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MoliAbbycat2 said:Moli, how are you doing?
I am hoping that the Christmas and New Year's holidays brought you much joy visiting with your girls and grandchildren. Have you moved into your new home? I remember that you said that you would be having your surgery tomorrow and I just want you to know that you have been on my mind and I am wishing for the very best surgical outcome for you.
Let us hear from you! Take good care of yourself, Moli.
Nuff Love,
Cathy
I CSN e-mailed Moli last night, but have not heard back. She is due her surgery tomorrow. Wishing her the very best with whatever she decides. Nuff love to Moli!
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She was last signed inAbbycat2 said:Ladies, I am worried about
Moli. I hope that her surgery went quite well and she is doing fine.
Nuff love to you, Moli!
Cathy
on the 4th so wouldn't have seen our postings before her surgery. Let's keep sending good vibes her way.
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MoliConnieSW said:She was last signed in
on the 4th so wouldn't have seen our postings before her surgery. Let's keep sending good vibes her way.
I suspect Moli is still some what sedated. From what she told us, it was going to be a very extensive surgery. Hopefully we will hear from her soon!
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MoliTeddyandBears_Mom said:Moli
I suspect Moli is still some what sedated. From what she told us, it was going to be a very extensive surgery. Hopefully we will hear from her soon!
Missing you girl. I hope you are healing. Prayers headed your way. Lou Ann
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I hope she is doingLou Ann M said:Moli
Missing you girl. I hope you are healing. Prayers headed your way. Lou Ann
I hope she is doing ok.....maybe just a little post surgery recovery time?
Love,
Eldri
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Thank you all
for your concern and good wishes. I must say" SORRY" out loud for not posting to inform you all that I wouldnt be having surgery as planned on the 6th. The assisting surgeon could not do that date after something unforseen came up for him.. I was so disappointed that when I was notified I immediately booked a flight out and left on the 22nd of December for a brain calming vacation, I tried to post on the board to notify you all on the 4th but could not get my cell phone to properly function as I was trying to use wifi as no internet was available.My attempts failed. I returned home late last night so just now got the chance to send my apology.
On the 11th I will get a new scan as per. the surgeon , to give him a current view, then upon the assisting Dr's return a new date will be set . I enjoyed my trip so much that I secretly thanked my creator for the reprieve unintentionally given by the absconding surgeon. I was offered a back up surgeon for the 6th but I declined.
My surgeon advised me to plan a trip and go somewhere with distractions from the surgery so I did just that. He assured me that the delay will not cause any problems .
I didn't do my planned christmas shibang at home as I am fully packed and didn't yet move , and would be too overworked, so I took an unearned vacation from doing nothing,Is it only me that has gotten lazy and actually identify it as plain lazy hiding out as cancer's effect? It is not fatigue at all, it is laziness intensified and I am unashamedly loving it.
I hope you all will have a cancer free or cancer controlled year, keep the faith and stay positive despite the journey.Thanks for remembering your prodigal sister.
I have managed to stay very well , No noticed side effects of these tumors,no felt sickness of any kind, I am determined not to be concerned about what is going on inside of me , Not in my control so won't rent space in my head pondering.
I am hugging,Nuff love, Moli.
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molimolimoli said:Thank you all
for your concern and good wishes. I must say" SORRY" out loud for not posting to inform you all that I wouldnt be having surgery as planned on the 6th. The assisting surgeon could not do that date after something unforseen came up for him.. I was so disappointed that when I was notified I immediately booked a flight out and left on the 22nd of December for a brain calming vacation, I tried to post on the board to notify you all on the 4th but could not get my cell phone to properly function as I was trying to use wifi as no internet was available.My attempts failed. I returned home late last night so just now got the chance to send my apology.
On the 11th I will get a new scan as per. the surgeon , to give him a current view, then upon the assisting Dr's return a new date will be set . I enjoyed my trip so much that I secretly thanked my creator for the reprieve unintentionally given by the absconding surgeon. I was offered a back up surgeon for the 6th but I declined.
My surgeon advised me to plan a trip and go somewhere with distractions from the surgery so I did just that. He assured me that the delay will not cause any problems .
