Lack of interest in intimacy

missness2290 Member Posts: 1 Member

Hello, nice to meet you, My name is Nessa, earlier this year(March 15, 2021 to be exact) I was diagnosed with stage 2 ER positive breast cancer. I have gone through 6 weeks of chemotherapy and on September 14, 2021 they removed the cancer.๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐ŸŽŠ๐ŸŽŠ I am now going through radiation Monday through Friday. Before my cancer my boyfriend and I had a very somewhat active sex life and now it is next to none existent and that is because I am just not into it anymore. It is hard for me to relay that to him. He has been somewhat patient with me about it but when he's in the mood it becomes a huge argument because I'm not feeling it, it has gotten so bad for us that he has threatened to go sleep someone else.

Has anyone else had to deal with this and if so how did you cope?