Can I work full time, is it reasonable, just new diagnosis?
I have a few questions about what to expect and how to manage over the next several months.
Here's where I am for now. Besides thinking very negatively and wanting run away from it all.
I have not had any other diagnostics yet, CT pending,oncology and radiation specialist are pending. I am one week post excision.
I need to return to work, I don't want to burn thru my paid time off. I sit 50% of the time. I am still having pain while attempting to have a BM, and difficulty iniating urine. I am giving it a couple of days to improve, and then wish to return to work.
I expect that by the time I am completely healed and ready to start treatment another 2 weeks will have elapsed.
Do you think I can have radiation in the morning, go to work and function?
I am generally a strong person and able to push myself.
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Hi Kirby
Hi Kirby,
I was able to return to work two weeks after my initial biopsy. Once treatment started, I worked full time for four weeks (with my company's help - they paid for the time I was at treatment). After four weeks I became too tired to work full time but I continued on a part-time basis. Weeks six, seven, and eight were rough because the radiation burns were very uncomfortable - if I remember correctly I worked part-time, a lot of it from home. After (I think) eight weeks I began going into the office again, part-time. I hope this information helps. Wishing you ALL the best.0 -
It depends
A lot of it depends on how you react to treatment. Some people have a rough time with the chemo. For me I felt sick for about 24 hours during the first round and would have taken off two days if I had been working. I also would not have liked to try to work carrying around the pack that delivers the chemo. That was Monday-Friday the first week and the fifth week. If your job requires any lifting, you aren't supposed to lift more than 8 lbs. with the arm that has the tube in it if you are getting a picc line. I also had a problem with low white blood cell count starting at the end of week two. I was told to stay away from anyone that might be carrying germs and to wash my hands frequently.
Some people have more trouble with the radiation. For me it wasn't that bad. Eleven days after radiation treatment ended I rode in a car for 8 hours for a vacation to Florida. Sitting for me was more uncomfortable after the excision than it was from radiation. I was having to sit sideways for awhile after surgery but didn't have that need during or after radiation treatment. I did have to use a squirt water bottle when going to the bathroom but I was done with that before we left on our trip. I did stock up on several different products to help with itching. I also took two Advil just about every night before bed. I also used the percocet for awhile to help me sleep but I didn't really need it for the pain.0 -
Thanks friends, two perspectives are helpful
I just got out of the tub, the purpose was two fold, to relieve my bladder retention and pain. And yes, I do need to return to work soon.
Having your perspectives of modifying or taking a leave is helpful. I am pretty caught up in what might happen. I do realize all response are individual.
I am not sure which direction to take, but will plan on giving it a try and and then wait and see.
For now, I am not sure what to expect, although I have read the protocol for treatment. Some of the Thriver stories I've read, really scared me. I'm like, I don't think I can tolerate the radiation burns or side effects from treatment.
Reading many of the 18 pages of posting, both reassures me and scares me.
I am anxious about balancing everything and earning a living. Right now it feels like too much.0 -
Hi kirby 77--kirby77 said:Thanks friends, two perspectives are helpful
I just got out of the tub, the purpose was two fold, to relieve my bladder retention and pain. And yes, I do need to return to work soon.
Having your perspectives of modifying or taking a leave is helpful. I am pretty caught up in what might happen. I do realize all response are individual.
I am not sure which direction to take, but will plan on giving it a try and and then wait and see.
For now, I am not sure what to expect, although I have read the protocol for treatment. Some of the Thriver stories I've read, really scared me. I'm like, I don't think I can tolerate the radiation burns or side effects from treatment.
Reading many of the 18 pages of posting, both reassures me and scares me.
I am anxious about balancing everything and earning a living. Right now it feels like too much.