I didn't do my planned christmas shibang at home as I am fully packed and didn't yet move , and would be too overworked, so I took an unearned vacation from doing nothing,Is it only me that has gotten lazy and actually identify it as plain lazy hiding out as cancer's effect? It is not fatigue at all, it is laziness intensified and I am unashamedly loving it.
I hope you all will have a cancer free or cancer controlled year, keep the faith and stay positive despite the journey.Thanks for remembering your prodigal sister.
I have managed to stay very well , No noticed side effects of these tumors,no felt sickness of any kind, I am determined not to be concerned about what is going on inside of me , Not in my control so won't rent space in my head pondering.
I am hugging,Nuff love, Moli.
Glad you responded back and that you had another great respite from the cancer concerns.
Now, stay strong so that you heal quickly from surgery whenever that happens!
Please keep us informed.
Love and Hugs,
Cindi
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Thankful for your "unearned"molimoli said:Thank you all
for your concern and good wishes. I must say" SORRY" out loud for not posting to inform you all that I wouldnt be having surgery as planned on the 6th. The assisting surgeon could not do that date after something unforseen came up for him.. I was so disappointed that when I was notified I immediately booked a flight out and left on the 22nd of December for a brain calming vacation, I tried to post on the board to notify you all on the 4th but could not get my cell phone to properly function as I was trying to use wifi as no internet was available.My attempts failed. I returned home late last night so just now got the chance to send my apology.
On the 11th I will get a new scan as per. the surgeon , to give him a current view, then upon the assisting Dr's return a new date will be set . I enjoyed my trip so much that I secretly thanked my creator for the reprieve unintentionally given by the absconding surgeon. I was offered a back up surgeon for the 6th but I declined.
My surgeon advised me to plan a trip and go somewhere with distractions from the surgery so I did just that. He assured me that the delay will not cause any problems .
I didn't do my planned christmas shibang at home as I am fully packed and didn't yet move , and would be too overworked, so I took an unearned vacation from doing nothing,Is it only me that has gotten lazy and actually identify it as plain lazy hiding out as cancer's effect? It is not fatigue at all, it is laziness intensified and I am unashamedly loving it.
I hope you all will have a cancer free or cancer controlled year, keep the faith and stay positive despite the journey.Thanks for remembering your prodigal sister.
I have managed to stay very well , No noticed side effects of these tumors,no felt sickness of any kind, I am determined not to be concerned about what is going on inside of me , Not in my control so won't rent space in my head pondering.
I am hugging,Nuff love, Moli.
Thankful for your "unearned" vacation. It was probably just what you needed. I know the hard part was the extra waiting. When you have your mind all prepared for something and then have to postpone it is disappointing to say the least. I hope you get a new surgery date soon. Take care . Hugs and prayers from Lou Ann
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Hi Molimolimoli said:Thank you all
for your concern and good wishes. I must say" SORRY" out loud for not posting to inform you all that I wouldnt be having surgery as planned on the 6th. The assisting surgeon could not do that date after something unforseen came up for him.. I was so disappointed that when I was notified I immediately booked a flight out and left on the 22nd of December for a brain calming vacation, I tried to post on the board to notify you all on the 4th but could not get my cell phone to properly function as I was trying to use wifi as no internet was available.My attempts failed. I returned home late last night so just now got the chance to send my apology.
On the 11th I will get a new scan as per. the surgeon , to give him a current view, then upon the assisting Dr's return a new date will be set . I enjoyed my trip so much that I secretly thanked my creator for the reprieve unintentionally given by the absconding surgeon. I was offered a back up surgeon for the 6th but I declined.
My surgeon advised me to plan a trip and go somewhere with distractions from the surgery so I did just that. He assured me that the delay will not cause any problems .
I didn't do my planned christmas shibang at home as I am fully packed and didn't yet move , and would be too overworked, so I took an unearned vacation from doing nothing,Is it only me that has gotten lazy and actually identify it as plain lazy hiding out as cancer's effect? It is not fatigue at all, it is laziness intensified and I am unashamedly loving it.
I hope you all will have a cancer free or cancer controlled year, keep the faith and stay positive despite the journey.Thanks for remembering your prodigal sister.
I have managed to stay very well , No noticed side effects of these tumors,no felt sickness of any kind, I am determined not to be concerned about what is going on inside of me , Not in my control so won't rent space in my head pondering.
