My 30 year old sister was diagnosed in June of 2011 with stage 3c Ovarian cancer. She has undergone a debulking surgery and has been on chemo since July of 2011. Her numbers are still not back to normal. A biopsy of a suspicious lump in her breast this fall confirmed it was metastatic ovarian cancer. Luckily she has fared well through all of this and has been enjoying life with her 6 year old daughter. My sister and her daughter had to move in with my dad. Our mother passed away 6 years ago from small cell lung cancer. My dad is angry. He is angry that my sister has not paid rent and is not working and is spending her money on a trip to disney with her daughter and bought a new used car. He feels that she is being lazy by not working. He wants to start living his life and move in with his girlfriend. He believes my sister should move out into section 8 housing so that he can enjoy his life. After all he says "If it wasn't for me she would have to get by on her own. What would she do?" I am so mad at him. I want to scream at him and say "grow up and be a parent!" Suck it up! AM I being too hard on him? I am so mad at him for being so selfish.