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  • unclaw2002
    unclaw2002 Member Posts: 599
    #22
    Cher,
    I was so sorry to hear
    Cher,

    I was so sorry to hear your news. I know you and Ricki had been dealing with so many setbacks recently, and even the death of his dear father. We walked down many of the same hallways, with the same doctors and nurses and had the same treatment. Ricki and my dad were pioneers and the brave ones willing to experiment with untried treatments in the hope they would have more time with those they loved. My dad got that one extra Christmas with us and I am so happy that Ricki got that Christmas with you, but really I am so happy that he was able to share that with your children. And may you treasure the summer you had at the beach with your loved ones, sitting in the sun at the edge of the water with fishing lines in the water. I loved that picture you had from the summer.

    You will have many days ahead that seem so difficult but remember we are all here for you, praying for you and holding out our arms to hold you. All my love and prayers to and your family. One day at a time and hold on to the wonderful life you two built together, that will endure.

    Cindy
  • TerryV
    TerryV Member Posts: 887
    #23
    Take comfort in your wonderful memories
    I'm so sorry to hear of Rickie's passing, Cheryl. Glad you guys were able to have this past Christmas with the family around.

    Rickie sure fought hard during his 15 months. As did you - right beside him! 35 years of wonderful loving memories - it's a good "take away".

    Please know that you're in our thoughts and prayers.

    Terry
    wife to Nick, age 48
    dx T3N1M0 05/19/11
    26 Rads, 2 weeks cisplatin/5FU
    THE 09/08/11
  • AngieD
    AngieD Member Posts: 493
    #24
    TerryV said:

    Take comfort in your wonderful memories
    I'm so sorry to hear of Rickie's passing, Cheryl. Glad you guys were able to have this past Christmas with the family around.

    Rickie sure fought hard during his 15 months. As did you - right beside him! 35 years of wonderful loving memories - it's a good "take away".

    Please know that you're in our thoughts and prayers.

    Terry
    wife to Nick, age 48
    dx T3N1M0 05/19/11
    26 Rads, 2 weeks cisplatin/5FU
    THE 09/08/11

    Cheryl, I was so sorry to
    Cheryl, I was so sorry to hear the news. You and Rickie were a wonderful team and put up an amazing fight with the beast. I wish and pray for peace for you and comfort in the wonderful memories of all your years together.

    Angie
    wife of Larry Stage IV DX 6/21/11
  • ritawaite13
    ritawaite13 Member Posts: 236
    #25
    Hi Cheryl
    I'm so very sorry to learn of Rickie's death. I was curious because you hadn't posted on here or on the new EC Facebook page so I looked at your wall and saw condolences. Even though I suspected the battle was almost over from your most recent posts, it's still hard to accept. I am still new to my new life without Greg (he just passed on Oct 24)so I, like Kim, really do feel your pain. I'm glad you have such wonderful memories of his final earthly Christmas with family. I'm sure you know by now that grief really does come in waves. You'll be feeling like you're doing all right one minute and the next you'll become a heart broken, sobbing wreck. It's okay. Give yourself all the time and shed all the tears you need.
    Greg and I were married just short of 42 years (anniversary coming up 1/24)so I have been where you are now and it sucked. There is a group of women called Mourning Dawns who've all lost husbands to EC. They've been very helpful and supportive. Please email me when or if you're interested in learning more.
    My heart aches for you Cheryl. May God be with you and may your memories give you some comfort.
    Hugs,
    Rita
  • fredswilma
    fredswilma Member Posts: 185
    #26
    Cheryl
    My heart breaks for you, yet I am thankful that Rickie is no longer in pain, I wish you and your family comfort and peace at this time, remember the good times and know that Rickie lives on in your heart and in your children. My prayers are with you and your family.
    Ann
  • JaneE2366
    JaneE2366 Member Posts: 289 Member
    #27
    so sorry
    Cheryl,
    You have my deepest sympathy.
    Jane
  • birdiequeen
    birdiequeen Member Posts: 319
    #28
    Cheryl
    Rickie, you and your whole family put up a good battle against the beast. You have my deepest sympathy.

    Lee Ann

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