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  • mopar
    mopar Member Posts: 1,972 Member
    #22
    garden gal said:

    hello everyone
    Sat. they told us that my son has severe brain damage and he will not wake up. I have to make the decision to stop all medical care. How How do I make this decision. I look at him and he looks so peaceful and that he's just sleeping. I have prayed so hard for answers. I don't have any more strength left in me. My heart is hurting. Kathy

    DEAREST KATHY
    My husband's sister and brother-in-law had to make the same decision for their dear daugther, only 32 years old. My heart breaks for you and I wish I could be there with you to hold your hand and support you.

    May our Dear Lord give you strength and guidance, wisdom and peace. Don't let them rush you into this. Take all the time you need.

    I continue to hold HOPE, no matter what.

    Monika
  • sandyinmi
    sandyinmi Member Posts: 17
    #23
    In our thoughts and prayers
    You and your whole family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
    Sandy
  • Kaleena
    Kaleena Member Posts: 2,088 Member
    #24
    garden gal said:

    hello everyone
    Sat. they told us that my son has severe brain damage and he will not wake up. I have to make the decision to stop all medical care. How How do I make this decision. I look at him and he looks so peaceful and that he's just sleeping. I have prayed so hard for answers. I don't have any more strength left in me. My heart is hurting. Kathy

    There are no words to
    There are no words to express to comfort you in the decisions you have to make. Please just know that you, your son, and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
  • kikz
    kikz Member Posts: 1,345 Member
    #25
    sandyinmi said:

    In our thoughts and prayers
    You and your whole family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
    Sandy

    I am so sorry
    to hear this. I am praying for your son and your family. Please know you are in my thoughts.

    Karen
  • wlkdnose
    wlkdnose Member Posts: 45
    #26
    kikz said:

    I am so sorry
    to hear this. I am praying for your son and your family. Please know you are in my thoughts.

    Karen

    .
    I am so very sorry to hear this.
  • Gottalovelife
    Gottalovelife Member Posts: 45
    #27
    garden gal said:

    hello everyone
    Sat. they told us that my son has severe brain damage and he will not wake up. I have to make the decision to stop all medical care. How How do I make this decision. I look at him and he looks so peaceful and that he's just sleeping. I have prayed so hard for answers. I don't have any more strength left in me. My heart is hurting. Kathy

    That has to be so hard
    I thought going through ovarian cancer was hard, but I can't imagine what you are going through right now having to make that decision. I am praying that God will give you the strength to make the right decision. Please have faith that God will lead you down the right path. My prayers are with you.

    Cindy
  • debrajo
    debrajo Member Posts: 1,095 Member
    #28
    garden gal said:

    hello everyone
    Sat. they told us that my son has severe brain damage and he will not wake up. I have to make the decision to stop all medical care. How How do I make this decision. I look at him and he looks so peaceful and that he's just sleeping. I have prayed so hard for answers. I don't have any more strength left in me. My heart is hurting. Kathy

    Dearest Kathy, I too am so
    Dearest Kathy, I too am so sorry for the pain you are going through. I also had to make that same terrible decision when our son, Joshua was on life support. There was only one question I asked that finially persuaded me to turn off the machines. That question was"Is he in any pain and what is best for my son". In some part of him, the dr.s believed he was in pain and there was no life for him,at all, on the machines. I made the decision to terminate life support. He passed immedently and peacefully. Did I regret it later...yes, did I think I acted too quickly...yes was it the right thing to do after all else had failed...yes. As mothers we want our children to be healthy, happy, safe, and we always want to fix all the bad things for our kids. Search your heart for what your son would have wanted, search your heart for what you want, then listen to the voice of God, ask Him for his will to be done. "Be still and know I AM GOD" Blessings and Peace to you and to all your house. Best, debrajo
  • AnneBehymer
    AnneBehymer Member Posts: 738 Member
    #29
    garden gal said:

    hello everyone
    Sat. they told us that my son has severe brain damage and he will not wake up. I have to make the decision to stop all medical care. How How do I make this decision. I look at him and he looks so peaceful and that he's just sleeping. I have prayed so hard for answers. I don't have any more strength left in me. My heart is hurting. Kathy

    My heart is breaking for you
    My heart is breaking for you I am lifting you up right now that if you have not made the choise yet that God brings you a peace that passes all understanding and that what ever choice you make you make with a peace that you know you made the right one.

    love you and praying
    Anne

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