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  • relaxoutdoors08
    relaxoutdoors08 Member Posts: 521 Member
    Sonia32 said:

    Pete
    Arghhh if only we could legally rob banks, but they rob us ha lol. I hope you ease back into work with less stress.

    Agree
    Wall Street and the Banks ......caused the downturn in the World Economy ......we all were hurt.

    Meditation and anti cancer diet recommended by Mayo clinic....use food not supplements.

    Pete, We are here to support you and many wonderful members are trying to say what works for them and they care about you. We are saying find Balance in your life. Do not let cancer win over finding Balance as you meditate.
    Sending positive, relaxing thoughts for you.
    NB
  • Nana b
    Nana b Member Posts: 3,030 Member
    here4lfe said:

    Jeepers Beev' (Wally Cleaver)
    If I were 'Down Under' I'd help you with those repairs. I only work on my own house, but for you I'd make an exception.

    Best

    Goldie
    Have him go back to work. Quit after he has benefits usually 30!days for a new hire and get COBRA. He can't go longer then 62 days without insurance because he then falls under pre existing. I worked so many years just for medical benefits. Then I get sick. Go on cobra to only have it last 18 months. There is something wrong with that picture. Just when we need it.
  • Nana b
    Nana b Member Posts: 3,030 Member
    Nana b said:

    Goldie
    Have him go back to work. Quit after he has benefits usually 30!days for a new hire and get COBRA. He can't go longer then 62 days without insurance because he then falls under pre existing. I worked so many years just for medical benefits. Then I get sick. Go on cobra to only have it last 18 months. There is something wrong with that picture. Just when we need it.

    Pete. You do what you need
    Pete. You do what you need to do. You can't take that money with you. Healing is all about the immune system and although supplements haven't proven to heal, they can help your immune system. You going back to work is good. Use the strength that you now have to get your finances in check then heck take two more years.

    Take care. It's not your fault that you have the means. It may be what is saving you. My husband would not give a damm if I used all our money for a cure. And, I always pay it forward every day.

    I almost lost my house when my husband and I both lost our jobs but I stayed positive and great jobs came our way. It works.

    All, please leave him alone..... Basing him is his wife's job.

    I would also like to contribute to mom and daughter. Let me know how.

    And Pete, I know you are using us as a sound board, but you aren't going to get positive feedback when others are in hurting status, but I will listen.
  • pete43lost_at_sea
    pete43lost_at_sea Member Posts: 3,900 Member
    Nana b said:

    Pete. You do what you need
    Pete. You do what you need to do. You can't take that money with you. Healing is all about the immune system and although supplements haven't proven to heal, they can help your immune system. You going back to work is good. Use the strength that you now have to get your finances in check then heck take two more years.

    Take care. It's not your fault that you have the means. It may be what is saving you. My husband would not give a damm if I used all our money for a cure. And, I always pay it forward every day.

    I almost lost my house when my husband and I both lost our jobs but I stayed positive and great jobs came our way. It works.

    All, please leave him alone..... Basing him is his wife's job.

    I would also like to contribute to mom and daughter. Let me know how.

    And Pete, I know you are using us as a sound board, but you aren't going to get positive feedback when others are in hurting status, but I will listen.

    thanks raquel and everyone
    i loved your comments, a big thanks, and an even bigger smile!!!!!!!

    even some of the challenging comments are strangley the most positive. They made me deeply consider my motivations.

    i am so stubborn and pigheaded. i know what i am doing is the best i could find for me within the environment i live in. I clear see that solving the financial issue, is the number one task on my healing journey. getting well needs time and money. all that happened is i got so focused on healing, i avoided worrying about money.

    the wife bash's and then hugs, just like this board. although some people tend to bash more and hug less, other hug more and bash less.

    i did get off my chest my frustration about having my cancer healing focus forcefully directed back to the real world, when i know deep meditation and my alternatives including tcm are the way for me at present.

