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My George - RIP

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  • Lorikat
    Lorikat CSN Member Posts: 681 Member
    #62
    God bless you in the days to
    God bless you in the days to come..... Cry if you need to, beat up the couch pillows, whatever helps ... Have been there and will pray for peace and serenity for you... LoriKat with hugs
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  • spainmum
    spainmum CSN Member Posts: 29
    #63
    Dear Tina
    I'm so sorry for your loss. My tears are falling.

    Love and big hugs.
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  • karguy
    karguy CSN Member Posts: 1,020 Member
    #64
    I'm
    I'm very sorry to hear the bad news,may he rest in peace.He will be greatly missed.
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  • Dyanclark
    Dyanclark CSN Member Posts: 296
    #65
    Husband
    My husband is also named George fighting cancer. Your story gives me such a sick feeling, I hope you can go on and be happy again.
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  • Aud
    Aud CSN Member Posts: 479
    #66
    Dear Tina
    I am so sorry for the loss of your husband George. Holding you in the Light for comfort.
    ~Audrey
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  • herdizziness
    herdizziness CSN Member Posts: 3,624 Member
    #67
    Tina
    We send you our love to you.
    Winter Marie
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  • herdizziness
    herdizziness CSN Member Posts: 3,624 Member
    #68
    Tina
    Each time I open this post I am overcome with tears.
    What brings these tears is your bravery. I had been off the board for three days and regretfully didn't see your first post about going to the hospital, and I'll regret not being there for you in your time of need for a life time.
    George was in the best and most capable hands ever; yours. You should not have a single regret for being with him every step along the way. You made George a real living human being to us, your concerns, heartbreak over the cancer and love with him.
    I can not begin to even imagine your sorrow, even though you allowed us in to see it and feel it along with you.
    I will forever remember your words of snuggling with him, being next to him, giving him all your love and strength and can only hope that someday my husband would dare to give me the same devotion and love that you gave your George.
    As you walk from room to empty room, we are there with you in your sorrow, lending you the strength you will need to get you through the upcoming days,weeks, months, we will not fail you.
    You gave us so much in understanding of a loved one watching from the outside in, your caring, your love, your heartbreak.
    If there is anything I can do, or anything we can do, PLEASE DO NOT HESITATE TO ASK!!!
    You and George have always been there for us, please allow us to be there for you,
    Our love, our heartbreak,
    Winter Marie
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  • jasminsaba
    jasminsaba CSN Member Posts: 157 Member
    #69
    Great loss ...
    I am very sorry to hear about your George's passing ... I am sure you miss him terribly, but I hope you can find some comfort in the memories and the wonderful life you shared together.
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  • tanstaafl
    tanstaafl CSN Member Posts: 1,312 Member
    #70
    sorry, Tina
    I'm sorry about George's passing. Hopefully the good memories of him will displace the loss and pain over time. He appreciated you.
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  • thingy45
    thingy45 CSN Member Posts: 632 Member
    #71
    tanstaafl said:

    sorry, Tina
    I'm sorry about George's passing. Hopefully the good memories of him will displace the loss and pain over time. He appreciated you.

    Tears
    So sorry Tina, I have been away and just checked in at the board, and find your message. Here I am with tears on my cheeks, so sorry for you and the family. Cherish your memories, for me it has been 6 years since the passing of my husband and I stil see his smile to me the day he passed.
    Hugs, Marjan
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  • have2believe
    have2believe CSN Member Posts: 134
    #72
    my deepest condolences
    My mom has been fighting for close to 3 years and I believe we are nearing the end. I don't think I can honestly fathom it. Like I know it's going to happen, but the idea she won't be here is too difficult to believe. So I cannot even imagine how difficult this loss must be for you. I am so so sorry. You were with him every step of the way. I hope you find comfort in those around you and that in times of grief, you can also feel the love. Again, my deepest condolences.
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  • traci43
    traci43 CSN Member Posts: 771 Member
    #73
    peace be with you
    Tina - George fought valiently with you by his side. It's so sad to hear he lost the battle, but it sounds like he was at peace at the end. May the sad times give way to memories of your lives together. YOu are in my prayers, Traci
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  • Godlovesus
    Godlovesus CSN Member Posts: 6
    #74
    Tina, its devastating news.
    Tina, its devastating news. I didnt know you or George but my heart breaks for your loss. May his soul rest in peace and may you find comfort in knowing you had his love, cared for him and he is still with you.

    Prayers and hugs

    Trisha
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  • amyb15
    amyb15 CSN Member Posts: 109 Member
    #75
    tina
    I havent been on the boards in months and was so saddened to hear about George. You were so lucky to have had eachother. You took great care of him. You were a great support to me when Brenda was sick. You are a teiffic person. You will see George again.
    With love and sympathy
    Amy
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  • ktlcs
    ktlcs CSN Member Posts: 358
    #76
    I am so Sorry
    Tina, I don't post that often since I lost my Henry 2 years ago, but have kept up with everyone's stories since then. I am so sorry to hear about your George. Your story is quite a bit like mine, we went to the ER on a Sunday for back pain and he was gone by Friday. I guess what I am trying to say is that I know your pain, I know the feeling of the empty house, a favorite tv show, the automatic instinct to tell him something and then remember he isn't there to tell. I can only say that with time your pain will lessen and your memories will be of the good times.

    When a a loved one becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure. You will always have the treasure of having had George in your life.

    Again, I am so sorry

    K
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  • marqimark
    marqimark CSN Member Posts: 242 Member
    #77
    Sorry for your loss
    I too have not been here for a while and it is with heavy heart that I read of of your loss. A great loss to this community also.

    Love and peace to you

    Mark
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  • Patti1
    Patti1 CSN Member Posts: 109 Member
    #78
    Sorry For Your Loss
    Tina,

    I am so sorry for your loss of George, I know that he will be missed. I am sorry that I have not posted in a while since I lost Dennis 9/2/11, it has been a journey, but we can go on. I love you and share your loss.

    Patti
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  • Phil64
    Phil64 CSN Member Posts: 838 Member
    #79
    Peace and Love to you from Phil (Detroit Michigan)
    Tina, I wish you peace and love as you go through this time. I'm very sorry for your loss.

    Phil (fellow Michigander)
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  • elizabethgd
    elizabethgd CSN Member Posts: 145
    #80
    Phil64 said:

    Peace and Love to you from Phil (Detroit Michigan)
    Tina, I wish you peace and love as you go through this time. I'm very sorry for your loss.

    Phil (fellow Michigander)

    I am so sorry
    So sorry for your loss. It sounds like a peaceful passing.. and you were so loving.
    thank you for sharing your story of love.I am sorry for your sadness. May your love bring you comfort.
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