Mum's Condition

iskandar05
iskandar05 Member Posts: 15 Member
in Colorectal Cancer #1
Hi guys, hope you still remember me. Mums condition has deteriorated. Shes now just laying in bed and doesn't even recognize familiar faces anymore. We are expecting her to go soon ),: This is a very bitter and sad part of my life. I'm only 18 and it pains to see my mum suffering. There's two kind of people in this world, one who has a healthy mum and doesn't even give a call to ask about her condition and the other, a sick mum who has children caring for her and wished that a miracle will happen that she will be cured. All hope is lost, now. I won't get to see my mum nor talk to her about my problem. Those memories that I had with her will never be gone. I love her ever since the day she gave birth to me. May god bless her soul should she pass away. I love you, mum. To those still fighting cancer, never give up and ALWAYS watch what goes into the stomach.

Lots of love,
Iskandar

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  • buckeye2
    buckeye2 Member Posts: 428 Member
    #2
    Your mother is a lucky woman
    Your mother is a lucky woman to have such a loving daughter. Her legacy will live on through you. I wish your mother peace and you strength. Lisa
  • Daisy-WD
    Daisy-WD Member Posts: 4
    #3
    I'm so sorry about your
    I'm so sorry about your mom's condition. Im a mom myself with two kids about your age and im doing my best to survive stage IV cc. I wish you and your mom strength to go through these hard times.
    Daisy-wd
  • luvmum
    luvmum Member Posts: 457 Member
    #4
    I am so sad
    I can feel your sadness and pain. I am taking care of my mum and hoping to see miracles yet worry it won't happen. All the good memories I have with my mum will always be with me. Except the time we sleep, I spend every single minute with her.
    You are a tough girl and I am sure your mum will be so proud of you!
    Please take good care of yourself!
    Hugs Dora
  • lisa42
    lisa42 Member Posts: 3,625 Member
    #5
    Blessings to you, dear
    I'm so very sorry what your mum is going through and what you and your family are having to go through. It's lousy and not fair! I guess we were never promised that life would be fair and rosy, but it's still pretty lousy.
    All I can tell you is that time will heal and you will get stronger after awhile. Your mum will live on in your heart forever.

    I will be saying a prayer for your mum to have little or no pain and for you and the rest of your family to have strength and peace to get through this very difficult time.

    God bless,
    Lisa
  • pepebcn
    pepebcn Member Posts: 6,331 Member
    #6
    lisa42 said:

    Blessings to you, dear
    I'm so very sorry what your mum is going through and what you and your family are having to go through. It's lousy and not fair! I guess we were never promised that life would be fair and rosy, but it's still pretty lousy.
    All I can tell you is that time will heal and you will get stronger after awhile. Your mum will live on in your heart forever.

    I will be saying a prayer for your mum to have little or no pain and for you and the rest of your family to have strength and peace to get through this very difficult time.

    God bless,
    Lisa

    You are a great daughter , I will pray for you and mum !
    Just have a big and sincere hug!
  • herdizziness
    herdizziness Member Posts: 3,624 Member
    #7
    Iskandar
    One of the most depressing times in our lives in when we lose our mothers, their there for us when we need to talk, they always give advice whether you wanted it or not (and 99 percent of the time their advice was "right on")they taught us how to love, and always you will miss picking up the phone and calling her just to chat.
    I'm so sorry for you pain, you are so young to have to deal with this.
    Keep in the forefront of your mind the wonderful memories you had with your mother, I like to think and I do think that mothers even when they leave this earth still watch over us for the rest of our lives.
    My heart goes out to you.
    Winter Marie
  • jjaj133
    jjaj133 Member Posts: 867 Member
    #8
    I am so sorry you and your
    I am so sorry you and your family are going through this. I will pray for a peaceful passing for your mom, and strength for you.
    She was blessed having you for a daughter.
    Judy

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