My Mom, 49, comfirmed to be in final stage of liver cancer...Cry

balmain1914
balmain1914 Member Posts: 3
edited March 2014 in Liver Cancer #1
My Mom, 49, comfirmed to be in final stage of liver cancer...Cry...
I am 21, I am the single child. My dad dumped us when I was born, so as you can imagine how tough she is. I love my mom so much, she is such a nice person, she helps people and she covers for her relatives' debt but nobody would be willing to help her back at this time...Why are those people so mean and cruel??? Why does my mom, my mommy dearest, deserve this??

Every time I see her suffering from pains, every time I think of the future life without her, I just can't stop crying...

I am a big boy, but I just can't control my emotions well...

Those hospitals in China have refused to take care of my mom due to the fact that they (doctors) cant get commission and we are poor.

So, what I can do is to stay with my mom and watch her die??? IS that the only option???

God...I just can't accept this.

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  • Cindy Bear
    Cindy Bear Member Posts: 569
    #2
    Hello
    I am so sorry to read this.. I wish I had some advice or words of wisdom for you. I am twice your age and lost my mother 1 1/2 yrs ago to uterine cancer. It is never easy. First of all, it sucks and it's totally unfair. Life is unfair. Your mother doesn't deserve this, nobody does and she's much to young to be dying... And whether you're 21 or 91, you are allowed to cry and stomp your feet and throw things and swear.. if it helps, do it. The hardest thing in life, is to watch someone you love suffer. Isn't there any family or friends that can help out? Lend support? And if the hosptials can't treat her, can they at least keep her comfortable? I don't understand in this day and age, why people have to be in pain... My thoughts and prayers are with you, Hugs, Cindy
  • Soosoo
    Soosoo Member Posts: 27
    #3
    Cindy Bear said:

    Hello
    I am so sorry to read this.. I wish I had some advice or words of wisdom for you. I am twice your age and lost my mother 1 1/2 yrs ago to uterine cancer. It is never easy. First of all, it sucks and it's totally unfair. Life is unfair. Your mother doesn't deserve this, nobody does and she's much to young to be dying... And whether you're 21 or 91, you are allowed to cry and stomp your feet and throw things and swear.. if it helps, do it. The hardest thing in life, is to watch someone you love suffer. Isn't there any family or friends that can help out? Lend support? And if the hosptials can't treat her, can they at least keep her comfortable? I don't understand in this day and age, why people have to be in pain... My thoughts and prayers are with you, Hugs, Cindy

    Hello
    My feelings and prayers are with you.
    Is there anything i can do for help?
    Aren t there any public support societies, or patients groups that could help you financially to get the support you need for your mother?

    Can't you head to one of the Cancer patient societies in your country to get help?

    You should not give up!

    My prayers are with you..

    Regards

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