I am sorry you have a need to join us here, but glad you've found us. As for what to expect, as has already been said, it varies from person to person. I was very fortunate in that I didn't have to worry about working during my treatment, but I can understand your concerns. If you've read a lot of the posts here, then you have a pretty good idea of what you might experience, emphasis being on the word "might." You can arm yourself ahead of time for any side effect that could happen, based on the information here. I, for one, could probably not have worked during treatment, at least the last 3 weeks or so. That being said, I went through treatment without the benefit of this support group or any other support group, so I didn't know most of the things that are helpful. People who have actually been through this can be of more help than the doctors in most cases. Please rely on us to get you through this, that's why all of us are here. I wish you all the very best and hope you'll keep us posted on how things are going.0 -
Work During Treatment
Although I am retired there was no way I could have worked during treatment primarily due to excessive diarrhea. My job would have required me to commute 70 miles per day. Even though the radiation burn was like a severe sunburn without blisters it was very uncomfortable if I was not wearing sweats. Also, my energy level was zero and I lay around the house most of the time. I had 30 rounds of radiation(6 weeks) and 2 weeks chemo. Again everyone is different. This is just my input as it affected me. Hope this helps.
Mike0 -
what helps....
Here are a few things that I think really helped me along in treatment and recovery:
1. I drank at least 6 16 oz. glasses of water a day.
2. I kept moving. I would go upstairs to the bathroom every time I needed to go. And
with those 6 glasses of water a day, it was often!
3. Aqauphor ointment. It has to be off for radiation but after radiation,I piled it on!
4. Getting radiation moved to 7:30 a.m. Getting it over with early in the day was
mentally uplifting plus it gave me the rest of the day for whatever.
I'm sure there are other things but those are the ones that pop out the most right now.
Edit to add: One thing I used A LOT towards the end of treatment was a gallon sized zip lock bag filled with ice and strategically placed depending on where the itching was worse (front or back). It provided a great deal of relief!!0 -
Hi Kirby,
I was diagnosed
Hi Kirby,
I was diagnosed 12/2011 and finished radiation and chemo 4/2. I worked full time through the first 3 weeks of radiation. My job requires sitting about 75% of the time. I found that I could work up until the end of the 3rd week of radiation, the biggest issue was being really tired but I was also beginning to experience some burns in my perianal area that did not allow me to sit normally, I sat on one hip or the other. I think it is important to get as much rest as you can to help your body. Drinking fluids is MAJOR! You do not want to become dehydrated and getting in lean protiens (protien is your body's basic building block for tissue repair). I drank instant breakfast and gatorade with protien, ice cream was good as was popsicles when I was getting chemo (to aid in decreasing mouth sores). Watch for diarrhea as diarrhea can cause you to become dehydrated quickly, I took immodium as I needed it. On the other hand you also do not want constipation which can be painful, so you do a balancing act with the immodium versus stool softeners. During radiation I wore loose fitting boxers or no underwear, went to treatments in sweat pants and at home wore nightshirts and patient gowns to allow as much air as possible to the area. I used aquaphor cream everday after treatments to my perianal area. It is important not to have anything on your skin during the treatments as it could increase the burns, thus I found early morning appointments the best for me. I drove myself to all of my treatments but I lived very close. Towards the end I kind of waddled a bit.
Know that everyones experiences are different. I consider myself lucky. I did not really have nausea so eating and drinking was not a problem for me. The roughest was about week 4 when the radiation was really accumulating. I had 5 1/2 weeks of radiation. The last 2 1/2 weeks were rough, not undoable but rough, I leaned heavily on my partner and sister to get me through that period. Silvadene ointment was a God send for me with the burns and I used alcohol free baby wipes instead of toilet paper after bowel movements, then only patted, no wiping! Others here used water bottles to spritz the area and sitz baths. The good news is that on day 9 after last treatment the pain from the burns just dissipated, like overnight and then I healed very quickly.
The radiation center I went to was very accomadating as far as scheduling times for my treatments, of course I am in a small town but they were awesome.
I have few side effects thus far. My bowels are fairly normal and I eat pretty much what I like, others here found their tolerance for fiber other things more troubling. It did take awhile to build up stamina, the radiation will make you tired for sometime after it ends. Make sure you give yourself permission to rest when you need it.
I know its all so overwhelming. I didnt start treatments until the end of February and the waiting to start was like my world was upside down. Once I started I felt a lot better as I was finally doing something! Hang in there! Pull loved ones close and allow them to help you when you need it. You can do this! This website was my lifeline, I got invaluable information and support, the people here got me through it, literally. So please stay connected here, ask your questions and update us on your journey. There are truly angels here who are willing to help.
I will keep you in my prayers, you are not alone Kirby and you will make it through! One person here coined a phrase that became my mantra "Weeks for years!".
