The loss of another friend

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  • minibull
    minibull Member Posts: 56 Member

    I forgot

    I forgot that CSN has this new policy of deleting the personal page of those who have passed.

    It makes me angry to just have them deleted and we can't see it any more.

     

    How do they know?

    How does CSN even find out that one has passed?  

     

  • Lovekitties
    Lovekitties Member Posts: 3,364 Member
    minibull said:

    How do they know?

    How does CSN even find out that one has passed?  

     

    They monitor the boards

    I don't know for sure but suspect that there is some kind of monitoring software which looks for specific words, or it may just be that they manually monitor the titles.

  • herdizziness
    herdizziness Member Posts: 3,624 Member
    minibull said:

    How do they know?

    How does CSN even find out that one has passed?  

     

    They monitor us

    They see someone has passed from what we write and jump on it to Remove it.  Why they get rid of the "about me" page baffles me to no end, it's something we put up for everyone to read, and when we die, they take our thoughts away as if we didn't exist.  This really bothers me to no end, that my words will not remain with the exception of what we post on discussion boards, and their software isn't good enough to let us see every post a person has posted.  I put Pepe's user name and only three discussion posts came up for me, and Pepe wrote much, much more then that.  It's a shame, because they do good on most everything else, and they give us this page to talk to each other, which I really appreciate, but you would have to PM obituaries to one another if you're not connected on Facebook, because they take the obits down right away as well, at least they do let us notify each other of a death so we dont have to wonder what happened to them, why they left, because a lot of times it's assumed they got well and just don't post anymore.

    Winter Marie

  • Kathleen808
    Kathleen808 Member Posts: 2,342 Member
    Pepe

    Dearest Pepe.... such  a wonderful loving man.  Pepe always worked to keep us together.  He focused on things we liked to do and asked us questions about ourselves.  Pepe, you will be missed.  My heart breaks for his family.  Such an amazing man will be dearly missed.

    Aloha,

    Kathleen

  • Momof2plusteentwins
    Momof2plusteentwins Member Posts: 509 Member
    Pepe

    So sad, he has been missing from board for a while.  You always hope that missing means good.  He always had our Friday posts asking what everyone was doing for the weekend.  Too many gone, cancer sucks.

     

  • Nana b
    Nana b Member Posts: 3,030 Member

    Pepe

    So sad, he has been missing from board for a while.  You always hope that missing means good.  He always had our Friday posts asking what everyone was doing for the weekend.  Too many gone, cancer sucks.

     

    We are probably on their

    We are probably on their statistics board up in the cloud. What did NNa do that was different from the others and vice versa....

     

    I saw that they gave 1.5 million dollares to breast cancer research on Ellen yesterday, for what?  to pay may pay for another infusion  and a gala party to discuss last years deaths. I'm so sick of this. 

    Done  

     

  • Brenda Bricco
    Brenda Bricco Member Posts: 579 Member
    So long Pepe.
    Your life and

    So long Pepe.

    Your life and the way you lived it, touched so many. Thank you.

  • maglets
    maglets Member Posts: 2,576 Member

    So long Pepe.
    Your life and

    So long Pepe.

    Your life and the way you lived it, touched so many. Thank you.

    pepe

    oh no! I am really shocked....I had invented a whole new  scene of health for our darling Pepe.  Pepe was one of the most inclusive, enthusiastic, intelligent, loving members of this forum.....Dear Dear Pepe.....

    ahh yah remember when he posted....."okay it's Friday....what are you doing?"

    a true Spanish gentleman......deepest sympathy and love to his family

    maggie

  • Dyanclark
    Dyanclark Member Posts: 296
    Pepe

    I always enjoyed his update on his weekend plans.

  • KathiM
    KathiM Member Posts: 8,028 Member
    Aloha, Ia Orana, and Nana my firey Spaniard!

    I just returned from Tahiti and got this information....

     

    He has been tucked securely in my heart.....

     

    Tahitians have a special feeling of death being a part of the living experience.  There is celebration of both.  Tombs are placed in the front yard, along a path taken every day by the 'living' members of the family.  There they can say 'Ia Orana' (Hello) and Nana (Goodbye) interchangeably with such musical tones...it is a quenching of thirst for the spirit....

     

    Hugs to us all.......Kathi

  • marbleotis
    marbleotis Member Posts: 720 Member
    Very Sad

    It is so painful to read this.  Another wonderful person with a life cut far too short.

    This disease is horrible and cruel.

  • PhillieG
    PhillieG Member Posts: 4,866 Member
    Oh $hit

    I'm very sorry to hear of this.

  • tanstaafl
    tanstaafl Member Posts: 1,313 Member
    Oh, Pepe

    I'm sorry for his loss. It's a shock because when last seen he was doing well and working.  Cancer sucks.

     

    The disappearing bio sucks too.  We need to do something about that.

  • Phil64
    Phil64 Member Posts: 838 Member
    RIP. 

    RIP. 

  • geotina
    geotina Member Posts: 2,111 Member
    Pepe:

    The loss of someone who made others smile is a great loss.  Rest in peace my friend, you will be missed.

     

    Tina