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  • Editgrl
    Editgrl Member Posts: 903 Member
    #22
    Memorial Info

    Becca's sister just posted this on her Facebook page:

    A memorial gathering for Rebecca Tolen will be held on Friday, September 15, at the Reception Center at Day and Deremiah-Frye Funeral Home, 4150 E 3rd St, Bloomington, IN 47401. Visitation with family will start at 5:00 pm, with a service at 6:00 pm and reception to follow. Memorial contributions may be made to the American Cancer Society.

  • derMaus
    derMaus Member Posts: 558 Member
    #23
    Editgrl said:

    Memorial Info

    Becca's sister just posted this on her Facebook page:

    A memorial gathering for Rebecca Tolen will be held on Friday, September 15, at the Reception Center at Day and Deremiah-Frye Funeral Home, 4150 E 3rd St, Bloomington, IN 47401. Visitation with family will start at 5:00 pm, with a service at 6:00 pm and reception to follow. Memorial contributions may be made to the American Cancer Society.

    THank you so much, Chris! I

    THank you so much, Chris! I've been wondering and wondering...

  • CheeseQueen57
    CheeseQueen57 Member Posts: 933 Member
    #24
    More info

    Thank you Chris. I went to Facebook and looked at her public pages. What a lovely woman!  I don't mean to be a stalker but I then went to LinkedIn and found her. She had her PhD in anthropology. I did not find an obituary. I'm so sad. I hate cancer!  We feel like we know each other but we just know about our cancers. We don't know about the very rich lives cancer took away. 

  • Red Corvette
    Red Corvette Member Posts: 114 Member
    #25
    Very True Cheese

    So true Cheese. We know each other by our medical conditions but not much about the impact we have and make on our families, friends, co-workers, and the world. Very sad to hear about Becca. Mrs. Red and I always enjoyed her kind words and thoughts. RIP Dr. Becca.

    Red

     

  • NoTimeForCancer
    NoTimeForCancer Member Posts: 3,515 Member
    edited September 2017 #26
    Editgrl said:

    Memorial Info

    Becca's sister just posted this on her Facebook page:

    A memorial gathering for Rebecca Tolen will be held on Friday, September 15, at the Reception Center at Day and Deremiah-Frye Funeral Home, 4150 E 3rd St, Bloomington, IN 47401. Visitation with family will start at 5:00 pm, with a service at 6:00 pm and reception to follow. Memorial contributions may be made to the American Cancer Society.

    Thank you SO MUCH, Chris.  I

    Thank you SO MUCH, Chris.  I live in Indianapolis and may just make the trip to pay my respects.  It would be my honor to represent all you ladies.

  • ConnieSW
    ConnieSW Member Posts: 1,688 Member
    #27
    NoTimeForCancer said:

    Thank you SO MUCH, Chris.  I

    Thank you SO MUCH, Chris.  I live in Indianapolis and may just make the trip to pay my respects.  It would be my honor to represent all you ladies.

    No pressure

    but if you can that would be so meaningful. Our words and thoughts offer much but I often wish I could do more. 

  • rcdeman
    rcdeman Member Posts: 263 Member
    edited September 2017 #28
    So devastated to hear this. :

    So devastated to hear this. :( Becca was one of the women who had a similar diagnose as my mom, UPSC Stage IIIc2. Her diagnosis was about 4-5 months earlier and she went through much of the same journey as us. When she was NED in Dec 2016, I was so hopeful and encouraged, but within a few months after a clear CT scan, it seems like her cancer recurred with a vengeance. I just want to mourn right now because her passing is really hitting me hard. Fervent prayers to her family and friends.

    Rebecca

  • NoTimeForCancer
    NoTimeForCancer Member Posts: 3,515 Member
    #29
    Dear ladies.  I just wanted

    Dear ladies.  I just wanted to let you all know I went down and had the chance to meet Rebecca's dad, sister, and aunt.  What lovely people.  

    I told them who I was and why I was there.  Her sister wanted me to make sure you all know how much Rebecca cherished us and her sister was so happy that she had found us.  

    It was my honor to represent you ladies and I wanted to let you know.

  • derMaus
    derMaus Member Posts: 558 Member
    #30
    NoTimeForCancer said:

    Dear ladies.  I just wanted

    Dear ladies.  I just wanted to let you all know I went down and had the chance to meet Rebecca's dad, sister, and aunt.  What lovely people.  

    I told them who I was and why I was there.  Her sister wanted me to make sure you all know how much Rebecca cherished us and her sister was so happy that she had found us.  

    It was my honor to represent you ladies and I wanted to let you know.

    I'm so glad you were able to

    I'm so glad you were able to go! Thank you for representing us. Blessings on Rebecca and her family. B

  • EZLiving66
    EZLiving66 Member Posts: 1,483 Member
    edited September 2017 #31
    NoTimeForCancer said:

    Dear ladies.  I just wanted

    Dear ladies.  I just wanted to let you all know I went down and had the chance to meet Rebecca's dad, sister, and aunt.  What lovely people.  

    I told them who I was and why I was there.  Her sister wanted me to make sure you all know how much Rebecca cherished us and her sister was so happy that she had found us.  

    It was my honor to represent you ladies and I wanted to let you know.

    Thank you for going and

    Thank you for going and representing use,,

    Love

    Eldri  

    Love

  • Soup52
    Soup52 Member Posts: 908 Member
    #32
    Thanks So much!

    Thanks So much!

  • TeddyandBears_Mom
    TeddyandBears_Mom Member Posts: 1,814 Member
    #33
    Thank you NoTime.  I'm sure

    Thank you NoTime.  I'm sure it meant a lot to Becca's family that you took time out of your day to be there.

    Love and Hugs,

    Cindi

  • janaes
    janaes Member Posts: 799 Member
    edited September 2017 #34
    Thank you No Time for

    Thank you No Time for representing us

  • Nellasing
    Nellasing Member Posts: 528 Member
    #35
    Such a lovely thing to do

    Thank you - I'm sure it was a comfort knowing we were all sending our love.  (((HUGS)))

  • ConnieSW
    ConnieSW Member Posts: 1,688 Member
    edited September 2017 #36
    Thank you,

    No Time.  You are a dear. 

  • janaes
    janaes Member Posts: 799 Member
    #37
    thank you 

    thank you 

  • Jairoldi
    Jairoldi Member Posts: 221 Member
    edited September 2017 #38
    Kind and thoughtful

    What a kind and thoughtful gesture.

  • bluesmama
    bluesmama Member Posts: 125 Member
    #39
    I've been lurking for awhile

    I've been lurking for awhile and I didn't sleep well after reading about Becca's passing. I always checked her updates. Very sad news. RIP Becca.

  • SandyD
    SandyD Member Posts: 130
    #40
    So very sorry to learn this

    Hard to process the emotions when I learn that one of the women posting here has passed. From her posts it was clear that she was a very kind and caring woman. If only there had been  some treatment that could have allowed her more time to enjoy life, family, friends. She so deserved it. Cancer is indeed a cruel disease!

     

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