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  • sbmly53
    sbmly53 Member Posts: 1,522
    #22
    Vicki,
    I am so sorry. I can't even think of anything else to say. We are here for you.

    Sue
  • KathiM
    KathiM Member Posts: 8,028 Member
    #23
    If he wants out, give him what he wants....
    obviously, he is too chicken to leave...so kick him out! You deserve better treatment from him, or from everyone, for that matter!!!

    Hugs, Kathi
  • smalldoggroomer
    smalldoggroomer Member Posts: 1,184
    #24
    I'm so sorry, You must be so
    I'm so sorry, You must be so hurt and feel betrayed!! I honestly don't know what to say.
    We are here for you like some one else said Vent away. I personally would confront him. But you have to do what is best for you. How long have you suspected this? God bless you. Sending HUGS to you. Take care sweetheart we're with you. Oh!!Oh!! Would you like us to open a can of kick @$$ on him......just saying..
  • sea60
    sea60 Member Posts: 2,613
    #25
    Vicki,
    I AM so sorry. Confront him about this so you don't have to suffer this in silence. It's about YOU now...do what's best for you dear Sister.

    Praying for you and sending my hugs,

    Sylvia
  • Alexis F
    Alexis F Member Posts: 3,598
    #26
    aisling8 said:

    Ouch
    This is very painful. I send you a big hug.

    xoxo
    Victoria

    I am so sorry that this
    I am so sorry that this happened. I can't imagine how you feel. Sending you a big hug!


    Lex
  • Double Whammy
    Double Whammy Member Posts: 2,832 Member
    #27
    sea60 said:

    Vicki,
    I AM so sorry. Confront him about this so you don't have to suffer this in silence. It's about YOU now...do what's best for you dear Sister.

    Praying for you and sending my hugs,

    Sylvia

    Oh NO!
    I don't know what to say, and I don't know what I'd do if this happened to me. Do you think he wanted to get caught?

    Sending hugs. Remember, I have a former son in law named Guido . . .

    Suzanne
  • jnl
    jnl Member Posts: 3,869 Member
    #28
    Gabe N Abby Mom said:

    I am at a loss for
    I am at a loss for words...but I do have big heartfelt cyber hugs for you.


    Linda

    I don't know what to say
    I don't know what to say either Vicki. What a creep!


    Hugs for you,


    Leeza
  • Kylez
    Kylez Member Posts: 3,761 Member
    #29
    natly15 said:

    I'm at a loss for words. All
    I'm at a loss for words. All I can say is ditto to everything Ayse has said. I will join herin punching out his lights. How dare he!!

    All I want to do is give you
    All I want to do is give you a big hug and "him" a kick in the pants!


    Hugs, Kylez
  • DebbyM
    DebbyM Member Posts: 3,289 Member
    #30
    Punkindo said:

    That is soooo wrong.....
    I am sooo soorry!!! Carma will get him......

    This is just wrong in every
    This is just wrong in every way! I am so sorry!


    Sending a big hug,

    Debby
  • jennytwist
    jennytwist Member Posts: 896
    #31
    Double Whammy said:

    Oh NO!
    I don't know what to say, and I don't know what I'd do if this happened to me. Do you think he wanted to get caught?

    Sending hugs. Remember, I have a former son in law named Guido . . .

    Suzanne

    What a jerk!
    So sorry! As others have said, keep your head high! It hurts my heart to know yours is hurting as well by this kind of betrayal. I'm praying for you and please know we are all here for you - anytime!!!
    Jenny
  • Ritzy
    Ritzy Member Posts: 4,381 Member
    #32
    sbmly53 said:

    Vicki,
    I am so sorry. I can't even think of anything else to say. We are here for you.

    Sue

    Like the others, I am short
    Like the others, I am short on words. Please know we are here to support you in anyway.

    Very sorry this happened..



    Sue :)
  • Punkindo
    Punkindo Member Posts: 113
    #33
    suggestion
    I almost hate to post this, but you may want to print out some of the emails and put them somewhere safe in case you need them later.... As soon as you talk to him, he will probably change his email password and then you wont know what is going on....

    I would almost be tempted to make my own profile under a fake name and contact him to see how he responds.....
  • CypressCynthia
    CypressCynthia Member Posts: 4,014 Member
    #34
    This is an awful shock!
    This is an awful shock! What a jerk! I don't know what to tell you except that I am here for you 100%.
  • Noel
    Noel Member Posts: 3,095 Member
    #35
    aysemari said:

    Take care of your precious heart...
    I know it must breaking into thousand pieces but if you ask me, it's DEFINITELY
    his loss!!! You are such a sweet, caring and witty Lady. He'll be searching for
    some time to find the likes of you. So you hold you head up high and don't let
    him hurt you. YOU are our precious sister and we love you too much to see you
    get hurt.

    I am giving you a HUUUUUGE HUG!

    Ayse
    PS: Would you like me to punch his lights out (;

    I'm with Ayse, want me to
    I'm with Ayse, want me to help punch his lights out too? So sorry
  • Boppy_of_6
    Boppy_of_6 Member Posts: 1,138
    #36
    CypressCynthia said:

    This is an awful shock!
    This is an awful shock! What a jerk! I don't know what to tell you except that I am here for you 100%.

    So sorry
    I like others really don't know what to say except I am sorry. I do know how it feels to have your husband of 27 years just decide he does not want a family anymore and walk away so I know this has to be very painful. God Bless
    (((hugs))) Janice
  • Vigee
    Vigee Member Posts: 66
    #37
    So Sorry
    Oh, I am so sorry to hear this.

    I am playing devil's advocate, but it doesn't sound like he has done anything, yet.

    He is probably feeling VERY scared and powerless. Hard feelings for men.

    If you love him and he is worth it, talk to him. Tell him WHATEVER he is feeling is OKAY.
    Tell him you love him.

    Thinking of you,
    V
  • Vigee
    Vigee Member Posts: 66
    #38
    So Sorry
    Oh, I am so sorry to hear this.

    I am playing devil's advocate, but it doesn't sound like he has done anything, yet.

    He is probably feeling VERY scared and powerless. Hard feelings for men.

    If you love him and he is worth it, talk to him. Tell him WHATEVER he is feeling is OKAY.
    Tell him you love him.

    Thinking of you,
    V
  • grams2jc
    grams2jc Member Posts: 756
    #39
    Wrong, wrong, wrong
    So sorry that he thought this was the right thing to do. Been through a divorce, don't wish it on my worst enemy (well maybe my ex) but you have to do what is right for you.

    The thought of you going through this makes my heart hurt,

    Jennifer
  • carkris
    carkris Member Posts: 4,553 Member
    #40
    grams2jc said:

    Wrong, wrong, wrong
    So sorry that he thought this was the right thing to do. Been through a divorce, don't wish it on my worst enemy (well maybe my ex) but you have to do what is right for you.

    The thought of you going through this makes my heart hurt,

    Jennifer

    I am so sorry and yes we are
    I am so sorry and yes we are all getting on the pink bus to support you and punch his lights out!
  • ladyg
    ladyg Member Posts: 1,577
    #41
    He must be really STUPID!
    How did he think he could get away with a thing like that. My theory is "Don;t get mad, get even!".

    Hugs,
    Georgia

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