Bad experience/recovery from chemo, anyone?

Side effects
Hi Cindy

Oh yes, all the symptoms you described are normal (at least with me and my friends who do chemo). It's a combination of the chemo and anti-seizure meds (I assume he takes them too?). The anti-sz meds make the brain slow down, we think slower, react slower, and generally are more clouded. The chemo is a new addition doing similar things but in a different way. It took me a while to realise the obvious, and it was only after 12 rounds of chemo to realise that it's a poison. So I accepted that and then came to accept the side effects more easily. I started treating the side effects as you would with a flu... I spoke with an internist and my neuro-oncologist about ALL my symptoms and basically here is what I learned that was happening to me:

- The anti-seizure meds constrict the throat over time, and swallowing becomes tough. Chemo is tough on the stomach and produces intestinal reflux. I was given Pantoloc to help with that. Ask if he can take Charcoal tabs as well in between meals, that helps if he has stomach cramps.

- If I remember rightly, our tumours are sitting in similar places. The lack of movement is exacerbated by the chemo, and if he has trouble moving, etc. then from what I understand, his tumour is responding to chemo. Chemo can make the brain swell, so after his next MRI be sure to ask if he has any edema (and if so, take Decadron for 2 weeks).

- All those symptoms need to be addressed with daily therapy. I still have my disabilities, but I have come a long way in the 3 years since my op. I found silly things were helping with coordination, even Facebook games. Coordination was my problem as well, the brain and the hand aren't connecting, they will if the brain finds that pathway. I used to cry because I couldn't do the most basic things. I remember bawling like a baby because I couldn't tell time (he can, very good sign!). As everyone said to me, baby-steps, baby-steps... I still feel like I'm taking baby steps, but now I'm a bigger baby ;-)

- Chemo runs the body down, like I said, it's poison. We're never our true selves when we are on it. Treat all the symptoms, and REST REST REST! But he needs as much exercise as he can get to work the "poison" out of his system. Drinking lots of fluids helps as well, and helps flush the kidneys.

I did 2 solid years of rehab. We're never the same after as we were before, but the rehab therapy worked wonders. Brain tumour patients aren't the best at doing the exercises, it sounds funny, but I couldn't remember them 5 minutes after I was shown them - how could I do them on my own? I had a notebook that the therapists wrote in and explained everything.

I could write for ages on this! If ever you would like to chat on the phone, I would be happy to. Drop me an email chrisinqc@gmail.com

Hugs and love out to you
Chris (and Gracie!)

Chris_W said:

PS
I hope I don't come across as uncaring, Cindy. I do care a lot, I'm talking from the "been there done that" group, and as I always say, it's so much harder on the caregivers. God bless the love you give and the effort you do! A last word on all that you wrote, I still get episodes like the ones you described with him, and usually they are due to edema. David had a bad combo - edema and chemo-infusion. It's a shock to the brain, and the brain is a magical thing, it tends to sort out a lot of what you want it to (through exercise). Believe in him, believe me - he'll be back to normal-ish, like I am :-)

Cindy,
I have been following
Cindy,
I have been following your updates on David's facebook page and my heart breaks for the two of you. I am praynging he will come out of this. I can't find the words to express to you how I am feeing for you and David right now. Let David know there are people praying for him all over the world. You too! Hang in there and God Bless!