I am hugging,Nuff love, Moli.
I have to remind myself of your sentence, not in my control, or I let my mind wander. Actually, I was going through my jewelry today trying to figure out what to hang around my neck to distract people from the white elephant head above, when I saw my serenity bracelet that I bought after my husband died. I will wear it daily just to remind me not to worry about things I can't control. You sound like you've got it together. Lots of wishes for the days to follow. Nancy
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So glad to hear from you!molimoli said:Thank you all
for your concern and good wishes. I must say" SORRY" out loud for not posting to inform you all that I wouldnt be having surgery as planned on the 6th. The assisting surgeon could not do that date after something unforseen came up for him.. I was so disappointed that when I was notified I immediately booked a flight out and left on the 22nd of December for a brain calming vacation, I tried to post on the board to notify you all on the 4th but could not get my cell phone to properly function as I was trying to use wifi as no internet was available.My attempts failed. I returned home late last night so just now got the chance to send my apology.
On the 11th I will get a new scan as per. the surgeon , to give him a current view, then upon the assisting Dr's return a new date will be set . I enjoyed my trip so much that I secretly thanked my creator for the reprieve unintentionally given by the absconding surgeon. I was offered a back up surgeon for the 6th but I declined.
My surgeon advised me to plan a trip and go somewhere with distractions from the surgery so I did just that. He assured me that the delay will not cause any problems .
I didn't do my planned christmas shibang at home as I am fully packed and didn't yet move , and would be too overworked, so I took an unearned vacation from doing nothing,Is it only me that has gotten lazy and actually identify it as plain lazy hiding out as cancer's effect? It is not fatigue at all, it is laziness intensified and I am unashamedly loving it.
I hope you all will have a cancer free or cancer controlled year, keep the faith and stay positive despite the journey.Thanks for remembering your prodigal sister.
I have managed to stay very well , No noticed side effects of these tumors,no felt sickness of any kind, I am determined not to be concerned about what is going on inside of me , Not in my control so won't rent space in my head pondering.
I am hugging,Nuff love, Moli.
Moli,
So glad that you go a much needed vacation! No apologies needed. I feel your hugs and am hugging you back!
There is so much I would love to say but for some reason my brain is blank today. Sorry!
Just know that you are in my heart and prayers
Kathy
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Useless worry,robs time.unknown said:Hi Moli
I have to remind myself of your sentence, not in my control, or I let my mind wander. Actually, I was going through my jewelry today trying to figure out what to hang around my neck to distract people from the white elephant head above, when I saw my serenity bracelet that I bought after my husband died. I will wear it daily just to remind me not to worry about things I can't control. You sound like you've got it together. Lots of wishes for the days to follow. Nancy
Hi Nancy , Welcome to this board and thanks for your response.Sorry about your Husband ,I know similar pain.
Word of advice: when your head is wondering down Worry lane and dragging your whole being with it , just pinch your bracelet,make a mental U turn and free yourself of the unpleasant thoughts. Always remind yourself that none of this Cancer crap is on account of any of our actions, we didn't cause it ,we don't understand it,We can't control it, our doctors don't understand it,Total control of it has them beat, The Creator didn't promise to rescue us from it, a reprieve,maybe, but rescue ???.Bearing all of this in mind,worrying is a sad waste of expensive time, with time we will all come to know that but it takes time and events. after realizing that ,then we can actually live, and celebrate every " Alive " day.
I don't always have it together Nancy but I am resolved to be the best 'worry ducker' there is.I am winning at this point,that's all.
Don't even worry about the elephant head unless it has a tusk, I wouldn't.
Take life's newness one day at a time. There are still pleasantries to enjoy.
I am hugging, nuff blessings. Moli
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Blank brain is our IDKaleena said:So glad to hear from you!
Moli,
So glad that you go a much needed vacation! No apologies needed. I feel your hugs and am hugging you back!
There is so much I would love to say but for some reason my brain is blank today. Sorry!
Just know that you are in my heart and prayers
Kathy
Thanks Kathy, Dont give the foggy brain a thought, from we heard the words "You Have Cancer' foggyness becomes our constant companion, Not to mention when it's best friend Chemo visits to add log to the fire.
