She doesnt want anything anymore

munchkin1
munchkin1 Member Posts: 7
in Breast Cancer #1

 


Just a little while ago, my wife, Judy, said that she has had it. She does not want calls, people visiting, texting, no programs like visiting dogs---which she use to love, no future talk, nothing at all.

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  • RozHopkins
    RozHopkins Member Posts: 578 Member
    edited October 2016 #2
    if you have been advised no

    if you have been advised no more can be done, it may just be her way of handling or accepting things.  It will be hard for you to see, her feelings will not have changed for the people in her life it's just she is probably tired and has no more fight left.  I too would want no fuss and just want peace and quiet.  Sad time for you both.

  • Iris_G
    Iris_G Member Posts: 50 Member
    #3
    I completely understand your wife!

    I completely understand your wife's feelings.  I went through a stage in my treatment & recovery where I didn't want any interaction whatsoever with others.  I believe that makes us feel like we're being treated differently than before we were diagnosed, which is what we really don't want!  The only person I really wanted to talk to about this situation was my husband (who still refuses to talk about it AT ALL) and my sister.  Just give her time, and she will come around.  I'll say a prayer for you for strength to get both you and your wife over this difficult time! 

  • disneyfan2008
    disneyfan2008 Member Posts: 6,583 Member
    #4
    hugs and pixie dust

    hugs and pixie dust

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