HONORING MY BIG SIS

RE
RE Member Posts: 4,591 Member
edited March 2014 in Breast Cancer #1
I have changed my avatar to a picture of my big sister and I that was taken six months before her passing to pancreatic cancer. She has been gone for three years and I just want to honor her here I hope it does not offend any as she was an awesome gal and also a survivor or breast cancer. She had symptoms she just did not heed them, so ladies whenever you feel something is too small to complain to your doctor about IT IS NOT! She was a powerhouse and a really great gal, I love ya Sue and I miss you!

RE
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  • smalldoggroomer
    smalldoggroomer Member Posts: 1,184
    Thank you so much for
    Thank you so much for sharing with us. Your sister was a beautiful lady. She must have been very strong just like her sister. Your sister must be very proud of you. I know I am. Take care sweetheart Kay.
  • KathiM
    KathiM Member Posts: 8,028 Member
    I'm putting my arms around you, dearheart....
    She lives on strong and well inside your heart, dear Rena...

    Hugs, Kathi
  • MyTurnNow
    MyTurnNow Member Posts: 2,686 Member
    Thanks for sharing your
    Thanks for sharing your sister with us and there is not a better place to honor her. You are both beautiful kindred spirits. I'm certain she is looking down and smiling!!
  • Marcia527
    Marcia527 Member Posts: 2,729
    She probably felt it an
    She probably felt it an honor to be your sister and is watching over you now. Hugs.
  • Christmas Girl
    Christmas Girl Member Posts: 3,682 Member
    Dear RE...
    How many times have I typed here on the board... that you have a heart so big I don't understand how your body can hold it. I don't know, and it doesn't matter. What I do know is that I will be moved to repeat it again, just like today.

    Your beloved sister was beautiful, as you are. Thanks for sharing the photo - your smiles are nearly identical. It is a lovely way to honor & remember her.

    Offend?!? Absolutely not - your sister was one of us.

    Sending heartfelt cyberhugs your way...

    Kindest regards, Susan xo
  • Boppy_of_6
    Boppy_of_6 Member Posts: 1,138

    Dear RE...
    How many times have I typed here on the board... that you have a heart so big I don't understand how your body can hold it. I don't know, and it doesn't matter. What I do know is that I will be moved to repeat it again, just like today.

    Your beloved sister was beautiful, as you are. Thanks for sharing the photo - your smiles are nearly identical. It is a lovely way to honor & remember her.

    Offend?!? Absolutely not - your sister was one of us.

    Sending heartfelt cyberhugs your way...

    Kindest regards, Susan xo

    Its an honor
    I consider it an honor that you have shared your sister with us. Thank you for doing that. Prayers and Gods belssings for you.
    (((Hugs))) Janice
  • chenheart
    chenheart Member Posts: 5,159
    There is nothing you would
    There is nothing you would or could do to offend us, sweet RE. Your sister is our sister. We are united as family, sharing the triumphs and losses. That Sue was an amazing woman and sister comes as absolutely no surprise to those of us who have come to know you. Your kind and generous heart, your wonderful hubby, the relationship you have with your children and grandchildren, the beautiful pictures you take and share with us it all speaks volumes about who you are.
    Thank you for sharing your sister with us...peace and srength to you on this difficult day.

    Hugs,
    Chen♥
  • Megan M
    Megan M Member Posts: 3,000
    chenheart said:

    There is nothing you would
    There is nothing you would or could do to offend us, sweet RE. Your sister is our sister. We are united as family, sharing the triumphs and losses. That Sue was an amazing woman and sister comes as absolutely no surprise to those of us who have come to know you. Your kind and generous heart, your wonderful hubby, the relationship you have with your children and grandchildren, the beautiful pictures you take and share with us it all speaks volumes about who you are.
    Thank you for sharing your sister with us...peace and srength to you on this difficult day.

    Hugs,
    Chen♥

    Thanks Re for posting this.
    Thanks Re for posting this. I think it is wonderful! I am so sorry that you lost your sister. I can't imagine losing mine as I think my heart would break in half.

    Wishing you a peaceful day filled with only good memories.


    Hugs, Megan
  • fauxma
    fauxma Member Posts: 3,577 Member
    chenheart said:

    There is nothing you would
    There is nothing you would or could do to offend us, sweet RE. Your sister is our sister. We are united as family, sharing the triumphs and losses. That Sue was an amazing woman and sister comes as absolutely no surprise to those of us who have come to know you. Your kind and generous heart, your wonderful hubby, the relationship you have with your children and grandchildren, the beautiful pictures you take and share with us it all speaks volumes about who you are.
    Thank you for sharing your sister with us...peace and srength to you on this difficult day.

    Hugs,
    Chen♥

    What a beautiful pair and
    What a beautiful pair and how sweet of you to honor her. I can only offer my condolences on the loss you experienced. Over time happy memories replace our sorrow but there is always that little ache in our heart. Much love and prayers for you, sweet, sweet RE. As Chen and others have stated you are such a dear part of this board and you could never offend.
    Stef
  • Gabe N Abby Mom
    Gabe N Abby Mom Member Posts: 2,413
    What a lovely tribute...

