Nick - One Year, One Month after Diagnosis - Gone....

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  • Cora11
    Cora11 Member Posts: 173
    #62
    AngieD said:

    Just no words, Terry. You
    Just no words, Terry. You and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers every day since I learned of the recurrence. I'm glad Nick was at peace and I'm praying for strength for you for the next minute, hour, and days.
    Hugs,
    Angie

    my sorrow
    Terri, I have been awol but you all are in my thoughts. I was spending more time on the FB board. I have always remembered how you jumped right in and guided me through the first terrible weeks of EC and the process. Your cheerleading and kindness shined through the screen and I could tell we were kindred spirits and Nick just seems the definition of "cool" . I came to the site tonight when I heard the news a few days ago that he wasn't doing well. This I wasn't expecting, yet what do we learn here- expect everything unexpected. My heart goes out to you and yours and this long ride and I feel peace for Nick. All my love and light and peace,
    Jude
  • jgwright
    jgwright Member Posts: 242
    #63
    Shock indeed.
    How quickly we can go from "doing okay", to "goodbye", aka "God be with ye". I've appreciated your caring and concern, and I join in sharing your sadness. Still having family and no long-lasting suffering is a good thing. As much as anything of this rotten disease can be said to be "good".

    You take care, and our love and prayers are with you.

    --Jerry
  • annalan
    annalan Member Posts: 138
    #64
    TerryV said:

    Nick is gone....
    I lost Nick at 7:46 AM on June 19th - one year and one month to day after the initial endoscopy that brought us to you. We are saddened that it happened in the hospital, but he was comfortable (most important) and surrounded by family.

    Thank you everyone for your care, your concern and your love!

    Terry
    PROUD wife to Nick, age 49 1 month and 6 days

    Terry I'm so, so sorry to
    Terry I'm so, so sorry to hear about Nick. I send my condolence to you and your family. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

    Ann wife of Alan
  • Freida
    Freida Member Posts: 182
    #65
    TerryV said:

    Nick is gone....
    I lost Nick at 7:46 AM on June 19th - one year and one month to day after the initial endoscopy that brought us to you. We are saddened that it happened in the hospital, but he was comfortable (most important) and surrounded by family.

    Thank you everyone for your care, your concern and your love!

    Terry
    PROUD wife to Nick, age 49 1 month and 6 days

    Oh Terry, I am am so shocked
    Oh Terry, I am am so shocked and sad to read your news about Nick. I am just sitting here in tears and speechless. Damn this horrible rotten cancer. Although we have never met, your kindness has touched my heart and comforted me when I needed it, and I feel like a dear friend has lost their loved one. You and your children are in my thoughts. I wish you so much strength for the difficult days ahead. I just don't know what to say. So very sorry.
    Love and hugs
    Freida
  • Ginny_B
    Ginny_B Member Posts: 532
    #66
    TerryV said:

    Nick is gone....
    I lost Nick at 7:46 AM on June 19th - one year and one month to day after the initial endoscopy that brought us to you. We are saddened that it happened in the hospital, but he was comfortable (most important) and surrounded by family.

    Thank you everyone for your care, your concern and your love!

    Terry
    PROUD wife to Nick, age 49 1 month and 6 days

    Tears and tears
    I can't even write through the tears. It just fills me with memories of losing my mom. Terry, you are so strong. You will continue to be strong as you fight this new grief battle. Just keep hold of the PEACE that they now feel. My mom, your Nick, Eric, Lee and all the others - peace.

    They will ever be with us, girlfriend!
  • rose20
    rose20 Member Posts: 258
    #67
    Oh Terry,
    There are just no words for something like this. I am so very sorry.
    You have always been so supportive on here. I will be praying for you and your family.
  • Altra
    Altra Member Posts: 26
    #68
    So incredibly sorry to hear
    So incredibly sorry to hear about this, Terry. Saw that he had passed two days ago and the tears started flowing, as it is all too fresh in my own memory, going through this. Thinking of you and your kids a lot today and sending you all virtual hugs.
  • sandy1943
    sandy1943 Member Posts: 824
    #69
    Altra said:

    So incredibly sorry to hear
    So incredibly sorry to hear about this, Terry. Saw that he had passed two days ago and the tears started flowing, as it is all too fresh in my own memory, going through this. Thinking of you and your kids a lot today and sending you all virtual hugs.