Randy0 -
working on treatment
Hi Kirby. I am 46 and was just diagnosed 4 1/2 weeks ago and this is the beginning of my 3rd week of treatment. I am still working. I too want to conserve my time off. Last week my mouth hurt very bad and I couldn't eat hardly anything. I am a nurse and having radiation treatments on my lunch break. I thus far have not had any problems working. I do get a little tired on and off through the day. I hear that things are to get worse before they get better. I am determined to get through as long as possible.I think you should be able to work at least in the beginning. Hope this helps get you started. Yvette0 -
caphasol (spelling?)vette123 said:working on treatment
Hi Kirby. I am 46 and was just diagnosed 4 1/2 weeks ago and this is the beginning of my 3rd week of treatment. I am still working. I too want to conserve my time off. Last week my mouth hurt very bad and I couldn't eat hardly anything. I am a nurse and having radiation treatments on my lunch break. I thus far have not had any problems working. I do get a little tired on and off through the day. I hear that things are to get worse before they get better. I am determined to get through as long as possible.I think you should be able to work at least in the beginning. Hope this helps get you started. Yvette
for mouth sores, get a rx for caphasol. it works. i had horrible sores the first week. I could not have worked at all. i had severe side effects. put in hospital at MD Anderson. took months after tx for me to heal. everyone is different. sephie0 -
Can I work full time
Kirby,
This is just my opinion, but I think women may have a worst time with anal cancer treatment (or at least a double dose of issues of radiation issues/burns) as we have two mucous canals; anal and vaginal, so hopefully your experience may not be as bad as some. I was able to work full time the first week and didn't find being hooked up to my port a major issues. I used a backpack type pocketbook to carry around my pump, but you could do the same thing with a regular backpack. In fact I would set it on a stool outside of my shower and just keep my back to the spray to take a shower. (You can tape a piece of ziploc bag over the port in an additional effort to keep it dry.) My boss forced me out of work the second week, but I think I could have worked for another 1-2 weeks before the fatigue and the need to go commando and bathroom issues would have forced me out. Depending upon the size of the company for which you work, (and if you are in the USA) you may qualify for FMLA. That guarantees that your company will keep your job (or a comparable one) open for you for up to 12 weeks within within a rolling 12 month period. They don't have to pay you as that is up to each individual company (I work for a large company so I was able to go on temporary disability), but my company also let me use FMLA by the hour/day. My radiation was at 1:30, so at least for one week I could take a couple of hours off (mainly for transit time to/from the clinic) and didn't have to burn a complete 8 hour day. As you've gathered, everyone is different. I just know that it is very few of us that have none or all of the side effects, but most of us have at least some of them to varying degrees. Good luck and take care of yourself. I know most of us need jobs (for insurance if nothing else!), but there are other jobs, and this is your only life (at least on this earth!
), so take care of yourself and listen to your body. It will tell you what you need. 0 -
Caphosol was the only thing
Caphosol was the only thing that helped with mouthsores. I had radiation first thing in the morning, same time everyday. Sitting did not become difficult until about the 4th week of radiation but lasted until 3 weeks after radiation. I found using a soft rubber intertube I bought at a store that supplies medical equipment the only way I could sit. I took my intertube everywhere I went. I also had problems getting to the bathroom because of loose bowels and no muscle control. I also had dehydration, low blood counts, etc. Drinking alot of water and protein bars, protein shakes helped. I also began the medication for mouth sores a few days before my second round of chemo and also chewed ice during the treatment hooking my chemo pump to my port. It reduced the number of mouth sores I got. Using a straw to drink also helped with the mouth sores. I found sitz baths with baking soda in water were soothing. Best wishes to you.0 -
It varies, sometimes extremely, from one person to the other
Your question:
Do you think I can have radiation in the morning, go to work and function?
My answer:
It totally depends on a number of factors, including but not limited to, how your body reacts to the radiation, the daily dosage of the radiation and length of treatment. I push myself, too, but I know that I could not have worked AT ALL after 4 weeks into 6 weeks of treatment and about a week and a half following treatment, unless my work had a "clothing optional" policy. I think it's also important to remember that with cancer, your immune system is compromised to begin with, when adding chemo and radiation to the mix, it further weakens the immune system. Rest and good nutrition are so important in the recovery and healing process.
