Our annual survivor trip

icemantoo
icemantoo Member Posts: 3,361 Member

Eleven years ago last August I had  just got out of the hospital from my neph. and my my wife thought we should go on a Carribean cruise  in January to celebrate my recovery and the fact that I had not checked out (she really thought I might check out soon in the begining). The C word was a lot more scary to me then, than it is now. Our 12th annual Caribbean survivor's cruise is next week. The previous 11 we started in San Juan and went South. This  one is for the Western Carabbean and we are going to a bunch of new islands for a change.We generally plan each port when we get there although I am lining up a Dirty Banana for Jamaca.

We are especially looking forward to our cruise this year as my cousin the weatherman has really tried to  ice us over this year at least for those of us in Michigan.

As each of us goes on our journeys we should each do something special for ourselves and our families amd not let the fact that we had a bout with Kidney Cancer get us down..

 

 

Icemantoo

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  • Srashedb
    Srashedb Member Posts: 482 Member
    we just returned from Hawaii;

    we just returned from Hawaii; it was wonderful!!! We had just returned from the Carribean last summer when my husband was diagnosed and I was unsure that we would ever travel again as I watched him  battle and how weak he became with the weight loss.

    i need to stop from feeling that we are making memories and start believing that he will survive from this horrible illness that has entered our lives.

    we are planning a return to Hawaii this June.

    enjoy your trip!

    Sarah

  • Jojo61
    Jojo61 Member Posts: 1,309 Member
    Srashedb said:

    we just returned from Hawaii;

    we just returned from Hawaii; it was wonderful!!! We had just returned from the Carribean last summer when my husband was diagnosed and I was unsure that we would ever travel again as I watched him  battle and how weak he became with the weight loss.

    i need to stop from feeling that we are making memories and start believing that he will survive from this horrible illness that has entered our lives.

    we are planning a return to Hawaii this June.

    enjoy your trip!

    Sarah

    Have a great time! That's a

    Have a great time! That's a really good idea. We were hoping to do something this year but it isn't going to happn. Maybe next year!

    Here's to many more anniversary cruises for you!

    Jojo

  • TillieSOK
    TillieSOK Member Posts: 252
    Make sure you try a Jamaica

    Make sure you try a Jamaica Smile.....tastes just like a strawberry milkshake! ( but milkshakes don't make you think you can dance! ) LOL. Have a great time!

  • Septemberzoe
    Septemberzoe Member Posts: 49
    Srashedb said:

    we just returned from Hawaii;

    we just returned from Hawaii; it was wonderful!!! We had just returned from the Carribean last summer when my husband was diagnosed and I was unsure that we would ever travel again as I watched him  battle and how weak he became with the weight loss.

    i need to stop from feeling that we are making memories and start believing that he will survive from this horrible illness that has entered our lives.

    we are planning a return to Hawaii this June.

    enjoy your trip!

    Sarah

    Great idea!

    An annual survivor trip sounds like a great idea! I was diagnosed on our 21st wedding anniversary so it was no time to celebrate but I'm hoping to celebrate our22nd in a big way! I know what you mean about trying to stop making memories and just live...trying to make that shift In my brain too...have an awesome trip!! xo

  • Darron
    Darron Member Posts: 310 Member
    TillieSOK said:

    Make sure you try a Jamaica

    Make sure you try a Jamaica Smile.....tastes just like a strawberry milkshake! ( but milkshakes don't make you think you can dance! ) LOL. Have a great time!

    My dirty banana

    I read my intended post and had to edit it out. 

    ICE, enjoy the well deserves trip!

    Tillie, you can only imagine the comment I erased.... :)

     

  • Frank302
    Frank302 Member Posts: 71
    Darron said:

    My dirty banana

    I read my intended post and had to edit it out. 

    ICE, enjoy the well deserves trip!

    Tillie, you can only imagine the comment I erased.... :)

     

    Hey Iceman

    Have a wonderful trip . Have a great time . Try to get thawed out . Hug a palm tree for me . I love palm trees .

