In memory of Pam

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  • maglets
    maglets Member Posts: 2,576 Member
    #22
    sasjourney said:

    Prayers for you
    I am so sorry to hear about Pam. You and your family are in my prayers. Take comfort that she is in a better place and not suffering. You will be together again someday.

    Hugs and love,
    Sara

    Al
    I am so so very sorry to hear of Pam's passing

    maggie
  • CherylHutch
    CherylHutch Member Posts: 1,375 Member
    #23
    My condolences and heartfelt sympathy
    Al, I'm so sorry to hear this day has finally arrived. I know you were as prepared as you possibly could be and you shared that preparedness with us... but it doesn't make it any easier for you and your family... or even us, your cyber family.

    I am happy that you managed to mention that you will continue coming to this board. Your input and your experience as a caregiver is so important to all of us here and the new folk who will be joining us.... not to mention, YOU are part of our family and always will be. Sometimes, after a loved one has died, the caregivers feel that they have nothing more to offer and we lose track of them... when in fact, all caregivers are as much a part of this family as are the folk who are the ones with the cancer. I am thrilled that some of our caregivers are still here after going through their devastating time of losing their loved ones.

    So take your time, deep breaths and when you just want to talk or hang out with people who understand what you are going through... you know this is your cyber home!

    Hugggggs,

    Cheryl
  • mom_2_3
    mom_2_3 Member Posts: 953 Member
    #24
    Al
    The love and pain you expressed is so moving to me and I cried when I read your post, to know that your beautiful wife was taken from you. I believe that Pam delayed her journey to ensure that you shared your 32nd anniversary together on Earth. My condolences to you and your family.

    Amy
  • Kathleen808
    Kathleen808 Member Posts: 2,342 Member
    #25
    Al
    Al,
    What a beautiful wife and a wonderful 32 years the two of you had together. I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers. She was blessed to have you as a husband.

    Aloha,
    Kathleen
  • AnneCan
    AnneCan Member Posts: 3,673 Member
    #26
    Al
    I am so sorry for the loss of your lovely Pam. I am glad she had such good care in hospice, and that you were there holding her hand. Thank-you for telling us you will continue coming to this board, it means a lot to me.
  • Jaylo969
    Jaylo969 Member Posts: 824 Member
    #27
    I am saddened for you
    Dear Al, please accept my condolences for the loss of your dear Pam. I am so sorry to hear this news.I wish I could have met her too.

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time.

    -Pat
  • jararno
    jararno Member Posts: 186
    #28
    Sorry For your loss
    May beauty live on
    in your memories
    and bring you peace.

    With Deepest Sympathy

    Barb
  • karguy
    karguy Member Posts: 1,020 Member
    #29
    I'm sorry
    I'm sorry for your loss,I will be praying for both of you.I HATE CANCER!!
  • Nana b
    Nana b Member Posts: 3,030 Member
    #30
    idlehunters said:

    So Sorry Al....
    This news really saddens me and yes, brought tears to my eyes too. I am glad Pam is out of pain now. How I hate this dang cancer! Please do keep coming back to the boards. Prayers to you and the family. Pam will be missed a lot!

    Jennie

    I'm so sorry Al.
    I'm so sorry Al. How devastating to lose your wife! May you heal in time, so that the pain lessens a bit. Please take it a day at a time. Big Hugs!
  • Patti1
    Patti1 Member Posts: 109 Member
    #31
    Al
    Al,
    It is with the deepest sadness that I say I am so sorry, you and your family are in our prayers.

    Patti & Dennis
  • ktlcs
    ktlcs Member Posts: 358
    #32
    Patti1 said:

    Al
    Al,
    It is with the deepest sadness that I say I am so sorry, you and your family are in our prayers.

    Patti & Dennis

    I am so Sorry
    I know the pain you are feeling, I miss my husbnd every day. Know that you are not alone and know that she is at peace

    Kathy
  • Unknown
    Unknown
    #33
    ktlcs said:

    I am so Sorry
    I know the pain you are feeling, I miss my husbnd every day. Know that you are not alone and know that she is at peace

    Kathy

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  • Love2Cats
    Love2Cats Member Posts: 127
    #34
    Al
    What a wonderful man you are. Pam will live on forever in your heart. My best to you at this difficult time.

    Sandy
  • Buzzard
    Buzzard Member Posts: 3,043 Member
    #35
    unknown said:

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    Mr Al...............
    The two of you are in my prayers as well as in my heart. I hope that you know all of us are beside you in wrapping our arms around you during this time...She is at rest, take some consolation in that, take whatever you can so that your burdens are lifted and that your days ahead are as easy as possible.....May the memories made make you smile every once in a while, and know that she will always be a part of who you are. From where I stand, I see a strong man that knows what is important, and that is his family......Love, Hope, and Peace be with you through the next days ahead and for the rest of your life......Clift
  • Dharma girl
    Dharma girl Member Posts: 40
    #36
    Sad

    Very sorry to here your sad news. I have tears in my eyes as I’m writing this. I am happy for you and Pammie that you had 32 years together.

    I hope that you find some peace in the days to come.

    D
  • Paula G.
    Paula G. Member Posts: 596
    #37
    So sorry for your loss. My
    So sorry for your loss. My husband passed on Dec 31st. it will be hard up and down. I wish this cancer and all cancer could be cured. It is such an awful feeling knowing you can do nothing. My best to you. You had 32 wonderful years but I understand it itn't enough. Paula
  • Crow71
    Crow71 Member Posts: 679 Member
    #38
    Al
    I'm really sorry you lost Pam. It sounds like her last days were filled with good care and lots of love.
    I hope you are okay.
    Roger
  • pf78248
    pf78248 Member Posts: 209
    #39
    Al, I am so sorry
    Dear Al ,

    I am so orry for your loss but know the time you had together was so precious. It's been almost six months since I lost the love of my life so I do feel your pain. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
    Hugs and Healing,
    Priscilla
  • tootsie1
    tootsie1 Member Posts: 5,044 Member
    #40
    So sorry
    Oh, Al.

    I do believe that she put all her strength into making it to that anniversary. What a lovely gift for you to have one more with her! I can feel how much you're hurting, and I know it's going to hurt so much for a long time. Praying for peace for you. You've been a wonderful husband and caregiver for Pam.

    *hugs*
    Gail
  • OGammy01
    OGammy01 Member Posts: 67
    #41
    Your beloved Pam
    You both have been in my prayers.I prayed she would make it to today, I'm so glad she did for the both of you. I am so sorry for your loss.


    Take care of yourself,

    Diane

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