    My nack for making money is still with me, I had not realised how swamped my wife was, that she would not ask for help. she is as stubborn as me in some ways. i still have a good business, but its profitability relies on me, so i need to restructure it to suit all our needs, the wife and the families needs going forward and to give me the funds for my treatment if they are needed. did you see the post about the german clinics.

    much like my healing focus, its clear to me now that my financial focus maybe as importsnt to my long term survival as any of my alternatives. So i have to add the financial management back to my current list of tasks.

    its crazy but cashflow is king, i thought i was safe because i was blessed with many good assets, but when the credit declines, it declines. when you cannot borrow more money, you have to earn it. i have learned so much out of this financial challenge about keeping a close eye on credit and lines of credit and funding treatment and lifestyle.

    I know how to rob the banks legally and i will do it with a smile, i am seeing three private bankers on thursday morning. i will have a shave and put on my suit with the goal of setting facilities that will look after my wife, my kids and myself so we don't have to have this problem again. What I have to do is not illegal, its technically legal and it involves working with the banks by their rules, but also out smarting them. every task has to get a result, time is precious.

    off to meditate in the bath, i had such a productive weekend the business losses has stopped, we are making a managable profit now and can pay down the debt.

    I will still do my 3 sessions of vit c a week and my qigong, i have fitted my cancer therapies around the work.

    thanks for listening, i know many are hurting, our cancer causes such pain.

    hugs,
    pete
  • PhillieG
    PhillieG Member Posts: 4,866 Member

    thanks raquel and everyone
    i loved your comments, a big thanks, and an even bigger smile!!!!!!!

    even some of the challenging comments are strangley the most positive. They made me deeply consider my motivations.

    i am so stubborn and pigheaded. i know what i am doing is the best i could find for me within the environment i live in. I clear see that solving the financial issue, is the number one task on my healing journey. getting well needs time and money. all that happened is i got so focused on healing, i avoided worrying about money.

    the wife bash's and then hugs, just like this board. although some people tend to bash more and hug less, other hug more and bash less.

    i did get off my chest my frustration about having my cancer healing focus forcefully directed back to the real world, when i know deep meditation and my alternatives including tcm are the way for me at present.

    My nack for making money is still with me, I had not realised how swamped my wife was, that she would not ask for help. she is as stubborn as me in some ways. i still have a good business, but its profitability relies on me, so i need to restructure it to suit all our needs, the wife and the families needs going forward and to give me the funds for my treatment if they are needed. did you see the post about the german clinics.

    much like my healing focus, its clear to me now that my financial focus maybe as importsnt to my long term survival as any of my alternatives. So i have to add the financial management back to my current list of tasks.

    its crazy but cashflow is king, i thought i was safe because i was blessed with many good assets, but when the credit declines, it declines. when you cannot borrow more money, you have to earn it. i have learned so much out of this financial challenge about keeping a close eye on credit and lines of credit and funding treatment and lifestyle.

    I know how to rob the banks legally and i will do it with a smile, i am seeing three private bankers on thursday morning. i will have a shave and put on my suit with the goal of setting facilities that will look after my wife, my kids and myself so we don't have to have this problem again. What I have to do is not illegal, its technically legal and it involves working with the banks by their rules, but also out smarting them. every task has to get a result, time is precious.

    off to meditate in the bath, i had such a productive weekend the business losses has stopped, we are making a managable profit now and can pay down the debt.

    I will still do my 3 sessions of vit c a week and my qigong, i have fitted my cancer therapies around the work.

    thanks for listening, i know many are hurting, our cancer causes such pain.

    hugs,
    pete

    "its technically legal"
    LOVE IT!
    I tend to do things that are "technically illegal"
    :-)
    I think if you can separate your finances so the family is A-OK and you have the freedom to pursue your journey it becomes a win-win.
    Best of luck!
    -p
  • luvinlife2
    luvinlife2 Member Posts: 172 Member
    Couldn't agree more
    with Raquel's post. It's not up to any of us to judge how someone deals with their cancer, raises their family or spends their own money. I LOVE that you are stubborn Pete!!! Thank you for sharing all your research and ideas and keep em coming please!!!