strength that you have.  It will help you get through this.  I am so sad that those nasty little cells are finding new spots to hide in you body.  Maybe what the ER doctor saw was something that your surgeon can take care of.  Could be that you will just be short more body parts.  I am missing a bunch by now.  I am glad the ER was able to  you something for the pain. I am thinking of you and wishing you the best.  Hugs and prayers, Lou Ann

    Thanks Lou Ann

    Girl I already feel on my southern end like a room with all the furniture taken out. What will they take next, dear Lord . I am braced and ready though, I just hope the doctors stay with the surgery plans for the 2 big pelvic ones  to save my intestines.

    Always  Nuff love. Moli.

  • molimoli
    molimoli Member Posts: 514
    #65
    Abbycat2 said:

    Oh, Moli, your post breaks my heart!

     

    And yet, in spite of it all, you continue to show such strength and grace.  You hugged the doctor in your mind!  Such a gentle soul you are, Moli.  I am rooting for a good outcome from your surgery and look forward to hearing an update from you on the 21st. Have you told your girls that you will be having surgery soon?

    Nuff love, my dear,

    Cathy 

    Thanks Cathy for your kind wishes.

    No my Dear Cathy I haven't told a soul anything. My oncologist/surgeon agreed that I needn't tell until my date is reset.As I was told of the cancellation of surgery before Christmas I went away instead of  having that planned tell all meeting.

    Oh if you had seen the sorrowful face on that emerg. doctor you would have ached to hug him too, He didn't lighten up until I told him I have fully prepared for this Tango with Cancer ,win or lose.

    Now I will go get a sleep and face my tomorrow rested. Will update.

    I feel the Love, I am hugging you my friend. Please keep a spare hug for tomorrow. I have a feeling I'll need some hugging.

    Moli.

  • ConnieSW
    ConnieSW Member Posts: 1,688 Member
    #66
    molimoli said:

    Pain gone with Naproxin

    Yes Connie dear I think they are always on the watch for bad words , my lips are almost bitten off trying to get my fingers to obey.

    I too hope its better than I have braced for , but tomorrow will tell and in the night time I will update. Thanks for the needed support.

    Plenty hugs. save me some hugs for tomorrow , ok?

    Moli.

    Hugs

    on the way

  • Abbycat2
    Abbycat2 Member Posts: 644 Member
    #67
    molimoli said:

    Love you out there routing for us all like mama bear, Debra

    Thanks a million for your unselfish way. Love Moli.

    You're on my mind, moli

     

    as I know that today is a big day for you.  My thoughts and good wishes are with you and I wish that I could lend a my support to you right now, today,  in person.  I would even brave the cold weather in your part of the world! Burrrrrrrrr.......

    Loving thoughts,

    Cathy

  • Editgrl
    Editgrl Member Posts: 903 Member
    #68
    Abbycat2 said:

    You're on my mind, moli

     

    as I know that today is a big day for you.  My thoughts and good wishes are with you and I wish that I could lend a my support to you right now, today,  in person.  I would even brave the cold weather in your part of the world! Burrrrrrrrr.......

    Loving thoughts,

    Cathy

    Thinking of you, Moli

    I hope you can feel all the love and hugs coming to you today.

    Chris

  • Cucu me
    Cucu me Member Posts: 213 Member
    #69
    Abbycat2 said:

    Oh, Moli, your post breaks my heart!

     

    And yet, in spite of it all, you continue to show such strength and grace.  You hugged the doctor in your mind!  Such a gentle soul you are, Moli.  I am rooting for a good outcome from your surgery and look forward to hearing an update from you on the 21st. Have you told your girls that you will be having surgery soon?

    Nuff love, my dear,

    Cathy 

    Moli,

    I pray for you to have luck and get better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Best to all sisters!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • TeddyandBears_Mom
    TeddyandBears_Mom Member Posts: 1,814 Member
    #70
    Editgrl said:

    Thinking of you, Moli

    I hope you can feel all the love and hugs coming to you today.

    Chris

    Me too Moli

    I hope you got the news we all want for you. And get a surgery date asap.

    Love and Hugs,

    Cindi

  • molimoli
    molimoli Member Posts: 514
    #71
    Doing the happy dance Ladies.My surgeon/oncologist is fabulous

    Scan remains the same as previous. No new cancer seen. NO changes in once fast growing pelvic tumors.Still there though.

    No Known reason for that unusual pain  I mentioned earlier this week. My surgeon said the emerg. doctor was alarmed to see on his scan  my 2 pelvic tumors and hearing from me that they  had not been treated at all with anything,Surgeon informed and consoled him on their telephone chat,he was concerned that no one is caring for me. AAh!

    Moving on March 1st. Surgery on March 15th. 

    No kind of ostomy expected as per surgeon but I am braced anyways.Hospital stay for approx.7 days.I will be home in 3,  me think.