(You may have noticed that I didn't really address the chemo. It was a breeze for me compared to the radiation. A tiny bit of nausea, some fatigue and significant hair loss.)
My best advice? Take one day at a time and see that glass as half full. Blessings to you.
Angela0 -
Sorry for the lack of reply, two days after my post I bled ALOT,Angela_K said:It varies, sometimes extremely, from one person to the other
Your question:
Do you think I can have radiation in the morning, go to work and function?
My answer:
It totally depends on a number of factors, including but not limited to, how your body reacts to the radiation, the daily dosage of the radiation and length of treatment. I push myself, too, but I know that I could not have worked AT ALL after 4 weeks into 6 weeks of treatment and about a week and a half following treatment, unless my work had a "clothing optional" policy. I think it's also important to remember that with cancer, your immune system is compromised to begin with, when adding chemo and radiation to the mix, it further weakens the immune system. Rest and good nutrition are so important in the recovery and healing process.
(You may have noticed that I didn't really address the chemo. It was a breeze for me compared to the radiation. A tiny bit of nausea, some fatigue and significant hair loss.)
My best advice? Take one day at a time and see that glass as half full. Blessings to you.
Angela
I posted fearful that I would not be able to return to work after starting treatment. The Monday following my post, I started to pass large bloody clots my Hemoglobin went from pre-op of 17 to 10, I had surgery to ligate the bleed.
Afterwhich, I had urinary retention, they wanted to place a catheter, I refused, and sat in the tub for another 3 days to urinate, and then in a sitz bath for a few days, finally able to void.
I decided to go on leave of absence, but I am worried, because I have only been on the job for 10 months, I am concerned that my job will not be protected. This past week demonstrated that trying to manage your health and have complications come up change everything.
Thanks to horsepad,Randy, Angela,DogGirl,Sephie, Vette,RDS,MxPerry, Cheyenne, MP 3 and Rose for your supportive and individual posting on your experience.
I meet with the medical oncologist today, I met with Radiation Onc last week, I am not sure when it will be safe to start both treatments, considering my bleed.
Today, I am up, feel fatigued, depressed and lack a real motivation to proceed. I am inspired by the quotation "weeks for years".
Now being between surgery and starting treatment and feeling like I can get out of bed for a short time. But I am bored, and I have only been away from work for two weeks.
Fearful about getting started, staying motivated and being hopeful.
K.0 -
Can I Work Full Time, Is It Reasonable, Just new Diagnosis
Hi, my name is Lauren and am proud to say that I am 4 months out from completing my treatment and am now deemed cancer free. This diagnosis threw me for a loop and I know exactly how you are feeling. I worked pretty much the entire time...working is what kept me alive in my opinion. You need to be strong, possitive and push through. My treatment was the classic Chemo (5fu) and 30 days of radiation. Gosh, I would love to give you my phone # to share with you what my journey was. Crazy but I survived and you will too.0 -
Thank you Itruchsessltruchsess said:Can I Work Full Time, Is It Reasonable, Just new Diagnosis
Hi, my name is Lauren and am proud to say that I am 4 months out from completing my treatment and am now deemed cancer free. This diagnosis threw me for a loop and I know exactly how you are feeling. I worked pretty much the entire time...working is what kept me alive in my opinion. You need to be strong, possitive and push through. My treatment was the classic Chemo (5fu) and 30 days of radiation. Gosh, I would love to give you my phone # to share with you what my journey was. Crazy but I survived and you will too.
Hello Lauren
I am getting ready to see the med onc in a few minutes. I think I know what you mean about working, but also fearful about starting and stopping. I manage a big group and having me in one day and off the next would be difficult. I have someone that will take over for me in an interim role and feel he would be better accomplish our projects without me. But it does leave me feeling helpless.
I am definitely thrown for a loop, and not at all able to think positively at this time.
I am so grateful that you would share your journey with me and and also very happy to hear of your "cancer free" status. Thank you so very much for your words of encouragement. I am not sure, how we could proceed with a conversation. I will friend you on this site.0 -
Oh man, that stinks. Do youkirby77 said:Sorry for the lack of reply, two days after my post I bled ALOT,
I posted fearful that I would not be able to return to work after starting treatment. The Monday following my post, I started to pass large bloody clots my Hemoglobin went from pre-op of 17 to 10, I had surgery to ligate the bleed.
