Need prayers, good vibes, vodoo, hodoo...
Been feeling very down and drained lately, hoping it's nothing physical and just because I'm drained mentally. The divorce will be finalised in six weeks time, felt down when I knew about the decree nisi being read on Wednesday, felt I let my mum down. Anyway hugs to all my csn family, would be lost without you.
Love to all
Sonia
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here it comes vooooodoooooo hooooo dooooo did you feel it.best of luck to you.remember take one day at a time.have a good weekend and just breath...Godbless...johnnybegood0 -
Prayers coming your way
Praying that you will find each day that you have a lighter heart.
Divorce is difficult, but not necessarily a failure. Most times it is the best decision to make in light of the circumstances. You will only let your Mom down if you fail to move forward with life and do your best with all you are given.
Hugs and best wishes for a clear scan Monday.
Marie who loves kitties0 -
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Hi Sonia,
You know I'm praying for you! My scan is Thursday & who knows what that might show- I'd appreciate prayers too. I'm still working on the skype thing- maybe I can figure it out.
We'll talk somehow!
Your mum would want your happiness & I know you had a rough time when you were married. Allow yourself forgiveness- it's okay and you will move on in life. Don't be so hard on yourself, my friend.
Hugs to you,
Lisa0 -
do something just for you
this weekend. Lunch with a good friend, uplifiting movie, etc. Positive vibes coming your way this weekend and on Monday for the scan. Keeping it positive helps me through the anticipation!
Hugs
Shanna0 -
Congrats on the 2 year mark
Sending my most powerful mojo your way. Please try not to stress over your mom's feelings, I am sure she is more concerned about your health and happiness, and the divorce is secondary to all of that. Do something nice for yourself this weekend to help take your mind off things
Sandy0 -
Beautiful Sonia
Aww Sonia....you have all the good stuff I can pull together and then some. You're going to have a great scan and have a wonderful day when Monday comes! Have a relaxing weekend and get out in the sunshine....enjoy the weekend my dear.
Love and hugs, Gail0 -
Sonia
I am throwing lots of good your way, even though I truly think all will be well for you. I don't think you let your Mum down, + as the Mom of two daughters I would never want either of them to be in a marriage that was not wonderful. I be your Mom would want only your happiness. I bet once this divorce is behind you, you will be able to look ahead to your future with great excitement. Sonia, I really believe there is a wonderful world awaiting you!0 -
Sonia
Sending out some prayers and good vibes for your scans and just for you. Congrats on getting to this 2 year mark! Scans only once a year is a lot less stress too.
I remember my divorce 24 years ago. All my friends wanted to take me out to celebrate the day the decree was final but, I felt it was the biggest failure of my life and stayed home crying instead. To this day, I consider my divorce to be my biggest failure. The one thing in my life that I couldn't make work no matter what I tried. Of course I was much younger then with less experience and personal growth to put into it. Though it was a failure to me it was also a wonderful personal education about relationships but, especially about myself. I grew a lot from the experience. Hang in there and just feel all the feelings so you don't have to carry them with you. Try to look for the lessons learned and apply them to your life as you go forward. It will be ok even for your mum.
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Prayers coming your way
I think the scan will be clean and then you can put your mind at ease. I am sorry about the divorce sh*t, it will be good to get it finalized perhaps some closure can be found in that. It is hard not get stressed or feel depressed with the scan thing weighing on your mind and I know it is hard not having a mom there to talk to or lean on their shoulder, they always knew what to do to make it all better didn't they
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I felt it :-)johnnybegood said:ok
here it comes vooooodoooooo hooooo dooooo did you feel it.best of luck to you.remember take one day at a time.have a good weekend and just breath...Godbless...johnnybegood
Hugs Johnnybegood thank you. Hope you are ok, and have had a good weekend.0 -
Thank you MarieLovekitties said:Prayers coming your way
Praying that you will find each day that you have a lighter heart.
Divorce is difficult, but not necessarily a failure. Most times it is the best decision to make in light of the circumstances. You will only let your Mom down if you fail to move forward with life and do your best with all you are given.
Hugs and best wishes for a clear scan Monday.
Marie who loves kitties
Hugs to you, you are right. My mom wouldn't want to see me upset if she was around, I just know before she died she was so desperate to make sure I was settled. But anyway, really nervous about tomorrow, yikes. Hope you are ok.0 -
Awwww Lisalisa42 said:prayers
Hi Sonia,
You know I'm praying for you! My scan is Thursday & who knows what that might show- I'd appreciate prayers too. I'm still working on the skype thing- maybe I can figure it out.
We'll talk somehow!
Your mum would want your happiness & I know you had a rough time when you were married. Allow yourself forgiveness- it's okay and you will move on in life. Don't be so hard on yourself, my friend.
Hugs to you,
Lisa
Hugss, your scan will show so much improvement I know it! Praying for you too.0
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