  • Rugbyfire44
    Rugbyfire44 Member Posts: 9
    Can't beat a vacation

    Hey Ice, I'm a michigander also. I was diagnosed with a kidney tumor in early October. My surgeaon told me I needed a radical nephrectomy (4cm tumor in a bad location). I had a planned vacation later in October to Sedona, AZ, the Grand Canyon, and Vegas. He told me it would take about 3 to 4 weeks to get me in for the surgery. He then said to keep my vacation plans and we would have surgery scheduled upon my return. Some of my family and friends thought we were nuts to go on a vacation. How could you possibly enjoy yourself? I can tell you that my vacation was fabulous, I really didn't think much about my problem. When we returned we dealt with the surgery. All I can say is that we need to enjoy every day. Take your cruises, take your trips, enjoy your life.

  • Rugbyfire44
    Rugbyfire44 Member Posts: 9

    Can't beat a vacation

    Hey Ice, I'm a michigander also. I was diagnosed with a kidney tumor in early October. My surgeaon told me I needed a radical nephrectomy (4cm tumor in a bad location). I had a planned vacation later in October to Sedona, AZ, the Grand Canyon, and Vegas. He told me it would take about 3 to 4 weeks to get me in for the surgery. He then said to keep my vacation plans and we would have surgery scheduled upon my return. Some of my family and friends thought we were nuts to go on a vacation. How could you possibly enjoy yourself? I can tell you that my vacation was fabulous, I really didn't think much about my problem. When we returned we dealt with the surgery. All I can say is that we need to enjoy every day. Take your cruises, take your trips, enjoy your life.

    Dang

    I never seem to get these comments to the right spot. Oh well.

  • TillieSOK
    TillieSOK Member Posts: 252
    Darron said:

    My dirty banana

    I read my intended post and had to edit it out. 

    ICE, enjoy the well deserves trip!

    Tillie, you can only imagine the comment I erased.... :)

     

    Yup!  Not only imagine but

    Yup!  Not only imagine but got a mental image. Bwahahahahahahaha!

  • icemantoo
    icemantoo Member Posts: 3,361 Member

    Dang

    I never seem to get these comments to the right spot. Oh well.

    Change of plans

    Got a bad cough (up all night) . Cancelled cruise. Have trip insurance for cruise. Going to Vegas for 4 days in May instead. Hope to keep up my annual survivor trip for as many years as possible.

     

    Icemantoo

  • Srashedb
    Srashedb Member Posts: 482 Member
    icemantoo said:

    Change of plans

    Got a bad cough (up all night) . Cancelled cruise. Have trip insurance for cruise. Going to Vegas for 4 days in May instead. Hope to keep up my annual survivor trip for as many years as possible.

     

    Icemantoo

    sorry to hear that and hope

    sorry to hear that and hope you feel better soon. Vegas in May should be hot; one of the places I have never been to

    Sarah

  • Eims
    Eims Member Posts: 423
    icemantoo said:

    Change of plans

    Got a bad cough (up all night) . Cancelled cruise. Have trip insurance for cruise. Going to Vegas for 4 days in May instead. Hope to keep up my annual survivor trip for as many years as possible.

     

    Icemantoo

    Oh sorry to hear that ice but

    Oh sorry to hear that ice but on the up side you are off to Vegas baby!!!!!

  • Jojo61
    Jojo61 Member Posts: 1,309 Member
    Eims said:

    Oh sorry to hear that ice but

    Oh sorry to hear that ice but on the up side you are off to Vegas baby!!!!!

    So sorry

    Hi Iceman,

    So sorry you had to cancel, but it was the rght thing to do. Vegas will be fun too! I am going to Vegas with some girlfriends on Valentine weekend.Never been - and the Eagles are performing there that weekend. I am most excited about that!!

    Feel better!

