Mum has gone :(

Lovingmymom said:

Appetite
Mandy,
My mom's diagnosis came as the result of a routine scan so she was not exhibiting any symptoms. As a result, her appetite has not suffered one bit. She watches what she eats so as to avoid the constipation issues associated with the chemo drugs. Perhaps your mums appetite issues are not only the result of the cancer but also of being a bit depressed. Her Dr's keep asking her if she has any abdominal pain, which thankfully she does not. I pray this is not what we have to look forward to. Mom's next round of chemo is Friday - she seems to tolerate it fairly well but I can already see that as it builds in your system, it wears you down. The goal of her chemo is to keep her where she is right now since she hasn't had any symptoms and again, her appetite is good. My mom has been through a lot in her life so she seems to take a cancer diagnosis as just another test that God has given her. She completely understands the severity of it and is determined to do this on her own terms. She often refers to herself as "The Unsinkable Molly Brown".

I hope you have good family and friends to lean on and also who can help you out. How is mum tolerating her treatment?
Let us know and be well,
J-

Hi Mandy
Sorry we are meeting like this, I feel your pain and desperation , it is awful to begin with , but it will get easier and you will even have some laughs along the way!!!!
Mum was diagnosed may 2010, she displayed no symptoms , other than her tummy was very swollen and she looked about 8 months pregnant.
I took her straight ti her gp who did a ca125 test followed by a scan, she was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. It was advanced stage 3 high grade.
Mum had to have 3 lots of carbo taxol ,before the would operate,it was after the operation we were told it was actually PPC, she responded well initially and the ascites stopped and her ca125 dropped tp within normal levels she had her debulking surgery and the surgeon said he had removed all visible traces of the beast.she finished off her other 3 chemos ,had a ct scan at the end of the treatment, it showed the cancer had started growing again
Mum then went on to doxil , known in the uk as caeylx, her onc said with her grade of cancer it normally would only work for 3/4 cycles, however she managed to complete all 6 and it did hold it at bay.
After this mum went onto topotecan she did about 2 cycles of this , she then went to the hospital to be told that topo wasn't working for her , this was on the Monday , I believe she picked up the pneumonia that killed her that day.Topo made her blood so bad she could not fight off the pheumonia. Mum was dead by Wednesday evening, cancer did not kill mum chemo did, but I must add if she had not had the chemo she would have been dead a lot quicker.It is the risk everyone with cancer takes, if they pick up an infection it is a whole lot more serious for them , make sure your mum religiously takes her temp everyday , my mum was naughty I and know some day she didn't do it, I don't think she had for a few days before she went , I asked her the previous thursday because she said she felt rough , and she did it while I was on the phone, but knowing mum she didn't do it again , so please make sure she does it everyday, even if she feels fine and dandy!
Tell your mum to keep fighting , it is over whelming to start with. There are so many wonderful drugs to combat any bad side effete your mum may or may not experience.
When mum did her first lot of chemo, apart from loosing her hair she sailed through it. She suffered with doxil to start with , but we got her sorted with the right drugs and she sailed through it again.
It is a he'll of journey you and your mum are now about to embark on.please also remember don't look look at statistics , their is only one statistic that matters to you and that is your mum, and that statistic is 100%
feel free to ask me more if I haven't explained myself very well.