Newbie-my story CRC

cherrob123
cherrob123 Member Posts: 13
in Colorectal Cancer #1

I posted this as a response to someone newly diagnosed. A member suggested that I post it here. It's a long read.

 

 

I'm new to this forum but unfortunately not new to rectal cancer. I was diagnosed Stage IV metastatic rectal cancer spread to liver and lungs January 2014. Immediately had a port placed, colostomy surgery April '14, Abdominoperineal Resection surgery November '14. I started radiation treatments every weekday for 6 weeks and chemotherapy every other week where I am infused 5-6 hours one day, take a pump home getting chemo drugs for the next 46 hours continuously,then return to have the pump disconnected. I wish I knew all the chemo meds I have been on but I just remember a few but it seems most everyone has relatively the same chemo regime. After 9 months I was NED. I was thrilled, convinced my Oncologist was a genious and I was a walking miracle. I rang the bell, got the Tshirt! Haha. I went off chemo October '14 so I could have my APR surgery. The surgery was brutal. The plan was the surgery would be performed laparoscopic but the radiation had caused the organs to be fused and gummy (surgeon's words, although my radiation oncologist disagreed) so they had to open me up. My rectum, anus, and sigmoid colon were removed as well as lymph nodes, a full hysterectomy and just for good measure, my appendix. It was a difficult recovery but I was cancer free so I did recover. I had a few complications, mainly a couple of staph infections which meant more time in the hospital. I had my quarterly PET scan and I had two mets glow in my lungs. So, more radiation and more chemo. On my third quarterly PET of 2015, those mets were no longer active. I asked my Oncologist if I could stop the chemo treatments so that I could have bladder sling surgery and hammer toe surgery (back to back, same operating room) in December '15. He agreed and I scheduled the surgeries for the 7th. The bladder sling was a success. The hammer toe, not so much. Anyway, they did not put any type of compression garment on my leg that had the foot surgery. I ended up with deep vein thrombosis, another hospital stay, in my left leg. Then that blood clot broke off and traveled to my lung, another hospital stay. Fortunately, it settled in an area that doesn't give me trouble. I had an IVC filter placed. In the meantime I had my 4th quarter PET scan. Well, I had two mets in my liver this time. Back on chemo, but at least the chemo regime was working. I'm not done yet, more problems. Sometime between May and June of last year I started putting on about 10 lbs every 2 weeks. Now, I'm already fat so I am not pleased. My ankles started swelling, then my legs. I was feeling extremely poorly so my daughter convinced my Oncologist to go ahead and put me in the hospital, administer IV antibiotics and get out quickly because he was going out of the country and wouldn't be here to treat me. I continued to gain over 100 pounds of water weight. They didn't know why. It took me 5 days to convince them to do a Doppler Ultrasound on my legs. I had bilateral DVTs in my legs. They were so heavy and so swollen I could no longer walk. They had to catheterize me. Luckily I had my colostomy so I didn't have to suffer that humiliation as well. For 2 months they had me on heparin and diuretics. I hadn't lost a pound. It was a horrible hospital with incompetent doctors to say the very least. They discharged me to home without solving any of my problems and no medical help or equipment whatsoever. Mind you, I still cannot walk at this point. It took 4 men to get me in my daughter's car. I live in Houston, TX so I asked my daughter to drive me to Methodist in the medical center. I was admitted in the ER and in surgery the next morning. My legs were 100% occluded from my knees down and my IVC filter was completely clogged from the top and bottom and I had multiple blood clots in my abdomen. The first hospital nearly killed me. I spent 3 days in ICU. Then after recovery I had to go through physical therapy. Finally got to go home after 3 months in the hospital. I take an injection of blood thinners every day without fail, for the rest of my life.
During my stay in the hospital I was off any cancer treatment. After I got out I had a PET and I then had 4 active Mets in my liver and 4 active Mets in my lungs. Back on chemo immediately. My latest scan shows one met gone completely in the liver and all but one met in the lungs, which has stabilized, have shrunk in size. Chemotherapy is still working, YAY!

Now, that's one helluva story and unfortunately it's true. I didn't type all this out to scare you or freak you out which is probably what I have done. I'm just letting you know that no matter how many times the beast knocks you down, get up, shake yourself off and keep moving forward. I survived all that mess above. I'm still having difficulties walking and stamina isn't what it used to be but I still live my life how I want.

So, in conclusion, no matter your diagnosis, stage, treatment, etc., GO OUT THERE AND KICK ITS BUTT!

Sorry for the long story, just wanted you to know, we can handle a lot!!

Good luck!!

Please, if you have questions, just ask.

Cheryl

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  • Trubrit
    Trubrit Member Posts: 5,804 Member
    #2
    Welcome

    It has been a hard road for you, Cheryl.  I hope that the going gets easier from now on. 

    You certainly have the mindset of someone who is positive, and we all know positive can take us a long way in this battle. 

    TRU

  • cherrob123
    cherrob123 Member Posts: 13
    #3
    Hi TRU

    Thanks so much!!

  • JanJan63
    JanJan63 Member Posts: 2,478 Member
    edited March 2017 #4
    Geez, I had something similar

    Geez, I had something similar but not to that extent. Wow. You must be a very tough lady! I hope you have continued success with the NED status!