    Surgeons ok's the delay to allow me to move,  said with tumors on a lull mode he is not worried, no significant plan changing occurence will happen with the delay.Yippee. Maybe I can sneak a cheap little trip to somewhere in the wait time,who knows.I get restless at times in that caseI will pray some money down (like manna)  starting now or my broke behind will be staying put and rest as it is suppose to.

    Thanks to all for such encouragement and unconditional support even when your heads tell you that I am clearly mad. My corner needs you all to stay put. Thanks.

    Nuff Love Moli. 

     

     

     

  • ConnieSW
    ConnieSW Member Posts: 1,688 Member
    #72
    molimoli said:

    Doing the happy dance Ladies.My surgeon/oncologist is fabulous

    Scan remains the same as previous. No new cancer seen. NO changes in once fast growing pelvic tumors.Still there though.

    No Known reason for that unusual pain  I mentioned earlier this week. My surgeon said the emerg. doctor was alarmed to see on his scan  my 2 pelvic tumors and hearing from me that they  had not been treated at all with anything,Surgeon informed and consoled him on their telephone chat,he was concerned that no one is caring for me. AAh!

    Moving on March 1st. Surgery on March 15th. 

    No kind of ostomy expected as per surgeon but I am braced anyways.Hospital stay for approx.7 days.I will be home in 3,  me think.

    Surgeons ok's the delay to allow me to move,  said with tumors on a lull mode he is not worried, no significant plan changing occurence will happen with the delay.Yippee. Maybe I can sneak a cheap little trip to somewhere in the wait time,who knows.I get restless at times in that caseI will pray some money down (like manna)  starting now or my broke behind will be staying put and rest as it is suppose to.

    Thanks to all for such encouragement and unconditional support even when your heads tell you that I am clearly mad. My corner needs you all to stay put. Thanks.

    Nuff Love Moli. 

     

     

     

    Feet are tapping

    i am delighted that my wish for you came true.  Now, on to practical things.  Do you have a move date scheduled?

  • TeddyandBears_Mom
    TeddyandBears_Mom Member Posts: 1,814 Member
    #73
    ConnieSW said:

    Feet are tapping

    i am delighted that my wish for you came true.  Now, on to practical things.  Do you have a move date scheduled?

    Happy Dance

    GREAT NEWS Moli! I was so hoping things would still be stable for you!!!!!

    I do wish it was sooner though. Seems like such a long time away.

    Good luck with your move. Get HELP and don't try to do too much.

    Love and Hugs,

    Cindi

  • Lou Ann M
    Lou Ann M Member Posts: 996 Member
    #74
    molimoli said:

    Doing the happy dance Ladies.My surgeon/oncologist is fabulous

    Scan remains the same as previous. No new cancer seen. NO changes in once fast growing pelvic tumors.Still there though.

    No Known reason for that unusual pain  I mentioned earlier this week. My surgeon said the emerg. doctor was alarmed to see on his scan  my 2 pelvic tumors and hearing from me that they  had not been treated at all with anything,Surgeon informed and consoled him on their telephone chat,he was concerned that no one is caring for me. AAh!

    Moving on March 1st. Surgery on March 15th. 

    No kind of ostomy expected as per surgeon but I am braced anyways.Hospital stay for approx.7 days.I will be home in 3,  me think.

    Surgeons ok's the delay to allow me to move,  said with tumors on a lull mode he is not worried, no significant plan changing occurence will happen with the delay.Yippee. Maybe I can sneak a cheap little trip to somewhere in the wait time,who knows.I get restless at times in that caseI will pray some money down (like manna)  starting now or my broke behind will be staying put and rest as it is suppose to.

    Thanks to all for such encouragement and unconditional support even when your heads tell you that I am clearly mad. My corner needs you all to stay put. Thanks.

    Nuff Love Moli. 

     

     

     

    Soooooooooo happy for you

    That is good news.  nothing new. Your surgeon sounds great, because he listens to you.. I am glad he is giving you time to move.  I think slipping a small trip in would be a good idea.  This is encouraging.  Hugs and prayers, Lou Ann

  • EZLiving66
    EZLiving66 Member Posts: 1,483 Member
    #75
    molimoli said:

    Doing the happy dance Ladies.My surgeon/oncologist is fabulous

    Scan remains the same as previous. No new cancer seen. NO changes in once fast growing pelvic tumors.Still there though.

    No Known reason for that unusual pain  I mentioned earlier this week. My surgeon said the emerg. doctor was alarmed to see on his scan  my 2 pelvic tumors and hearing from me that they  had not been treated at all with anything,Surgeon informed and consoled him on their telephone chat,he was concerned that no one is caring for me. AAh!

    Moving on March 1st. Surgery on March 15th. 

    No kind of ostomy expected as per surgeon but I am braced anyways.Hospital stay for approx.7 days.I will be home in 3,  me think.

