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Lost My Husband

carolinagirl67
carolinagirl67 CSN Member Posts: 153
edited March 2014 in Head and Neck Cancer #1
My sweet husband lost the fight on November 19. He was diagnosed in June 2009 with stage IV Tonsil SCC. We did lots of chemo (five different types) and seven weeks of radiation. It eventually spread to lung, bone, liver. He was the most beautiful man in the world and I will miss him everyday! You all have no idea how much support you gave me and I THANK you for everything over the past year and a half, (Hondo)...Keep fighting y'all, there will be a cure one day! I just know it.

Peace be with you all.
Donna
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  • Hondo
    Hondo CSN Member Posts: 6,636 Member
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    Donna
    I am lost for words
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  • Pumakitty
    Pumakitty CSN Member Posts: 652
    #3
    So sorry
    I am so sorry for your lost. I can not imagine your pain.

    Kathy
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  • delnative
    delnative CSN Member Posts: 450 Member
    #4
    Pumakitty said:

    So sorry
    I am so sorry for your lost. I can not imagine your pain.

    Kathy

    Oh, no ...
    That's so sad. You and yours will be in my prayers.

    --Jim in Delaware
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  • D Lewis
    D Lewis CSN Member Posts: 1,581 Member
    #5
    Donna
    So very sorry for your immeasurable loss.

    Deb
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  • Pam M
    Pam M CSN Member Posts: 2,196
    #6
    Very Sorry
    Donna,
    You know we all hoped that it would turn around when we heard the bad news. I'm so sorry it didn't happen. You were one of the posters that really helped a lot when I first started coming to this site (a year ago). You were so upbeat and positive, and your love for your hubby shone through your posts. I thought he was lucky to have you. Wish you had been luckier, and gotten a better chance to keep him.
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  • DJG1
    DJG1 CSN Member Posts: 121
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    Pam M said:

    Very Sorry
    Donna,
    You know we all hoped that it would turn around when we heard the bad news. I'm so sorry it didn't happen. You were one of the posters that really helped a lot when I first started coming to this site (a year ago). You were so upbeat and positive, and your love for your hubby shone through your posts. I thought he was lucky to have you. Wish you had been luckier, and gotten a better chance to keep him.

    Donna,
    I am so sorry for
    Donna,
    I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in my prayers as you struggle during this time. I hope you can find some comfort knowing that he is now in a place of peace and watching over you everyday.
    Debbie
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  • timreichhart
    timreichhart CSN Member Posts: 194
    #8
    DJG1 said:

    Donna,
    I am so sorry for
    Donna,
    I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in my prayers as you struggle during this time. I hope you can find some comfort knowing that he is now in a place of peace and watching over you everyday.
    Debbie

    Donna my prayers go out to you and your family
    Donna,
    My prayers go out to you and your family on this loss.
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  • Tanager75
    Tanager75 CSN Member Posts: 89 Member
    #9
    Loss
    Sorry to hear of your loss.

    Peace be with you,

    mark
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  • sweetblood22
    sweetblood22 CSN Member Posts: 3,228 Member
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    Tanager75 said:

    Loss
    Sorry to hear of your loss.

    Peace be with you,

    mark

    I am so sorry for your loss.
    Please know that you are in my prayers. My heart just sank when I saw your post. I wish I could offer you more than just my prayers.

    Hugs,

    sweet
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  • kingcole42005
    kingcole42005 CSN Member Posts: 178
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    So sorry for yours and your families loss
    So sorry for yours and your families loss, sending positive thoughts to you. Shelly
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  • Glenna M
    Glenna M CSN Member Posts: 1,576
    #12
    So sorry
    My heart broke when I read the title of your post. I avoided reading it for a while but realized that avoiding it wouldn't make it any less real.

    Please know that we are all here for you still and will be keeping you and your family in our prayers.

    Stay strong,
    Glenna
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  • Scambuster
    Scambuster CSN Member Posts: 973
    #13
    No words
    Donna,

    This is very sad news for all of us. I trust you and your family will find some peace. Our thoughts are with you.

    Scam
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  • rozaroo
    rozaroo CSN Member Posts: 665
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    Scambuster said:

    No words
    Donna,

    This is very sad news for all of us. I trust you and your family will find some peace. Our thoughts are with you.

    Scam

    Donna
    I am so sorry to hear of your dear husband's passing.My thought's & prayer's are with you.
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  • miccmill
    miccmill CSN Member Posts: 248
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    rozaroo said:

    Donna
    I am so sorry to hear of your dear husband's passing.My thought's & prayer's are with you.

    Donna
    I'm so very sorry to read of your husbands passing.

    It is so evident in your posts how much you loved him and how close you both were.

    You are in my thoughts and prayers.

    Lisa
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  • Noellesmom
    Noellesmom CSN Member Posts: 1,859 Member
    #16
    Prayers lifted, Donna
    And peace be with you, too.

    We all grieve your loss.
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  • Jan Trinks
    Jan Trinks CSN Member Posts: 477
    #17
    Donna
    Donna:

    I just read your post about your husband. I am so sorry and believe me I truly know what you're going through as I lost Charlie on August 21 which I'm sure you know. You are in my prayers and if there's anything I can do for you just let me know. God Bless! And yes, we must keep fighting on to find cures for this terrible disease but it is true the poem about what cancer cannot do and it will never rob us of our precious memories or the love of our husbands. Take care!

    Jan Trinks (Basketcase)
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  • ekdennie
    ekdennie CSN Member Posts: 238 Member
    #18
    loss
    I am so sorry to hear of your loss.
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  • JUDYV5
    JUDYV5 CSN Member Posts: 392
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    Donna
    So sorry for your loss.
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  • Greg53
    Greg53 CSN Member Posts: 849
    #20
    JUDYV5 said:

    Donna
    So sorry for your loss.

    So sorry
    Donna,

    So very sorry to hear of your loss. We are all here for you.

    Greg
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  • luv4lacrosse
    luv4lacrosse CSN Member Posts: 1,410 Member
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    SENDING PRAYERS FOR YOU
    I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. My family will pray for you.

    Mike
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