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my mama

fik2010
fik2010 CSN Member Posts: 7
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My story is my wonderful mother passed away march 27 2010 after battling gallbladder cancer for only 10 weeks.the thing is I am still having a hard time when I think about my mom its those 10 weeks I spent with her and all the pain she was in and all the hospitals and all the things we went through with her.I really want to remember good things but it was suck a traumatic time that those memory's keep come up.How do I get pass them I just want to remember the good.
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  • 3Mana
    3Mana CSN Member Posts: 811
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    one day
    It's hard to get passed the bad days and remember the good. I'm sorry to hear about your mom. I lost my husband on Mar. 25th 2010 and it was very traumatic. He had only been diagnosed in January and was always so healthy. The night he died we watched TV together. He even ate some yogurt at 8:00. At 10:00 he went up to get ready for bed, and all of a sudden started hemmorraging and was dead by 10:30. The shock of losing him is unforgetable. I do try & remember the happy times, but then get angry cause I wanted many more years with him. So all we can do is take one day at a time and maybe one day it'll be easier for us. Take care! Carole
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