    Surgeons ok's the delay to allow me to move,  said with tumors on a lull mode he is not worried, no significant plan changing occurence will happen with the delay.Yippee. Maybe I can sneak a cheap little trip to somewhere in the wait time,who knows.I get restless at times in that caseI will pray some money down (like manna)  starting now or my broke behind will be staying put and rest as it is suppose to.

    Thanks to all for such encouragement and unconditional support even when your heads tell you that I am clearly mad. My corner needs you all to stay put. Thanks.

    Nuff Love Moli. 

     

     

     

    I'm so glad the tumors are

    I'm so glad the tumors are not growing and you have your surgery rescheduled.  Hopefully you can get in a little trip before coming back to "reality" whatever that may be.

    Love,

    Eldri

  • molimoli
    molimoli Member Posts: 514
    #76
    ConnieSW said:

    Feet are tapping

    i am delighted that my wish for you came true.  Now, on to practical things.  Do you have a move date scheduled?

    tap away my sister Connie

    Moving date is March, 1st.Should be settled in within 3 days.I have gotten rid of most things just taking minimal stuff. A fresh start.

    Tapping too, Nuff Love Moli ,

  • molimoli
    molimoli Member Posts: 514
    #77
    TeddyandBears_Mom said:

    Happy Dance

    GREAT NEWS Moli! I was so hoping things would still be stable for you!!!!!

    I do wish it was sooner though. Seems like such a long time away.

    Good luck with your move. Get HELP and don't try to do too much.

    Love and Hugs,

    Cindi

    I thought the same Cindi,

    January. would have been ideal as I would have had a few weeks to recoup before moving date, but some powerful entity wipes out planned dates when it's not in our best interest, we on the other end must stay flexible.I go with the flow. In the mean time I am doing what I do to hopefully keep tumors in a lull. Doctors told me to not change a thing, but lose 10-15 lbs. I plan to.

    And so I will occupy the time so I don't watch it so much. Back to you  I am sending loving hugs.

    Moli,

  • molimoli
    molimoli Member Posts: 514
    #78
    Lou Ann M said:

    Soooooooooo happy for you

    That is good news.  nothing new. Your surgeon sounds great, because he listens to you.. I am glad he is giving you time to move.  I think slipping a small trip in would be a good idea.  This is encouraging.  Hugs and prayers, Lou Ann

    Lou Ann me too so happy the

    Lou Ann me too so happy the smile won't leave my face. I have been thinking, on  March 1st I will be in a different new surrounding  so I can pretend I am on vacation ,as I make it my own, if only for a week. Money saving idea , it keeps popping up in my head.My head tries to disrespect my heart sometimes, My heart wants to go somewhere,but head is acting up,I think thats where the brain is. we'll see my sister, we will see.

    We as a group must never cease to Pray, Wish, Hope , for each other's Health ,Strength and contentment. I am resolved to this .

    Moli

  • molimoli
    molimoli Member Posts: 514
    #79
    EZLiving66 said:

    I'm so glad the tumors are

    I'm so glad the tumors are not growing and you have your surgery rescheduled.  Hopefully you can get in a little trip before coming back to "reality" whatever that may be.

    Love,

    Eldri

    Eldri that is why it's good

    Eldri that is why it's good to be braced for all eventualities with backup plans for coping.Reality keeps a finger on the door bells all the time.I have learnt the art of taking deep breaths, I am not a multitasker so I cant cry and deep breath at the same time ( so i 've convinced myself ) so I pick deep breathing 99.9% of the time.

    Enough about me , how have you been doing lately?  I need you to know that we care and wishes your fears away.I never fail to talk to the Creator about us, I(For what it's worth) I hope for intervention by way of a scientific break through in Cancer care from an honest Research Scientist who cares about people more than money.  Waiting, Moli.

    Plenty Love Eldri

  • EZLiving66
    EZLiving66 Member Posts: 1,483 Member
    #80
    molimoli said:

    Eldri that is why it's good

    Eldri that is why it's good to be braced for all eventualities with backup plans for coping.Reality keeps a finger on the door bells all the time.I have learnt the art of taking deep breaths, I am not a multitasker so I cant cry and deep breath at the same time ( so i 've convinced myself ) so I pick deep breathing 99.9% of the time.

    Enough about me , how have you been doing lately?  I need you to know that we care and wishes your fears away.I never fail to talk to the Creator about us, I(For what it's worth) I hope for intervention by way of a scientific break through in Cancer care from an honest Research Scientist who cares about people more than money.  Waiting, Moli.

    Plenty Love Eldri

    I'm taking one day at a time

    I'm taking one day at a time but I do, as always, have Plan A, Plan B and even Plan C all figured out.  I'm concentrating on getting my wound healed then maybe see about physical therapy for my hip.  

    Life is what it is but it's nice we have each other as our own personal cheerleaders.

    Love,

    Eldri

  • Editgrl
    Editgrl Member Posts: 903 Member
    #81
    happy for you!

    I broke out into a big smile when I read your post! March does seem a ways away but

    with your move I bet the time will go quickly. Your surgeon does sound like a gem.

    Chris

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