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Welcome paige
although I am sorry you have reason to come here. You will find a lot of support from the wonderful ladies on this board.

We each deal with this journey in our own way. You are very young so you have issues I did not have to face at 62. I found this board after my initial chemo and debulking surgery. I was at a low point because I was overwhelmed by the whole process. It was a great help to find women going through the same things I was.

When I finished treatment I went to six sessions with a therapist. I had read that there is sometimes a let down after treatment is completed. During treatment we are geared for battle with the dreaded disease but when the treatment ends you get a feeling of now what? I actually felt really good but the sessions were offered through my job so I figured I would take advantage of it.

There are support groups out there too. I know what you mean about bringing the people around you down. I do not talk about my illness much because I don't want to be the voice of doom or as I say I don't want to be considered the "cancer girl."

I try to keep busy. I go to yoga and a weekly hike with my cancer support group. I attend Weight Watchers trying to overcome a lifelong battle with my weight. I am retired now so I am free to do as I please. I get together with friends but most are still working so they are busy.

Give yourself time. You have gone through so much. We are here for you whenever you need us. Feel free to express yourself however you need to at the time. I have come here sobbing, angry, lonely, scared but also many times to share good news. I always can count on some loving words.

I am glad you found us.


Karen

Hi Paige
Welcome to the group. Sorry you had to find us. You don't really say what emotional issues with which you are dealing.
It is not uncommon to experience depression with the experience you have been through. Anti-depressants are a great way to get through this rough time.
Seeing a counselor would give you the opportunity to express your feelings, without burdening your friends and care takers.
There is always a fear of recurrance. But there is plenty of information out there that shows us how to be proactive to help avoid this through diet and lifestyle. The book "Anti-Cancer" by David Servan - Schreiber is a great resource.
I hope you find what you need to get you through this tough time. It isn't easy for anyone.

Mwee said:

Happy B-day!
I'm so glad that you found us. It can take a very long time to adjust to the "new normal" post cancer diagnosis. We'll be right here for you. You can share your thoughts and fears without having to worry about making friends and family upset. Welcome.
((((HUGS))) Maria (6 year survivor)

I understand completely how
I understand completely how you feel. After treatment I made a proactive choice to seek therapy I also do acupuncture and martial arts . It's all helped so much. I have been NED for a year and 3 months. I will be celebrating my birthday next week, 33 yrs old! You can do this just make the choices to help yourself. All the best
Joyce

Hi Paige
Sorry you are part
Hi Paige
Sorry you are part of the club! But welcome!! I hate cancer. It breaks my heart that you are so young. However maybe that will help you to stay well. You have youth on your side. I finished treatments at end of May. Have up and down days. However doing things I know will help my body helps to bring my emotions up. Also prayer. Reading Gods word is powerful as well.
Love to you
Shawnna