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Your mom
Please tell your mom to keep optimistic, I have been thru so many chemos since last year, it isn't funny. I was on Gemzar, it didn't work, then went on doxil, it didn't work, then Cytoxan, same thing and went on Topotecan. Topotecan didn't work and it is a hard one, as it made my blood counts go down very low. Now, I'm going to try, Taxotere.

People can get discouraged, but sometimes it helps to talk to your primary care physician and gyn/onc (if different). Both of mine are absolutely wonderful, and they are both very compassionate and understanding, some traits some other doctors lack.

Take care

antcat said:

Your mom
Please tell your mom to keep optimistic, I have been thru so many chemos since last year, it isn't funny. I was on Gemzar, it didn't work, then went on doxil, it didn't work, then Cytoxan, same thing and went on Topotecan. Topotecan didn't work and it is a hard one, as it made my blood counts go down very low. Now, I'm going to try, Taxotere.

People can get discouraged, but sometimes it helps to talk to your primary care physician and gyn/onc (if different). Both of mine are absolutely wonderful, and they are both very compassionate and understanding, some traits some other doctors lack.

Take care

If my mother was in the same
If my mother was in the same situation that your mother is in, she probably would not have done chemo in the first place. So you are lucky to have your mom still here. It sounds like she is getting battle weary. Maybe you could investigate the CAAT diet someone posted here last month.

It is a special diet to starve cancer. I think it can be used with chemo & some people used it when they were told that "nothing more can be done"--and their tumors shrunk considerably. The man who designed the CAAT program (controlled amino acid therapy) based it on serious research but the program itself has not been researched.

I am not in active treatment for cancer now but I think I would use the CAAT program if I had to go back on chemo. The CAAT program seems to help the chemo work better because it is designed to deprive the cancer cells of the basic nutrients it uses to feed itself.

Please stay in touch. I know your mom has a hard decision to make.

Carolen

antcat said:

Your mom
Please tell your mom to keep optimistic, I have been thru so many chemos since last year, it isn't funny. I was on Gemzar, it didn't work, then went on doxil, it didn't work, then Cytoxan, same thing and went on Topotecan. Topotecan didn't work and it is a hard one, as it made my blood counts go down very low. Now, I'm going to try, Taxotere.

People can get discouraged, but sometimes it helps to talk to your primary care physician and gyn/onc (if different). Both of mine are absolutely wonderful, and they are both very compassionate and understanding, some traits some other doctors lack.

Take care

Thank you for this post
Antcat,
My mom has at least remained fairly stable over the past 2 years with constant chemo. Today was the first day she was told there is definite progression. Did you have progression with all of these chemos you have been on in the past year? Or did they just not improve your condition?

eward said:

Thank you for this post
Antcat,
My mom has at least remained fairly stable over the past 2 years with constant chemo. Today was the first day she was told there is definite progression. Did you have progression with all of these chemos you have been on in the past year? Or did they just not improve your condition?

I am so sorry to hear about your mom. Since December, being on different chemos, I have been having slight progression, they can't seem to find the right combination of drugs. So, over the last 6 months they have grown but have not invaded any other organs. It's almost like they have a long list of chemo drugs and if one doesn't work, they try another and so on. The more chemo a person is on, I think the more side effects they have. I know family tells me to keep fighting, but sometimes it gets hard. I have a wonderful gyn/oncologist and primary care physician, who are so very compassionate and understanding, but not all specialists (oncologist) are like that. I never tried the Abraxane, just finished with Topotecan. Just had 2 cycles of it and was told it would change. I don't know if chemo really starts working after 2 cycles, but this is what they wanted to do, so I can't argue any more. I have become very active in my care, researching trials, looking up medications the onc orders and sometimes I think they don't really want people to be that much involved. I guess they feel, they're the dr. and should not be questioned, but we all have a right to question in our health care. I also think that when a person has cancer, they have a team of drs., not just one, and all doctors should be working on the same level, but that doesn't happen. There shouldn't be only 1 captain of the ship, because each physician, whether it be primary care, or gyn/onc is responsible for a different aspect of your care and at one point are all involved in a person's care.

AnotherChance said:

Began 1st Cycle
My mom decided to go through with the chemotherapy at her appointment today. She was able to relax a little at her appointment and feel pain free after she was given a shot of the pain killer. I am so glad I was able to convince her to not give up, at least for now. I think seeing my tears encouraged her to continue the battle.
She's going to go in 5 days in a row and break for 2 weeks. I am praying that she responds to the Topotecan.
I am looking into the CAAT. Thank you everyone for your comments.

Fears of chemo were for me unfounded
Hi again

just wanted to add to this that I was terrified of having chemo because it's the same one that my mother had before she died of lung cancer related complications. I always put the blame for the exacerbation of poor circulation in her legs and greater predisposition to clots down to the chemo. I blamed it on causing her to have the heart attack that precipitated her death. She had been 76 then, in 2004 and very unwell even before she got to the specialist. It was too late by then.

In my fear, I put off having chemo for two weeks then gave in. Was surprised to find that the medication caused me to sleep right through the first couple of infusions, and I had absolutely no side effects at all (that were evident). When the antihistamine phenergen was found to cause my body to twitch uncontollably while I slept through the chemo, they changed it to Clarityne (spelling?). I mostly still sleep through each chemo, and still have no side effects, even after nine cycles. I cannot imagine life continuing "permanently" like this but it does show that not everyone does have the dreadful side effects that so many experience. I believe it is the Taxol that causes one to lose their hair. Happened to me in the third week. Easily hidden under a home-made hat.

Who knows what the next stage will bring, but I did want to mentioin that not always are our fears grounded. You just don't know till you try it.

Good luck