We all love you ,foggy head and all. I am still hugging,Thanks for your prayers, nuff Love Moli.
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I am indeed thankful .Lou Ann M said:Thankful for your "unearned"
Thankful for your "unearned" vacation. It was probably just what you needed. I know the hard part was the extra waiting. When you have your mind all prepared for something and then have to postpone it is disappointing to say the least. I hope you get a new surgery date soon. Take care . Hugs and prayers from Lou Ann
LouAnn I really needed the distraction from the wait and the disappointment of it,So I embraced this quiet vacation, I did nothing but ate,slept, swam and over indulge in food and lots of mangoes.I have put on more pounds than I care to disclose here,now my ever present belly flap has become a dome, for another part of my anatomy,which will remain nameless here.
I am now watching a terrible snow storm happening here and praying that I dont have to cancel my scan for later today, Scan dates are far between so I hope it's not the case, but whatever will be will be.
I will update re; surgery date and progress.
I am feeling the hug,and hugging back. Plenty, plenty blessings for you and all our sisters here. Moli.
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Great advice Cindi, I need toTeddyandBears_Mom said:moli
Glad you responded back and that you had another great respite from the cancer concerns.
Now, stay strong so that you heal quickly from surgery whenever that happens!
Please keep us informed.
Love and Hugs,
Cindi
Great advice Cindi, I need to stay strong to deal with what's coming down the pike, Can't wait for this to be behind me but patience is going to be practiced on my part. Thanks for caring, I feel it,
I am hugging and loving, nuff blessings as you gather back your strength ,and embrace NED.
Moli hugging.
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Moli, so very glad to see you posting here!molimoli said:Blank brain is our ID
Thanks Kathy, Dont give the foggy brain a thought, from we heard the words "You Have Cancer' foggyness becomes our constant companion, Not to mention when it's best friend Chemo visits to add log to the fire.
We all love you ,foggy head and all. I am still hugging,Thanks for your prayers, nuff Love Moli.
I have been concerned about you and am thrilled to see you post again. A much needed vacation is a welcomed distraction; it helps to clear the cobwebs from one's mind. I hope that you had a great vacation and enjoyed eating those mango's (I have a mango tree in my yard-ummm!). Hopefully, you can have your scan today as scheduled. It is good to hear that you are feeling fine, too. Please keep us posted.
Nuff Love right back at you!
Cathy
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MoliAbbycat2 said:Moli, so very glad to see you posting here!
I have been concerned about you and am thrilled to see you post again. A much needed vacation is a welcomed distraction; it helps to clear the cobwebs from one's mind. I hope that you had a great vacation and enjoyed eating those mango's (I have a mango tree in my yard-ummm!). Hopefully, you can have your scan today as scheduled. It is good to hear that you are feeling fine, too. Please keep us posted.
Nuff Love right back at you!
Cathy
i hope the scan shows that while you vacationed, the tumors lazed around, too.
Will you complete your move soo?. I always hate being unsettled.
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Thanks ConnieConnieSW said:Moli
i hope the scan shows that while you vacationed, the tumors lazed around, too.
Will you complete your move soo?. I always hate being unsettled.
Connie soon is what I hoped for , but I am now going with the flow, On the 21st I will be making major, maybe new decisions on my life ,moving forward, update will explain. I too hope the tumors stayed put with no tumor relatives visiting their unwelcomed sibling in my poor belly.
Hugs. Hope all is going smoothly with you. Moli.
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Sorry to cause you and others to wonder or worry.Abbycat2 said:Moli, so very glad to see you posting here!
I have been concerned about you and am thrilled to see you post again. A much needed vacation is a welcomed distraction; it helps to clear the cobwebs from one's mind. I hope that you had a great vacation and enjoyed eating those mango's (I have a mango tree in my yard-ummm!). Hopefully, you can have your scan today as scheduled. It is good to hear that you are feeling fine, too. Please keep us posted.
Nuff Love right back at you!
Cathy
Cathy I did have the scan on the 12 instead, Yes ,I am feeling fine physically but getting bored waiting for outcomes and decisions. I need to get "it" over with ,whatever "it" is. Update will explain.
As always,Nuff love, Moli.
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