Living Well With Cancer

thegurns Member Posts: 2 Member
edited June 2022 in Multiple Myeloma #1

I have developed a nine point plan that I follow faithfully. This plan has enabled me to feel healthier (both mentally and physically!) at 69 than at any time since I stopped playing hockey at age 28.

Following these eight steps has made a dramatic impact on my physical and mental health.

1) Get the best medical care possible (get a second or third opinion if necessary). You owe it to yourself, your family and friends to get the best care possible!

2) Surround yourself with family and friends who will help (and provide a support system) when necessary.

3) Follow your Doctor's instructions to the letter regarding your prescriptions. This to me is the most important of all.

4) Get proper nutrition-I eat lots of fruit and vegetables with every meal.

5) Get lots of exercise-walking is great.

6) Vitamins-I take 5 different types every day.

7) Hydrate, hydrate and then hydrate some more! Medical experts say you should drink 64 oz. of a clear liquid like water (but not Vodka!) per day!

8) Sleep-get some! Again, experts recommend 6-8 hours per night. I shut off my phone and all other electronic devices an hour before bedtime. I then take a long hot shower, shut off all the lights and am off to la-la-land until morning!

Michael Phelps gets 7 1/2 hours per night and if it's good enough for him, it's good enough for me!

9) Cultivate and maintain a positive mental attitude. I have a very dear friend who is a retired cardiologist and says that my positive attitude has been instrumental in my beating cancer twice recently.

I am thrilled to be entering my eighteen month of remission and in the words of my favorite rice band Chicago, "Feeling Stronger ever Day!" I am convinced that my strict adherence to this plan has been an enormous help in getting me to this point!

I remember back to day that I heard the magical word that I had prayed on for over a year.

It was early February in 2020 and the phone rang with what I hoped would be good news. For once I was actually correct! It was my hematologist telling me that I was in fact "In Remission!" I thanked her profusely , jumped for joy (but only as high as a chubby old guy can!) I went dancing down the hall and my wife Susan gave me that quizzical look as she often does when I am doing something silly. She realized why I was doing it and joined me in a big hug and a good cry.

I realized then and there that I needed and wanted to help other cancer patients feel the unbridled joy that I now felt.

In March of 2020 I was honored to selected as a Myeloma Coach. This was the opportunity I had wanted to give back and help others feel as wonderful as I did!


It has been truly humbling to share my story on dozens of radio interviews, websites, emails and phone calls. Each time I hear back from someone I have helped, I get a lump in my throat and a warm, fuzzy feeling. I will continue this mission to help my fellow Myeloma patients feel better about the journey that they are on!

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  • Rosiedoch
    Rosiedoch Member Posts: 8 Member

    Loved finding your post and hope you’re still in remission! My husband is 2 months into remission and I read him your post. He is 68 so he really listened to all of the post. I will use your plan especially when days are more trying than others! Thank you