Let Him Ride In THe Wind!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Patti1
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I just to let you all know that I lost my deepest friend soulmate and husband last nite at 938pm. Dennis was with me Patti his Son Dennis Jr and grandson Dennis III at his time of passing at home. Dennis fought the hardest Colorectal Cancer with Met to Liver Journey of any one that I have know.He fought so hard to live for his family, but in the end this ugly this came back for its final visist. My heart is broken and I have been with him since I was 15 and married 42 years. He will allways be in my heart.
And a special thank you to all the beautiful people that we have me over the last 5 1/2 years, that have been there for us, And for that I thanh you all from the bottom of my heart.This cSN site has always been there for me and I thank you all.
I womder if he has his kickstand up on BMW with the beard flowing in the air. I love you all
Patt & Dennis
And a special thank you to all the beautiful people that we have me over the last 5 1/2 years, that have been there for us, And for that I thanh you all from the bottom of my heart.This cSN site has always been there for me and I thank you all.
I womder if he has his kickstand up on BMW with the beard flowing in the air. I love you all
Patt & Dennis
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condolences
Hi Patti,
Please accept my condolences on the loss of your Dennis- I'm so sorry.
Every time I hear of someone on the board passing, it breaks my heart but makes me want to fight all the harder.
Just picture Dennis riding around on his bike through heaven
Prayers for you for healing and peace...
Lisa0 -
My condolences for you and yours....biz said:Sending love
I don't even know you but my heart breaks for you. I pray that you may feel encircled in God's love.
-Biz
Try and remember the good times and not the issues with the disease...The hurt will lessen each day, but the memories made will be the backbone of healing...I am truly sorry and will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers......love to each of you.....Clift0 -
Patti
Patti,
My deepest condolences to you on the loss of your beloved husband, Dennis. You will be in my prayers.
Aloha,
Kathleen0 -
We're Sorry, Patti
I know Dennis went 'round and 'round for five years and some change - I've kept up with you for 2 of those years and know it was very hard on you. We're just over the 7-year mark and I know how draining and hard it is to fight for so many years on end.
It's a feeling that even folks on here can never truly understand until they have traveled that kind of distance for themselves.
Recurrence is always so difficult to battle and it seems that cancer's biggest weapon against us is Time and Persistence. It's a war of attrition with each side seeing how long each side can outlast the other one.
My sincerest condolences on the passing of your man, whom you've spent your teenage and adult life with. Some things like that are never replaceable and probably shouldn't be - that's what makes them so special.
I know we tire of hearing "Time will heal all wounds." And while I don't believe that's really ever true, I hope that you reach a point where the pain lessens and hurts you less and your memories become filled more with what he was, rather than what he had to go through.
That will be the way to remember Dennis.
I think I see him off in the distance "riding in the wind" as you say - only he's not wearning a helmet. But, he won't need one as he's "riding with angels now."
I'm truly very, very sorry and I know we all want to wish this pain away for you - but we understand it's all part of the process and a necessary stop as his journey rides to a close. When you can look back and reflect on his life - a comforting thought must be how he loved you and how he took care of you.
The greatest gift on this earth is when two people really love each other and and I can readily see it through others. It's a longing that many of us have and search for, but some of us never find it.
Your blessing was that you and Dennis did and 42 years is an incredible accomplishment that anyone would be very proud of.
I want to wish for you now some peace, comfort and strength in the coming days to help guide through this most difficult time.
-Craig0 -
You have my sympathy. I too
You have my sympathy. I too married my high school sweetheart and feel your pain at losing what is a part of you. My prayers will be with you during this difficult time and hope Dennis is at peace because there's no chemo in heaven. Lisa0 -
My deepest condolences. I
My deepest condolences. I also married my high school sweetheart and lost him suddenly at the age of 52. So i know the loss. I also know this. Take things at your own pace. Do not go by what others may think. Let others help you and cry when you need to. Most importantly don't be afraid to seek help if you think you need it.
You will laugh again, I promise. But right now it is one day at a time.
If i can be of help please do not hesitate to pm.
God Bless and bring you and yours peace.
Judy0 -
Dear Patt,
You have my
Dear Patt,
You have my deepest condolences, I'm so very sorry for your loss. May your memories of your life together forever warm your heart.
With sympathy, Cynthia0 -
OH my poor dear
Oh patti I'm so sorry to hear about Dennis
hugs Tina 0 -
Sorry doesn't quite say it all but the word we mean the most
Patt,
As I write this, the tears fall down my cheeks. My sorrow isn't for Dennis, h#ll, he's riding his BMW with the wind on his face and not one bug around to get in his teeth. My sorrow is for you, your son and grandson, those left behind. I know tonight you will reach out to touch him as you lay down in your bed and your tears that will inevitably fall, when you remember he is no longer there. But I want you to remember this, he fought hard to be with you all on this earth, and just know that his spirit is there with you now, watching over you, ebbing into your soul, letting you know that it's all right, he's okay now, and he will watch over you and your son and your son's son for the rest of your being on this earth. Take comfort in all your time together, your happy and even sad moments, remember he never left you willingly, that your love was there for each other.
My thoughts are with you,
Winter Marie0
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