    What a lovely tribute...
  • Bella Luna
    Bella Luna Member Posts: 1,578 Member
    Tributes to Fallen Warriors
    Tributes to Fallen Warriors Welcome here. RE I am sorry for you loss. But... I am also happy that you and your beloved Big Sister had a wonderful bond. May the memories you cherish in your heart be of comfort to you.

    I would like to give a shout out to my Sister from another Mother, Zena" The Warrior". My dear friend past away on September 30th. God bless her soul.
    BL
  • Ritzy
    Ritzy Member Posts: 4,381 Member

    Tributes to Fallen Warriors
    Tributes to Fallen Warriors Welcome here. RE I am sorry for you loss. But... I am also happy that you and your beloved Big Sister had a wonderful bond. May the memories you cherish in your heart be of comfort to you.

    I would like to give a shout out to my Sister from another Mother, Zena" The Warrior". My dear friend past away on September 30th. God bless her soul.
    BL

    Ofcourse she is awesome as
    Ofcourse she is awesome as you are Re! It runs in your family! I am truly sorry that you lost your sister Re. Thank you for sharing this touching tribute with us, your sisters.


    Sue :)
  • missrenee
    missrenee Member Posts: 2,136 Member
    Ritzy said:

    Ofcourse she is awesome as
    Ofcourse she is awesome as you are Re! It runs in your family! I am truly sorry that you lost your sister Re. Thank you for sharing this touching tribute with us, your sisters.


    Sue :)

    A beautiful tribute, Re
    You are two gorgeous sisters. So sorry for your loss--I'm sure you miss her so much. She is your angel in heaven now.

    Hugs, Renee
  • roseann4
    roseann4 Member Posts: 992 Member
    missrenee said:

    A beautiful tribute, Re
    You are two gorgeous sisters. So sorry for your loss--I'm sure you miss her so much. She is your angel in heaven now.

    Hugs, Renee

    Sisters have a special bond.
    I am so sorry for your loss and the holidays are especially difficult. Memmories never die. My 3 sisters are still with me and I am grateful. My older sister is struggling with lung disease and I treasure every day I have her with me. Hugs.

    Roseann
  • VickiSam
    VickiSam Member Posts: 9,079 Member
    roseann4 said:

    Sisters have a special bond.
    I am so sorry for your loss and the holidays are especially difficult. Memmories never die. My 3 sisters are still with me and I am grateful. My older sister is struggling with lung disease and I treasure every day I have her with me. Hugs.

    Roseann

    from Christmas Girl.. We love you dearly - photo's, poem's, ranting .. would never offend any of us -))). We are a family - and we are of different personalities, likes - dis-likes, but more importantly - we are a FAMILY.

    Blessings and prayers to all my fellow WARRIOR - Sisters in PINK who find themselves with a loved one, sibling, friend, husband struggling with cancer! One would think - 1 family member in the family dealing with breast cancer is enough for many of us .. damn cancer.

    Strength and Courage

    Vicki Sam
  • RE
    RE Member Posts: 4,591 Member
    Thank You!
    Thank you all, I really just want to mention her as I do not want her to be forgotten she was bigger thank life in life and I will do my best to tell everyone at least once a year how blessed I was to have her as my sister. I do miss her tremendously but she is up there with my mom and they are having a party I am sure. Again thank you all so much for your kindness!

    RE
  • jo jo
    jo jo Member Posts: 1,175 Member
    RE said:

    Thank You!
    Thank you all, I really just want to mention her as I do not want her to be forgotten she was bigger thank life in life and I will do my best to tell everyone at least once a year how blessed I was to have her as my sister. I do miss her tremendously but she is up there with my mom and they are having a party I am sure. Again thank you all so much for your kindness!

    RE

    RE you are truely blessed...your sister is beautiful and so are you!
    Im beging to see that someday...when its our time...we will see our loved ones again! Until that time they will be truely missed!
  • Alexis F
    Alexis F Member Posts: 3,598
    roseann4 said:

    Sisters have a special bond.
    I am so sorry for your loss and the holidays are especially difficult. Memmories never die. My 3 sisters are still with me and I am grateful. My older sister is struggling with lung disease and I treasure every day I have her with me. Hugs.

    Roseann

    Sisters do have a special
    Sisters do have a special bond, and, it is obvious you did with yours. I am also sorry that you lost her and hope that good memories will fill your heart now.


    Lex
  • ladyg
    ladyg Member Posts: 1,577
    Thank you
    for sharing your sister with us. No one could possibly be offended by your tribute to her. She will never be forgotten as long as she is in your heart.

    Hugs,
    Georgia
  • Noel
    Noel Member Posts: 3,095 Member
    roseann4 said:

    Sisters have a special bond.
    I am so sorry for your loss and the holidays are especially difficult. Memmories never die. My 3 sisters are still with me and I am grateful. My older sister is struggling with lung disease and I treasure every day I have her with me. Hugs.

    Roseann

    This is really nice RE to
    This is really nice RE to honor your sister on here with the rest of your sisters. Two very pretty ladies.

    Sending you big hugs!