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I did not work during any of
I did not work during any of my txs, but then again, i haven't worked for 10 years. Some folks say it is a personal decision, but I know if that was me, I'd find a way to stay home You are right about the money part. It is filthy. if you decide to go back to work, perhaps you could keep a bottle of hand sanitizer nearby. I found that during chemo i was pretty much wiped out after each tx and then for several days afterward. i realize that everyone is different, so you should do what feels comfortable for you. Good luck with your txs. Please stay in touch.
BE well,
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I wouldn't work if I could help it.Hippiechick58 said:I did not work during any of
I did not work during any of my txs, but then again, i haven't worked for 10 years. Some folks say it is a personal decision, but I know if that was me, I'd find a way to stay home You are right about the money part. It is filthy. if you decide to go back to work, perhaps you could keep a bottle of hand sanitizer nearby. I found that during chemo i was pretty much wiped out after each tx and then for several days afterward. i realize that everyone is different, so you should do what feels comfortable for you. Good luck with your txs. Please stay in touch.
BE well,
Dianne
Do you have disability insurance through the bank? If so, they should provide benefits because your immune system will be compromised and you are exposed to the public. The insurance company I represent has paid claims for cancer patients who will be exposed to lots of people/germs during chemo.
Roseann0 -
helloroseann4 said:I wouldn't work if I could help it.
Do you have disability insurance through the bank? If so, they should provide benefits because your immune system will be compromised and you are exposed to the public. The insurance company I represent has paid claims for cancer patients who will be exposed to lots of people/germs during chemo.
Roseann
I am currently out on short term disability..I get 26 weeks and am now starting my 5th week..If I decide to stay out fro chemo I will probably have to work during radiation. Thanks for your help0 -
Your Decisionfoxhill96 said:hello
I am currently out on short term disability..I get 26 weeks and am now starting my 5th week..If I decide to stay out fro chemo I will probably have to work during radiation. Thanks for your help
Foxhilll, the decision to work or not work is going to be up to you. After your first treatment, you will be able to see how your body is going to react to the TAC cocktail, and whether you are going to completely lose your energy level. I was one of those fortunate few who took 18 weeks of TAC, and probably wouldn't have been able to work while on chemo. You should also be getting a Neulesta shot the day following chemo, and this will help you to get your blood count back up much faster. However, as you say, money is very dirty to work around, and another thing to consider. The younger you are, the better you will be able to get through the treatment. I was 63 when I started chemo, and I know that after the third treatment I contracted walking pneumonia basically just living in my house. You never know, and everyone reacts differently. Another friend of mine also works in a bank, and she worked every day while in treatment. She is in her early 40's, and says that working kept her mind off of what she was going through. She would take her treatment on Friday, and by Monday feeling decent enough to go back to work. I wouldn't worry about what to do until you actually get started with treatment. Your body will tell you what is best for you. Sending good thoughts your way as you begin this journey. And always remember, when you have questions you can always come to this board and there will be someone who has been through most everything you are going to need help with. Hugs, Judy0 -
Thank you so much for yourcreampuff91344 said:Your Decision
Foxhilll, the decision to work or not work is going to be up to you. After your first treatment, you will be able to see how your body is going to react to the TAC cocktail, and whether you are going to completely lose your energy level. I was one of those fortunate few who took 18 weeks of TAC, and probably wouldn't have been able to work while on chemo. You should also be getting a Neulesta shot the day following chemo, and this will help you to get your blood count back up much faster. However, as you say, money is very dirty to work around, and another thing to consider. The younger you are, the better you will be able to get through the treatment. I was 63 when I started chemo, and I know that after the third treatment I contracted walking pneumonia basically just living in my house. You never know, and everyone reacts differently. Another friend of mine also works in a bank, and she worked every day while in treatment. She is in her early 40's, and says that working kept her mind off of what she was going through. She would take her treatment on Friday, and by Monday feeling decent enough to go back to work. I wouldn't worry about what to do until you actually get started with treatment. Your body will tell you what is best for you. Sending good thoughts your way as you begin this journey. And always remember, when you have questions you can always come to this board and there will be someone who has been through most everything you are going to need help with. Hugs, Judy
Thank you so much for your input. I am a nervous wreck about the whole thing. I just want to get started. I am sure I will have many questions. Have a great weekend. Marie0 -
I wish you the bestfoxhill96 said:Thank you so much for your
Thank you so much for your input. I am a nervous wreck about the whole thing. I just want to get started. I am sure I will have many questions. Have a great weekend. Marie
during your treatments. We will be with you every step of the way!
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Hello foxhill
. I was 41yrs
Hello foxhill
. I was 41yrs old mother of 2 girls and was dx with stage 2, Estrogen & Progestrogen +, HER2. I was told a very aggressive cancer. I had a lumpectomy to my left breast, then chemo of Taxxotere, Carboplatin and Herceptin every 3wks for 6 months,except Herceptin, I did that one for 1yr. Then had 33 rounds of radiation. Mostly for financial reasons I continued to work thru it all. But I had a desk job, mostley clerical, I didnt deal with money or people so the decision was easier for me. And like Judy said, Im glad I continued to work. It really made me get out of bed everyday and kept my mind off of the cancer, treatments. Also I had a great woman boss who totally understood and loved me as a friend, plus a very understanding company. So that helped with all my crazy appoitments, treatments and all the time I had to take off. So there is a lot to considered when deciding to continue to work. I wish you luck, love and strength.
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LONG ago I worked at a bank
MAYBE you could ask to have stool (even if need Dr note) Employers are supposed to accomadate..but I KNOW first hand not always the way! sadly I say that..
HAVE YOU checked out FMLA..? I DON"T know much about it..I FOUND OUT day late and dollar short...but that could maybe be your way to go...
YOU are allowed so many days for appts this and that...but MUST use up all vacation, sick and personal days etc...LIKE I SAID I dont' know much..about it..but I WOULD CHECK INTO IT For sure...
H.R. Department of you bank should be able to help!
Denise0
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