Afterwhich, I had urinary retention, they wanted to place a catheter, I refused, and sat in the tub for another 3 days to urinate, and then in a sitz bath for a few days, finally able to void.
I decided to go on leave of absence, but I am worried, because I have only been on the job for 10 months, I am concerned that my job will not be protected. This past week demonstrated that trying to manage your health and have complications come up change everything.
Thanks to horsepad,Randy, Angela,DogGirl,Sephie, Vette,RDS,MxPerry, Cheyenne, MP 3 and Rose for your supportive and individual posting on your experience.
I meet with the medical oncologist today, I met with Radiation Onc last week, I am not sure when it will be safe to start both treatments, considering my bleed.
Today, I am up, feel fatigued, depressed and lack a real motivation to proceed. I am inspired by the quotation "weeks for years".
Now being between surgery and starting treatment and feeling like I can get out of bed for a short time. But I am bored, and I have only been away from work for two weeks.
Fearful about getting started, staying motivated and being hopeful.
K.
Oh man, that stinks. Do you know what caused the bleeding? I can see why you're feeling fatigued and depressed, but hang on because this thing can (and will) be beat. Please let us know what happens.0 -
not sure, but could be combination of motrin and suture fatigueRoseC said:Oh man, that stinks. Do you
Oh man, that stinks. Do you know what caused the bleeding? I can see why you're feeling fatigued and depressed, but hang on because this thing can (and will) be beat. Please let us know what happens.
Thank you Rose, I am recovering from the bleed, right now I am leaving for my first medical oncology appointment. Wish me luck:) I so appreciate your supportive responses.0 -
not sure, but could be combination of motrin and suture fatigueRoseC said:Oh man, that stinks. Do you
Oh man, that stinks. Do you know what caused the bleeding? I can see why you're feeling fatigued and depressed, but hang on because this thing can (and will) be beat. Please let us know what happens.
Thank you Rose, I am recovering from the bleed, right now I am leaving for my first medical oncology appointment. Wish me luck:) I so appreciate your supportive responses.0 -
Good Luck!kirby77 said:not sure, but could be combination of motrin and suture fatigue
Thank you Rose, I am recovering from the bleed, right now I am leaving for my first medical oncology appointment. Wish me luck:) I so appreciate your supportive responses.
We'll be here to answer any questions you may have.
Weeks for years.0 -
Surgery Was The Most Painful For Mekirby77 said:Sorry for the lack of reply, two days after my post I bled ALOT,
I posted fearful that I would not be able to return to work after starting treatment. The Monday following my post, I started to pass large bloody clots my Hemoglobin went from pre-op of 17 to 10, I had surgery to ligate the bleed.
Afterwhich, I had urinary retention, they wanted to place a catheter, I refused, and sat in the tub for another 3 days to urinate, and then in a sitz bath for a few days, finally able to void.
I decided to go on leave of absence, but I am worried, because I have only been on the job for 10 months, I am concerned that my job will not be protected. This past week demonstrated that trying to manage your health and have complications come up change everything.
Thanks to horsepad,Randy, Angela,DogGirl,Sephie, Vette,RDS,MxPerry, Cheyenne, MP 3 and Rose for your supportive and individual posting on your experience.
I meet with the medical oncologist today, I met with Radiation Onc last week, I am not sure when it will be safe to start both treatments, considering my bleed.
Today, I am up, feel fatigued, depressed and lack a real motivation to proceed. I am inspired by the quotation "weeks for years".
Now being between surgery and starting treatment and feeling like I can get out of bed for a short time. But I am bored, and I have only been away from work for two weeks.
Fearful about getting started, staying motivated and being hopeful.
K.
I had 2/3 of my tumor surgically removed. Then I had the standard radiation and chemo after surgery. For me the surgery was the most painful but it only lasted about one week if my memory is correct. I had trouble going up and down the stairs as my home is two story with all bedrooms upstairs. I stayed in bed mostly during this time. I did not have severe reaction to radiation or chemo. After week 4 of radiation I did have some minor burning like a severe sunburn with no blisters. My groin area and anus was "sunburned". Iused Aquaphor and found this to be the best ointment for me. You can get this at the grocery store, Target, Walmart.0
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