    Hugs

    Jojo

  • foxhd
    foxhd Member Posts: 3,181 Member
    Jojo61 said:

    So sorry

    Hi Iceman,

    So sorry you had to cancel, but it was the rght thing to do. Vegas will be fun too! I am going to Vegas with some girlfriends on Valentine weekend.Never been - and the Eagles are performing there that weekend. I am most excited about that!!

    Feel better!

    Hugs

    Jojo

    Vacation

    Most years I go to florida or myrtle beach for winter golf vacation. This year I am content just being home. Catching up on things I need to complete. In the winter I have felt that as darkness comes early it was like a window shade being pulled down over my eyes. Quite the metaphor for watching my life pass. I do look forward to a couple motorcycle trips this summer. Also have a camping spot at the beach for a couple weeks.

    Everyone needs to take some time for themselves after fighting their cancer diagnosis. And it is ok to be a little egocentric for awhile. Do something for yourselves. It's the old saying, "Don't go away mad. Just go away."

  • GSRon
    GSRon Member Posts: 1,303 Member
    foxhd said:

    Vacation

    Most years I go to florida or myrtle beach for winter golf vacation. This year I am content just being home. Catching up on things I need to complete. In the winter I have felt that as darkness comes early it was like a window shade being pulled down over my eyes. Quite the metaphor for watching my life pass. I do look forward to a couple motorcycle trips this summer. Also have a camping spot at the beach for a couple weeks.

    Everyone needs to take some time for themselves after fighting their cancer diagnosis. And it is ok to be a little egocentric for awhile. Do something for yourselves. It's the old saying, "Don't go away mad. Just go away."

    Free Vacation

    Yes, you read that right... FREE vacation cruise...  However thankfully most of us do not qualify... I hope none of us ever do... but I do think there may be one or two here that do qualify...  Yes it is a biker sponsored cruise..!

    https://www.highseasrally.com/cruise/EC14/content_pages/view/just_rewards

    Ron

  • garym
    garym Member Posts: 1,647
    GSRon said:

    Free Vacation

    Yes, you read that right... FREE vacation cruise...  However thankfully most of us do not qualify... I hope none of us ever do... but I do think there may be one or two here that do qualify...  Yes it is a biker sponsored cruise..!

    https://www.highseasrally.com/cruise/EC14/content_pages/view/just_rewards

    Ron

    Vacation...

    I leave Sunday for another two weeks on the beaches of St. Maarten...and yes textile adornments are definetly optionalCool

  • foxhd
    foxhd Member Posts: 3,181 Member
    garym said:

    Vacation...

    I leave Sunday for another two weeks on the beaches of St. Maarten...and yes textile adornments are definetly optionalCool

    Have fun Gary

    I won a trip to St. Marteens a couple years back but never got to go. So the opportunity expired. I really wanted to go. My wife was completely uninterested. But I also won a trip to Hawaii 20 years ago. We went to that one.  I hope you've been doing situps. Or is the belly hang gonna take the place of sunscreen on your youwho?

  • twinthings
    twinthings Member Posts: 409
    foxhd said:

    Have fun Gary

    I won a trip to St. Marteens a couple years back but never got to go. So the opportunity expired. I really wanted to go. My wife was completely uninterested. But I also won a trip to Hawaii 20 years ago. We went to that one.  I hope you've been doing situps. Or is the belly hang gonna take the place of sunscreen on your youwho?

    sunscreen on your youwho

    I seriously laughed out loud, fox!  You conjured up quite the mental image. 

    Ice, sorry to hear you had to nix the cruise.  What a bummer!  I'm sure Vegas will more than make up for it...unless you come back broke.

    Ron, I'm a biker chick.   Some day I want my own Harley, smaller than hubby's of course, but for now I'm content riding b****.  We have his and hers Jeep Rubicons so it's only fair that we should have his and hers bikes.  How cute would we be?!  Hubby thinks "the cute factor" is not reason enough for me to get my own bike.  Really?  What a spoiler!  I think he just likes having me wrapped around him, if the truth be known.

    Anyway, maybe I'll check out that free cruise Wink