Any take any anti anxiety drugs to help get thru some of this?
BUT, I have NEVER ever felt such intense fear and anxiety as I have been experiencing with this, mostly about the dye injection and surgery part of this journey. I have a really intense, probably irrational fear of surgery (from a past bad experience), and pretty much medical procedures in general.
When I had the appointments with all the doctors last week, they saw how hysterical I was and suggested getting some anti anxiety meds, like Xanax. I have never taken any of that stuff and dont know what to expect.
Today at 10am I have an appointment (they set up for me) with a Psychiatrist to get some, maybe. Now why, after seeing 4 MDs, they could not just write a Rx, is beyond me, makes my cynical brain think, they just want to spread the wealth, and get as many of their cronies as possibnle in on the billing venal drip, but thats just me.
So, this is my long winded way of asking, has anyone else experienced such intense fear/anxiety over this, and went the route of drug assisted anti anxiety meds? And if so, did it help?
I cant believe Im going to a Psychiatrist, I have never been, Im normally a very well adjusted happy person, but this has just done a major number on me
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anti anxiety drugs
They do help...I never took any either but when i was going in for my first chemo i was a hysterical mess, they gave me Xanax first then the treatment. It mellowed me right out. I never had trouble with MRI's either until this past summer so i just ask for it now...the last thing we need is additional stress so just take advantage of what they have.
Hugs and prayers
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Thank you Dana, thatsPADANAG said:anti anxiety drugs
They do help...I never took any either but when i was going in for my first chemo i was a hysterical mess, they gave me Xanax first then the treatment. It mellowed me right out. I never had trouble with MRI's either until this past summer so i just ask for it now...the last thing we need is additional stress so just take advantage of what they have.
Hugs and prayers
Dana
Thank you Dana, thats encourating and good to know.
What does it make you feel like? dizzy? spacey? tired? sleepy? I really have no idea what to expect. Ughhh Im even anxious about what anti anxiety meds feel like..0 -
Hi dianehelen, I think your
Hi dianehelen, I think your avatar says it all. I was in that state 4 years ago.
Don't be afraid to take xanax and possibly an antidepressant while you are going through treatment. I certainly needed help during treatment. I found that xanax made me sleepy, too sleepy to drive and I needed to drive to work. I took Klonopin instead; it is shorter acting.
I felt a little funny going to a psychiatrist as well, but it turned out fine. I didn't like the first one I went to. It's OK to switch.
In all honesty, I think most of us diagnosed with cancer are depressed and anxious to some degree. It is normal to feel this way under the circumstances. Thank goodness there is help. You might want to consider trying relaxation and meditation or yoga as well. All of these helped me.
In hindsight, I am glad that I took advantage of every bit of help available. xoxoxoxo Lynn0 -
I took Xanax years ago but
I took Xanax years ago but not for medical...mine was family issues (Teen). IT helped me...I know going off it it was very very slow and had to be in spring. (less depression when longer days)
I hope you find something that helps you and have some peace.
Denise0 -
I took Xanax years ago but
I took Xanax years ago but not for medical...mine was family issues (Teen). IT helped me...I know going off it it was very very slow and had to be in spring. (less depression when longer days)
I hope you find something that helps you and have some peace.
Denise0 -
I took Xanax years ago but
I took Xanax years ago but not for medical...mine was family issues (Teen). IT helped me...I know going off it it was very very slow and had to be in spring. (less depression when longer days)
I hope you find something that helps you and have some peace.
Denise0 -
I took Xanax years ago but
I took Xanax years ago but not for medical...mine was family issues (Teen). IT helped me...I know going off it it was very very slow and had to be in spring. (less depression when longer days)
I hope you find something that helps you and have some peace.
Denise0 -
Absolutely!!!!!!!
My MO was VERY happy to give me additional antidepressants. I take Prozac and it has made a huge difference. All doctors know this is a time of extreme anxiety for those involved. And if you are already anxious about "medical procedures" per se, this exaccerbates it tenfold. Don't be afraid to ask outright for anti-anxiety meds and/or anti-depressants. The anti-anxiety meds are a "one at a time" thing. You take it when you need it, but it won't help your overall attitude. Anti-depressants will help take the overall "edge" off. Frankly I prefer those because I don't feel like I am being "tranq'd" up. Good luck, stay strong and don't feel bad at ALL about demanding these!!!!!0 -
sorry for post and post and
sorry for post and post and post...how do I get rid of all but one?
Denise
when I clicked post and was in thinking mode long time.0 -
don't worry about it....disneyfan2008 said:sorry for post and post and
sorry for post and post and post...how do I get rid of all but one?
Denise
when I clicked post and was in thinking mode long time.
%$#@ happens. I acccidentally did a quadruple post once. It's a computer hiccup.0 -
Yes
Ativan was prescribed for me per surgery. I, too, was very apprehensive and it helped immensely. Have taken it several times since as needed for anxiety. Just ask your doctor.
I am so sorry for all you are going thru. From your post, I can see how strong you are. Rely on that strength and do ask for something to relieve your anxiety.
