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OT – how to go about...

jendrey
jendrey CSN Member Posts: 377
edited May 2014 in Breast Cancer #1
*edit: how to go about asking for ring back

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  • CypressCynthia
    CypressCynthia CSN Member Posts: 4,014 Member
    All you can do is to try and

    All you can do is to try and tactfully remind her that the ring is yours.  She will either comply or not.  At that point, I would probably let it go. Settling possessions always seems to bring out the very worst in some.  It is such an emotionally charged time.  Good luck!  I lost my mother, father, gm. gf - all in a few years time.  it is tough.  Gentle hugs!

  • jendrey
    jendrey CSN Member Posts: 377

    All you can do is to try and

    All you can do is to try and tactfully remind her that the ring is yours.  She will either comply or not.  At that point, I would probably let it go. Settling possessions always seems to bring out the very worst in some.  It is such an emotionally charged time.  Good luck!  I lost my mother, father, gm. gf - all in a few years time.  it is tough.  Gentle hugs!

    ...

    I decided not to say anything at all.  They just gave me the ring back.

     

    (((hugs)))

    Jenn 

  • CypressCynthia
    CypressCynthia CSN Member Posts: 4,014 Member
    jendrey said:

    ...

    I decided not to say anything at all.  They just gave me the ring back.

     

    (((hugs)))

    Jenn 

    Perfect!!!  I am so happy

    Perfect!!!  I am so happy that you have this cherished momento. Smile