    Terry, So saddened that the
    Terry, So saddened that the beast has claimed another of our family! Praying for comfort for you and the family.
    Sandra
  • unclaw2002
    unclaw2002 Member Posts: 599
    #70
    TerryV said:

    Nick is gone....
    I lost Nick at 7:46 AM on June 19th - one year and one month to day after the initial endoscopy that brought us to you. We are saddened that it happened in the hospital, but he was comfortable (most important) and surrounded by family.

    Thank you everyone for your care, your concern and your love!

    Terry
    PROUD wife to Nick, age 49 1 month and 6 days

    Terry,
    Words can offer
    Terry,

    Words can offer little comfort at this moment. I am so sorry and saddened to hear that Nick has passed away. Just know many are praying for you and sending you and your family our love. I pray for comfort for you as you try to get through the next few days and weeks.

    Love,
    Cindy
  • JaneO
    JaneO Member Posts: 40
    #71
    TerryV said:

    Nick is gone....
    I lost Nick at 7:46 AM on June 19th - one year and one month to day after the initial endoscopy that brought us to you. We are saddened that it happened in the hospital, but he was comfortable (most important) and surrounded by family.

    Thank you everyone for your care, your concern and your love!

    Terry
    PROUD wife to Nick, age 49 1 month and 6 days

    So sad to hear the news
    Terry, I am so sorry to hear Nick is gone and that it can go so quickly from being ok to terrible. We really do need to count each day as a blessing and make it count. I am praying for you and your family in the days and weeks ahead.

    Jane& Jack (stage IV)
  • JReed
    JReed Member Posts: 428
    #72
    TerryV said:

    Nick is gone....
    I lost Nick at 7:46 AM on June 19th - one year and one month to day after the initial endoscopy that brought us to you. We are saddened that it happened in the hospital, but he was comfortable (most important) and surrounded by family.

    Thank you everyone for your care, your concern and your love!

    Terry
    PROUD wife to Nick, age 49 1 month and 6 days

    Sent you a pm
    Dearest Terry:

    When Freida sent me a text, we were driving home from Charlotte, NC from taking care of family down there.

    This news just kicked me in the guts. I share the thoughts and words the others have posted here. There are no words of the enormous amount of strength and courage and peace I am trying to send to you via the internet world. You are constantly on my mind.

    Love and FEC forever,
    Judy
  • dodger21
    dodger21 Member Posts: 85 Member
    #73
    sandy1943 said:

    Terry, So saddened that the
    Terry, So saddened that the beast has claimed another of our family! Praying for comfort for you and the family.
    Sandra

    Sorry
    Terry,
    May you and your beautiful kids cherish all those wonderful memories of their brave dad Nick.
    Thank you for being such an inspiration on this board.
    May God have his comforting hand on you in the days and weeks to come.
    Danielle
  • Mazj
    Mazj Member Posts: 42
    #74
    dodger21 said:

    Sorry
    Terry,
    May you and your beautiful kids cherish all those wonderful memories of their brave dad Nick.
    Thank you for being such an inspiration on this board.
    May God have his comforting hand on you in the days and weeks to come.
    Danielle

    Dear Terry
    I am so shocked and very saddened by the news of Nick's passing. You have been so caring and supportive of so many if us as we journeyed with this dreadful disease. Please join us on the FB site as the support there is awesome. Thinking of you and your kids right now.
  • tb7
    tb7 Member Posts: 52
    #75
    TerryV said:

    Nick is gone....
    I lost Nick at 7:46 AM on June 19th - one year and one month to day after the initial endoscopy that brought us to you. We are saddened that it happened in the hospital, but he was comfortable (most important) and surrounded by family.

    Thank you everyone for your care, your concern and your love!

    Terry
    PROUD wife to Nick, age 49 1 month and 6 days

    Missed your post earlier . . .
    Please accept our sincerest condolences. I am so saddened by your loss and bewildered by the effect and speed that EC has on some patients and not on others. You seemed to have it all together in terms of fighting and were doing all the right things, why, why, why this outcome so soon? Guess many who have posted are right, it is just a mystery that we do not have the answers to yet.

    May you take comfort in having gone through EC with such courage and grace. Best wishes for the future and lots of hugs,

    Trisha
  • T-Bird
    T-Bird Member Posts: 25
    #76
    Mazj said:

    Dear Terry
    I am so shocked and very saddened by the news of Nick's passing. You have been so caring and supportive of so many if us as we journeyed with this dreadful disease. Please join us on the FB site as the support there is awesome. Thinking of you and your kids right now.

    saddened by your post.
    Dearest Terry;
    I rarely post on this board, but have followed your journey for quite some time. I just wanted to let you know that I was deeply saddened to hear of Nick's passing and you and your children are in my thoughts.

    Teresa

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