Boyfriend of 3 years diagnosed last week

BrendaJL

my boyfriend was diagnosed last week with esophageal cancer. It’s been a wild ride for all 7 days-

Diagnosis, feeding tube, port. This morning he got angry at me for doing too much and that I had my feelings hurt when he didn’t want help. He packed his stuff - driving even though he shouldn’t this coming week.
I am struggling with knowing how to help and be supportive.