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Twinzma
Twinzma Member Posts: 236 Member

My dear hubby Jim, succumbed to this God awful disease 2 days ago. They had him off of chemo temporally for the colostomy and that stupid ulcer and it just grew so fast. Last week we were supposed to enter a clinical trial, but instead his liver went into failure. God bless the man, he worked up until the end. Thursday he was working and Friday I was on the phone with 911. Now Mothers day is ruined for me, that is when he entered hospice care....If you recall he was diagnosed on Thanksgiving day 2017. It was a good run, and he beat the odds. Cancer didn't beat him as far as I am concerned it was always in his control, the drivers seat of his treatment and the choice to go into hospice....

Thank you all for you support all these years. I love you all and hope that you all KICK CANCERS A** TO THE CURB!!!!

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  • Real Tar Heel
    Real Tar Heel Member Posts: 307 Member
    edited May 2021 #2
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    Sorry for your loss. Peace.

    Sorry for your loss. Peace.

  • Trubrit
    Trubrit Member Posts: 5,800 Member
    edited May 2021 #3
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    So sorry to read this, dear Twinzma

    He was a fighter, and so were you.  How wonderful, to know he was able to work, up until the end. Not a man to lay back and wait for something to happen. 

    I wish you and the children all the best, as you move forward. 

    Pop back to visit with us, on occasoint. We don't want to say goodby. 

    Tru

  • myAZmountain
    myAZmountain Member Posts: 417 Member
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    Oh Twinzma, I am so sorry.

    Your hubby was so brave and so tough and I so admire his courage --I hope he is at peace now and that he will be your guiding star now. My condolences to you and you dear children.

  • worriedson714
    worriedson714 Member Posts: 333 Member
    edited May 2021 #5
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    sorry for your loss

    so sorry for your loss another brave hero gone to soon 

  • SandiaBuddy
    SandiaBuddy Member Posts: 1,381 Member
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    Sympathies

    My deepest sympathies.

  • abita
    abita Member Posts: 1,152 Member
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    I am so sorry for your loss. 

    I am so sorry for your loss. 

  • NewHere
    NewHere Member Posts: 1,427 Member
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    I Am Sorry Twinza

    I am sorry for your loss Twinza.

    All my thoughts are with you, your family and friends.  

  • Twinzma
    Twinzma Member Posts: 236 Member
    edited May 2021 #9
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    Sorry for your loss. Peace.

    Sorry for your loss. Peace.

    Thank you!
     

    Thank you!

     

  • Twinzma
    Twinzma Member Posts: 236 Member
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    Trubrit said:

    So sorry to read this, dear Twinzma

    He was a fighter, and so were you.  How wonderful, to know he was able to work, up until the end. Not a man to lay back and wait for something to happen. 

    I wish you and the children all the best, as you move forward. 

    Pop back to visit with us, on occasoint. We don't want to say goodby. 

    Tru

    No, I don't want to say

    No, I don't want to say goodbye either. So many here have been so helpful through this journey, you especially. You're not just some random person in a group...I consider you a friend and always will. 

  • beaumontdave
    beaumontdave Member Posts: 1,280 Member
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    Sorry this day came, that he

    Sorry this day came, that he kept working working and plugging away is quite a testament to his will. Hope you find solace in his memory, I have a lot of holidays that share Cindy's memory, so I do them the way she'd like...................................Dave

  • KelleyTX
    KelleyTX Member Posts: 36
    edited May 2021 #12
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. 

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Cry

    Kelley

  • danker
    danker Member Posts: 1,276 Member
    edited May 2021 #13
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    Sorry

    My sincre condolances to you..   But he is now pain free in heaven!!!

  • Lovekitties
    Lovekitties Member Posts: 3,364 Member
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    hugs

    So sorry to hear of your loss.  

    May the memories of the best times together help you as you navigate this sad time.

    Marie who loves kitties

  • PamRav
    PamRav Member Posts: 348 Member
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    So sorry

    For the loss of your husband. What a fighter he was.  

    wishing you comfort and peace 

    pam 

  • Trubrit
    Trubrit Member Posts: 5,800 Member
    edited May 2021 #16
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    Twinzma said:

    No, I don't want to say

    No, I don't want to say goodbye either. So many here have been so helpful through this journey, you especially. You're not just some random person in a group...I consider you a friend and always will. 

    *Hugs*

    Friends forever.

    I am just an PM away, if you ever need me. I also have a FB page, for kicks and giggles. 

    Tru

  • Tueffel
    Tueffel Member Posts: 327 Member
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    Sorry

    I am very sorry for your loss of your husband! I will pray and send strength to you, your family and friends.

  • Tom M.
    Tom M. Member Posts: 223 Member
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    Loss

    Iam so very sorry for your loss. May your husband rest in peaceand I pray that you have the strenght to go on in peace. God bless you and your family.

  • grammadebbie
    grammadebbie Member Posts: 464
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    Comfort

    My deepest condolences, I will keep you in my prayers.

     

     

  • Ruthmomto4
    Ruthmomto4 Member Posts: 708 Member
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    I am so very sorry

    My thoughts and prayers to you and your boys 

  • Annabelle41415
    Annabelle41415 Member Posts: 6,742 Member
    edited May 2021 #21
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    So very sorry

    I'm so sorry for your loss. May God comfort you and your family during this most difficult time.

    Kim