loss of husband

ladydig
ladydig Member Posts: 2
in Emotional Support #1
I just lost my best friend my husband two days after our 28th anniversary-it was last Monday. it is now one week and today is a really tough day. does anyone know of an online support chat room??

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  • Geri1959
    Geri1959 Member Posts: 37
    #2
    chat room
    so sorry for your Lost, I to lost my Angel my Micheal my husband on October 5th 2011 he was diagnosed at the end of May 2011, I am also lookin for an on line support chat, but I am not sure why I just can not seem to find one.
  • jimwins
    jimwins Member Posts: 2,107
    #3
    Did a search for "online chat support for grief"

    Found this one but can't vouch for it:

    http://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/


    Google Search results:

    http://www.google.com/search?source=ig&hl=en&rlz=&=&q=online+chat+support+for+grief&oq=online+chat+support+for+grief&aq=f&aqi=&aql=&gs_sm=e&gs_upl=1545l6178l0l6474l29l28l0l12l12l1l215l2141l4.11.1l16l0

    Hugs,

    Jim
  • grandmafay
    grandmafay Member Posts: 1,633 Member
    #4
    Sorry
    I am sorry. I know words don't really help, but know that many of us here have also suffered losses and have some understanding of what you are going through. Time does help. This site was also helpful to me. Prayers and hugs, Fay
  • teenadee
    teenadee Member Posts: 86
    #5
    your loss
    I just wanted to write to tell you how sorry I am for your loss. I am new to this site but I thought they offered online support chat rooms. I wish you best of luck.
  • hart1249
    hart1249 Member Posts: 22
    #6
    Geri1959 said:

    chat room
    so sorry for your Lost, I to lost my Angel my Micheal my husband on October 5th 2011 he was diagnosed at the end of May 2011, I am also lookin for an on line support chat, but I am not sure why I just can not seem to find one.

    Lost my husband October 5th also.
    My Don was still working May 26, 2011. Diagnosed that day with Kidney Cancer, Kidney removed in June. No chemo or radiation, they said it hadn't spread. July hospitalized with Brain Mets. August hospitalized with seizure. September 28th hospitalized with breathing difficulty. Spread to lungs. Came home October 3rd with a prognosis of 4-6 weeks. Left this world October 5th 1:35 a.m. He was my best friend, my soul mate, I don't know what to do... I too am at this site searching for a chat group or support. The pain is not like anything I've ever experienced. God bless you both and give you peace and comfort. We were married 28 years on March 17th, 2011.
  • Geri1959
    Geri1959 Member Posts: 37
    #7
    hart1249 said:

    Lost my husband October 5th also.
    My Don was still working May 26, 2011. Diagnosed that day with Kidney Cancer, Kidney removed in June. No chemo or radiation, they said it hadn't spread. July hospitalized with Brain Mets. August hospitalized with seizure. September 28th hospitalized with breathing difficulty. Spread to lungs. Came home October 3rd with a prognosis of 4-6 weeks. Left this world October 5th 1:35 a.m. He was my best friend, my soul mate, I don't know what to do... I too am at this site searching for a chat group or support. The pain is not like anything I've ever experienced. God bless you both and give you peace and comfort. We were married 28 years on March 17th, 2011.

    So sorry
    what words can I say,except sorry. For me I am in shock I am okay at home I am okay in our room, but not so when I go outside into the world, it is so hard even when I walk the dog...all I DO IS CRY!!!!! today I am going to my doctor maybe he can help me, I can;t even think about when I can go back to work, I don;t want to be around people.
    thanks for listening.
  • 3Mana
    3Mana Member Posts: 811
    #8
    Lots of support here
    So sorry you've lost your husband. I lost mine on Mar. 25, 2010 and I'm still having a rough time accepting it. I guess we just have to try and take one day at a time. There'll be good days and just when you think you're okay, it hits again and back come the tears. But it's not uncommon for this to happen. I have a cousin who lost her husband when he was only 40 and that was 17 years ago. She said she still breaks down occasionally.
    This is a great web site & you'll find so much support here. I also saw a counselor & was on meds which helped me. So if things get bad, think about getting help.
    Hang in there & remember, we're all here for you. "Carole"

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