    Jan

  • beaumontdave
    beaumontdave Member Posts: 1,289 Member
    #5
    Cheryl, that's a rough road

    Cheryl, that's a rough road you've been on, I'm glad much of that is behind you, and your here with your spirit intact. We've heard a lot of battle stories here, and like yours, they remind us to be grateful for that which we didn't have to endure. I hope things just keep getting better with you, you've certainly earned a few breaks.............................................Dave

  • JanJan63
    JanJan63 Member Posts: 2,478 Member
    edited March 2017 #6
    I forgot to mention- can you

    I forgot to mention- can you just go on Xarelto rather than have the heparin shots? I'm on blood thinners for life after my blood clot and that's what I'm on. There are also a few new drugs out that do the same thing alhtough I don't know the names. My family doctor mentioned it last time.

  • Annabelle41415
    Annabelle41415 Member Posts: 6,742 Member
    edited March 2017 #7
    Oh My Goodness

    You have been through so much.  Thank you for sharing your story but I'm sorry that you've had to go through all of that.  It sounds like you have a lot of fight in you and you are handling it with much dignity.  It's hard to keep moving forward when the chips seem to be falling the wrong way but you are to be commended.  May you continue to fight forward and good results forward.

    Kim

  • danker
    danker Member Posts: 1,276 Member
    #8
    Chery

    May you become totaly Ned, And remain that way forever!!!

  • Colonchick
    Colonchick Member Posts: 36 Member
    edited March 2017 #9
    Thanks for sharing!!!  

    Thanks for sharing!!!  

  • Andrew Graeme
    Andrew Graeme Member Posts: 2
    #10
    Good on you girl! Yes, we can

    Good on you girl! Yes, we can handle heaps! It is amazing that we can forget how resilient we are. Chemo therapy is hard, but the human will is stronger, hey?

     

  • cherrob123
    cherrob123 Member Posts: 13
    #11
    JanJan63 said:

    Geez, I had something similar

    Geez, I had something similar but not to that extent. Wow. You must be a very tough lady! I hope you have continued success with the NED status!

    Jan

    Thanks, Jan. Best of luck to

    Thanks, Jan. Best of luck to you as well!

  • cherrob123
    cherrob123 Member Posts: 13
    #12
    beaumontdave said:

    Cheryl, that's a rough road

    Cheryl, that's a rough road you've been on, I'm glad much of that is behind you, and your here with your spirit intact. We've heard a lot of battle stories here, and like yours, they remind us to be grateful for that which we didn't have to endure. I hope things just keep getting better with you, you've certainly earned a few breaks.............................................Dave

    Thanks, Dave. I appreciate

    Thanks, Dave. I appreciate the kind words.

  • cherrob123
    cherrob123 Member Posts: 13
    #13
    JanJan63 said:

    I forgot to mention- can you

    I forgot to mention- can you just go on Xarelto rather than have the heparin shots? I'm on blood thinners for life after my blood clot and that's what I'm on. There are also a few new drugs out that do the same thing alhtough I don't know the names. My family doctor mentioned it last time.

    Jan, I was on Xeralto when my

    Jan, I was on Xeralto when my blood clot after the foot surgery broke off and.traveled to my lung. Every blood thinner according to my hematologist at Methodist in Houston is a heparin based blood thinner

    Due to Kingwood Hospital keeping me on Heparin for two months straight, I can no longer have heparin. The only blood thinner I am allowed to take is Arixtra because it has no heparin.

  • cherrob123
    cherrob123 Member Posts: 13
    #14
    Annabelle41415 said:

    Oh My Goodness

    You have been through so much.  Thank you for sharing your story but I'm sorry that you've had to go through all of that.  It sounds like you have a lot of fight in you and you are handling it with much dignity.  It's hard to keep moving forward when the chips seem to be falling the wrong way but you are to be commended.  May you continue to fight forward and good results forward.

    Kim

    Thank you Kim for you very

    Thank you Kim for you very sweet words.

  • cherrob123
    cherrob123 Member Posts: 13
    edited March 2017 #15
    danker said:

    Chery

    May you become totaly Ned, And remain that way forever!!!

    Thank you, and the same for

    Thank you, and the same for you as well.

  • cherrob123
    cherrob123 Member Posts: 13
    #16
    Colonchick said:

    Thanks for sharing!!!  

    Thanks for sharing!!!  

    You're welcome!

    You're welcome!

  • cherrob123
    cherrob123 Member Posts: 13
    #17
    Thanks! I had no idea when

    Thanks! I had no idea when this all began that I had so much strength and fight in me.

  • JanJan63
    JanJan63 Member Posts: 2,478 Member
    edited March 2017 #18
    cherrob123 said:

    Jan, I was on Xeralto when my

    Jan, I was on Xeralto when my blood clot after the foot surgery broke off and.traveled to my lung. Every blood thinner according to my hematologist at Methodist in Houston is a heparin based blood thinner

    Due to Kingwood Hospital keeping me on Heparin for two months straight, I can no longer have heparin. The only blood thinner I am allowed to take is Arixtra because it has no heparin.

    Oh geez, that's scary! I have

    Oh geez, that's scary! I have an IVC filter so at least I have that insurance if I should be so unfortunate as to have another one. Sorry if I've mentioned this previously. Now that I'm tryping in here I can't see what I posted before. Duh...

    Jan

  • BWD
    BWD Member Posts: 5
    #19
    what a strong person you are

    You have been thru lots, I am so glad you have a good attitude! I hope things go better for you, God bless!

     

  • DeniseLM
    DeniseLM Member Posts: 3
    #20
    Hoping it gets easier for you

    Would you mind sharing which chemo drugs you have been on?

  • traci43
    traci43 Member Posts: 773 Member
    edited March 2017 #21
    You're quite the fighter!

    Cheryl - That's an amazing story.  Glad you didn't give up and I hope that your road smooths out and chemo kicks those little mets' butts.  Traci

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