Hugs,
Sue0 -
OMFGsbmly53 said:Yes
Ativan was prescribed for me per surgery. I, too, was very apprehensive and it helped immensely. Have taken it several times since as needed for anxiety. Just ask your doctor.
I am so sorry for all you are going thru. From your post, I can see how strong you are. Rely on that strength and do ask for something to relieve your anxiety.
Hugs,
Sue
So I go to this appt
OMFG
So I go to this appt that was set for me, to see this doc to get some meds, I walk into the office, first of all its like 100 degrees in there, and there are about 15 people sitting waiting. I ask the receptionist, if all these people are waiting to see this one doc, and she says yes. I ask about how long the wait it, she says, oh its over an hour!!
Really? over a HOUR in a waiting room thats 100 degrees, to see someone that deals with people with anxiety issues? Really?
Ughh Im more upset than ever now.. I walked out, she said to come back at 1pm. I have to see if I even want to go back to that place..0 -
Why not talk to your MO???dianehelen said:OMFG
So I go to this appt
OMFG
So I go to this appt that was set for me, to see this doc to get some meds, I walk into the office, first of all its like 100 degrees in there, and there are about 15 people sitting waiting. I ask the receptionist, if all these people are waiting to see this one doc, and she says yes. I ask about how long the wait it, she says, oh its over an hour!!
Really? over a HOUR in a waiting room thats 100 degrees, to see someone that deals with people with anxiety issues? Really?
Ughh Im more upset than ever now.. I walked out, she said to come back at 1pm. I have to see if I even want to go back to that place..
Get your oncologist to prescribe them to you. Not necessary to go to a psych anymore. GP's will prescribe as well, but your MO knows your "state of mind" and should be more than happy to prescribe!0 -
Called her office (MO),kacee999 said:Why not talk to your MO???
Get your oncologist to prescribe them to you. Not necessary to go to a psych anymore. GP's will prescribe as well, but your MO knows your "state of mind" and should be more than happy to prescribe!
Called her office (MO), called the RO, NOPE, they wont do it.. Back to my suspcicions of greed, and how they want to get as many into the billing pie as possible.
I now have a call into my surgeon, to see if he will . Spoke to his nurse, she is very touchy feely, maybe more than my taste, but is very nice.. keep a good thought for a good phone call back
UGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH0 -
Good grief!dianehelen said:Called her office (MO),
Called her office (MO), called the RO, NOPE, they wont do it.. Back to my suspcicions of greed, and how they want to get as many into the billing pie as possible.
I now have a call into my surgeon, to see if he will . Spoke to his nurse, she is very touchy feely, maybe more than my taste, but is very nice.. keep a good thought for a good phone call back
UGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
I've never heard of this! People must be nuts!0 -
update
So my surgeon office nurse called back, says he can call in valium. I asked for xanax.
She has to go back now and ask again.
How is valium compared to xanax?
Ugh this is making me more anxious instead of less0 -
Update 2
OOOOOokkkk
Nurse Touchy Feely just called back, and thank heavens for her, and the surgeon, who apparantly has more heart than the other docs.. He IS calling in a Rx for me for Xanax now.. He also suggested I start taking it now, to help get thru the rest of the week.
Any thoughts, should I start it now? or wait for Sunday (dye injection day)0 -
If you are fried, take itdianehelen said:Update 2
OOOOOokkkk
Nurse Touchy Feely just called back, and thank heavens for her, and the surgeon, who apparantly has more heart than the other docs.. He IS calling in a Rx for me for Xanax now.. He also suggested I start taking it now, to help get thru the rest of the week.
Any thoughts, should I start it now? or wait for Sunday (dye injection day)
Just remember - no driving or drinking while on it!
I've had both Xanax and Valium - they are about the same for me. (My breast surgeon gave me Xanax as I have gone through my recent ordeal.) I can't say I prefer one to the other.
However, anti-anxiety meds are often useful as we travel this road. And yes, I see a psychiatrist. He's been wonderful.
Hugs,
Alice0 -
If you find a good
If you find a good psychiatrist, I would highly recommend him or her ... they know a lot more about some meds for anxiety and depression than a gp most of the time and most even call you in person to return a phone call! As far as anxiety I found klonopin to be the most helpful for me with little side effects .... but we are all different and .....always start with a low dose as that is sometimes enough to see how you react to it .... good luck ..Sue D0 -
Well I think the key wordsdukowitz said:If you find a good
If you find a good psychiatrist, I would highly recommend him or her ... they know a lot more about some meds for anxiety and depression than a gp most of the time and most even call you in person to return a phone call! As far as anxiety I found klonopin to be the most helpful for me with little side effects .... but we are all different and .....always start with a low dose as that is sometimes enough to see how you react to it .... good luck ..Sue D
Well I think the key word there is "good" psychiatrist. This one that I attempted to see was not! Any doctor, especially one that is dealing with people with serious emotional or mental issues , should never overbook appointments to the point of having 15+ in a waiting room that is hot and crowded facing over an hour wait. That is just NOT a good doctor, in general.
Once I get more into the hell of my new life, I may see how I feel and seek out some additional professional help. For now, Im grateful my surgeon took the high road and helped me out.
I will take my very first ever Xanax today, to see how I feel.0
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