The Cancer Survivors Network (CSN) is a peer support community for cancer patients, survivors, caregivers, families, and friends! CSN is a safe place to connect with others who share your interests and experiences.

Thank you for being a part of the Cancer Survivor Network community. Survivors and caregivers like you have played a unique role in fostering an online environment that encourages connection among those needing support, community, and education. On May 28, the Network will be discontinued. More details are available here . If you have any questions, contact CSNSupportTeam@cancer.org. Thanks again for the support you’ve provided each other over the years. We remain committed to supporting you in other ways throughout your cancer journey.

Therapist

Ross883
Ross883 CSN Member Posts: 11 Member
edited March 2022 in Emotional Support #1

Hi y’all, my name is Michael Ross, I’m 27 years old from a small town in upstate New York. Just diagnosed with a squamous cell on my tongue, but I feel like it’s been months to years. I met with a specialist the other day and one of the nurses came in and was asking prerequisite questions.

First questions asked, “Are you depressed? Yes”

Second question asked, “ Are you sad? Yes”

I have a beautiful wife and son at home. I have discussed it with my wife I should probably start seeing a therapist due to my ongoing issue. Problem right now is I can’t speak very well so seeing an actual therapist might not be the correct thing. I’ve had thoughts in the past but not cancer thoughts or even suicidal thoughts. Do people reach out to friends and family or seeing a license therapist or even a therapist who might be involved with the specific cancer.

Thank you,

Michael Ross

Comments

  • ExcellentTrouble321
    ExcellentTrouble321 CSN Member Posts: 16 Member

    I'm so sorry to hear this. I see your post is old. I hope you have found some help.

    I would say try what works... perhaps all of the above. Having a professional to talk to can really help.