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skeets1961
skeets1961 Member Posts: 56
in Colorectal Cancer #1

Last time i wrote, it was about trying to get my husband's pain under control.  Well, after 3 days in the hospital he was sent home with a pain pump with dilauted and everything seemed better.  On August 10th, he went to the hospital with a bowel obstruction and was in the hospital for 15 days before passing.  He left us on tuesday, 08/25.  I still can't believe it.  Our 35th anniversary is next month.

I may be back from time to time but i want you all to know that you've been very helpful and i hope & pray you all do well and overcome this terrible disease.  May God give you many blessings of health.

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  • Lovekitties
    Lovekitties Member Posts: 3,364 Member
    #2
    Sorry for your loss

    I am so very sorry to hear of your loss.

    I know there are no words that can make you feel better, but know that all of us here are keeping you and your family in our thoughts.

    Hugs and love,

    Marie who loves kitties

  • Trubrit
    Trubrit Member Posts: 5,804 Member
    #3
    Dear Skeets

    I am so very sorry that your husband has passed. My heart aches for you. 

    The pain of his loss will live with you forever. I pray that you will find solace in your happy memories. 

    I know you anniversary will be soon, and I hope that you can spend the day surrounded by his memories. Make it special. It is still your anniversary, and you should still celebrate, though not in the usual way. 

    I am sending cyber hugs. 

    I hope you are surrounded by loved ones at this time. 

    Blessings!

    Sue - Trubrit

  • Helen321
    Helen321 Member Posts: 1,460 Member
    #4
    Hi Skeets, I am so sorry for

    Hi Skeets, I am so sorry for the loss of your husband.  I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.  May you have peace in your heart.

  • JanJan63
    JanJan63 Member Posts: 2,478 Member
    #5
    Skeets, I am so very sorry. I

    Skeets, I am so very sorry. I just have no words. I pray you find peace and comfort now and in the future.

    Jan

  • Semira
    Semira Member Posts: 381 Member
    #6
    oh dear

    so sorry for your loss. 

    Sending a silent hug and strength

    Petra

  • UncleBuddy
    UncleBuddy Member Posts: 1,019 Member
    #7
    I'm so sorry!

    This disease is just awful. I wish you the best!

     

  • jen2012
    jen2012 Member Posts: 1,607 Member
    #8
    I'm very sorry skeets.  

    I'm very sorry skeets.  

  • LindaK.
    LindaK. Member Posts: 506 Member
    #9
    So sorry

    This news is hard to share.  My husband had the pain pump with dilauded while in hospice, it was a Godsend for him (and me).  Do you think his pain was from the obstruction?  It just stinks.  I got through what would have been our 30th anniversary in the spring.  It was tough, but I spent it by myself, spreading some of his ashes in our favorite places.  I wrote on some heart shaped balloons and sent them to heaven.

    I'm sorry for what you are going through now and his last few months.

    Linda

  • Cathleen Mary
    Cathleen Mary Member Posts: 827 Member
    #10
    LindaK. said:

    So sorry

    This news is hard to share.  My husband had the pain pump with dilauded while in hospice, it was a Godsend for him (and me).  Do you think his pain was from the obstruction?  It just stinks.  I got through what would have been our 30th anniversary in the spring.  It was tough, but I spent it by myself, spreading some of his ashes in our favorite places.  I wrote on some heart shaped balloons and sent them to heaven.

    I'm sorry for what you are going through now and his last few months.

    Linda

    so very sorry, Skeets. Be

    so very sorry, Skeets. Be assured of my thoughts and prayers during the difficult days ahead. 

    CM

  • janderson1964
    janderson1964 Member Posts: 2,215 Member
    #11
    I am truly, truly so sorry

    I am truly, truly so sorry for your loss.

  • danker
    danker Member Posts: 1,276 Member
    #12
    loss

    He is now Pain Free foever!  Good luck to you!

  • Kathleen808
    Kathleen808 Member Posts: 2,342 Member
    #13
    So very sorry

    I am so very sorry for your tremendous loss. 

     

    Aloha,

    Kathleen

  • Aud
    Aud Member Posts: 479 Member
    #14
    I am so sorry for the loss of

    I am so sorry for the loss of your husband.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.

  • janderson1964
    janderson1964 Member Posts: 2,215 Member
    #15
    I am so truly sorry for your

    I am so truly sorry for your heartbreaking loss.

  • Phil64
    Phil64 Member Posts: 838 Member
    #16
    so sorry for your loss.

    so sorry for your loss. Sending you positive energy, light, and love. And a big virtual hug.

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