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  • geotina
    geotina Member Posts: 2,111 Member
    I'm sorry:
    I just saw your post. Please accept our condolences on your loss.

    My hubby is Stage IV Colorectal Cancer.

    Sincerely - Tina G.
  • mukamom
    mukamom Member Posts: 402
    geotina said:

    I'm sorry:
    I just saw your post. Please accept our condolences on your loss.

    My hubby is Stage IV Colorectal Cancer.

    Sincerely - Tina G.

    So sorry
    to hear of Pat's passing...and glad both he and you have found peace.

    Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers

    Angela
  • debbieg5
    debbieg5 Member Posts: 167

    solid
    Just because the body is no longer here doesn't mean Pat isn't. He will make sure I am doing fine before he finally goes on. Decided to sit in the living room today, which is something I thought I wouldn't be able to do. And all I can do is sit here and smile.

    Anyone who is Irish knows that things that cannot be seen or explained are alive and well. He's just fine and I will be too. I'm not sad in the least because I know he's happy now. It took him too long to find that happy spot for me to be upset over it. Just wish he could have found it with me instead of by himself.

    Cha d'dhùin doras nach d'fhosgail doras

    next stage
    April,
    Hadn't been on the board for a few days and just saw your post. It is with mixed feelings that I welcome you to our rapidly growing widows club. I know you have been prepared for this for awhile and I'm glad that it went peacefully for both of you. Enjoy your peace but don't feel bad if you don't always feel like smiling. I have found this ride to be like a rollercoaster and sometimes you don't know what's around the next bend. I hope that things go smoothly the next week or so as Pat is laid to rest. Perhaps Ken and Pat will find each other and revel in their restored voices! Prayers for sweet dreams.
    Debbie
  • UKLady
    UKLady Member Posts: 85

    solid
    Just because the body is no longer here doesn't mean Pat isn't. He will make sure I am doing fine before he finally goes on. Decided to sit in the living room today, which is something I thought I wouldn't be able to do. And all I can do is sit here and smile.

    Anyone who is Irish knows that things that cannot be seen or explained are alive and well. He's just fine and I will be too. I'm not sad in the least because I know he's happy now. It took him too long to find that happy spot for me to be upset over it. Just wish he could have found it with me instead of by himself.

    Cha d'dhùin doras nach d'fhosgail doras

    Connemara
    By my bedside is a print of a view across to Connemara from Diamond Hill-each night when I get home from the hospital where Steve is- I look at this and have sent you extra special kind thoughts. I think it is now my April and Patrick print :-)- where *only Gaelic spoken here* is the way of life and its often a grand soft day :-)

    May your God go with you :-)

    Lyndsey
  • mr steve
    mr steve Member Posts: 285

    solid
    Just because the body is no longer here doesn't mean Pat isn't. He will make sure I am doing fine before he finally goes on. Decided to sit in the living room today, which is something I thought I wouldn't be able to do. And all I can do is sit here and smile.

    Anyone who is Irish knows that things that cannot be seen or explained are alive and well. He's just fine and I will be too. I'm not sad in the least because I know he's happy now. It took him too long to find that happy spot for me to be upset over it. Just wish he could have found it with me instead of by himself.

    Cha d'dhùin doras nach d'fhosgail doras

    Sorry
    April,

    {hug}

    Steve
  • SamsWife
    SamsWife Member Posts: 50
    April -
    I'm so sorry - what

    April -

    I'm so sorry - what a long, hard fight! I agree with you - he's at peace now and I'm glad you can smile about that. It sounds as if your hubby was a good, ornery man and you've been a loving, hard working wife - good stuff! Hang in there!

    Lots of love,
    Tina
  • junklady
    junklady Member Posts: 88 Member
    I am sorry to hear the sad news.
    I am thinking of you at this sad time and sending prayers your way. Take care of yourself.

    Cyndi