Will I need help?

Help??
Hi, Like so many things everyone is different once again. I'm sure some people make it on their own but I had days where I was just plain too yuk feeling to drive back and forth. The radiation schedule will be everyday for 5 or 6 weeks and after a couple weeks of that with the chemo too, I suggest having help. There is a program through the American Cancer Society that helps arrange rides to and from appointments if needed. It is free, safe, and drivers have been screened by them. We had to use this service for a short time for my husband when we were both sick at the same time. It will take me a day or two to find the info but will look it up for you or anyone else that may be interested. Im sure there is a lot of planning for your sister to come here, but it would sure be helpful to have someone with you to help out at home also, though even on that there are some very good home health workers to assist if needed too. If you don't mind, what part of the country are you in, and how far is your drive to the hospital for treatment? Just think, somehow the details will work out and before you know it this will be behind you. I will be back with that driving info. As always, all in my prayers.

Help
I think you will find the first couple of weeks manageable on your own, but I would suggest preparing some meals ahead of time for the freezer that you can easily pop into the microwave. There may be times early on when you are not up to cooking for yourself, but nutrition is very important. Later on, it will be critical for you to keep eating, so be well-prepared in advance. About driving to treatment, I drove myself almost every day during my 6-week treatment time, with my husband taking me on Mondays since it was his day off. Towards the end, I wish I had had someone drive me, due to the fact that I was not taking enough pain medication to keep my pain at bay because the pain meds made me loopy and unable to drive. I would NOT recommend doing that, so please arrange for transportation, at least during the last half of treatment. As I recall, my husband did take me my last two days. Do check with the American Cancer Society (and look on this website). They have references to caregivers in your area who have been screened. You might want to use this service a couple of days a week for laundry and household chores, and perhaps meal preparation. Please do not try to do this all alone--it can be tough at the end.

I Drove Myself
I was able to drive myself to all my radiation appointments for 6 weeks. I had someone go with me for my first chemo treatment in case there was any reaction to the chemo but I was fine. I drove myself to my second round of chemo with no problems. I drank Ensure daily to keep up the vitamins and minerals. I also had chicken noodle soup and toasted cheese sandwichs. I also liked hamburger dill pickes for some reason. Also had immodium handy and advil for pain. The prescription pain meds did not work for me. Also, Aquaphor ointment was my best friend for my groin area and buttocks. I used other prescription ointment but they did not seem to work as well as Aquaphor which is sold over the counter at drugstores, Target, etc.

If you feel you need someone to go with you at first you might check with the hospital they may have volunteers that can help out. Most hospitals have a patient advocate staff member who can advise you. Also, if you are connected with a church they may have someone who can help out.

Hope some of this info helps.
Mike