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what a night

braelee2
braelee2 CSN Member Posts: 130
edited March 2014 in Colorectal Cancer #1
I spent 5 hours at the hospital ER last night with my sister. She is 5 week pregnant and she started to bleed she miscarried in march. Her husband was away at a softball game in york and he did not really seem to be worried about her or care.He makes me so made I wish he would just baby her sometimes but he is so hard core. The doctor did ultrasounds and blood work. The said she to early to detect a heart beat. but she dose have a uti but she may be miscarring again. I feel so bad for her my heart breaks.
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  • okthen
    okthen CSN Member Posts: 232
    #2
    Im sorry about your sister
    and hope that all comes out well....when I was 28 wks with my oldest I started contracting. Doc sent me straight to hospital..I called my (now ex) husband...he said I probably had diarrhea like he did and would not come to the hospital. sheesh. After working in OB I came to realize that more often than not men are scared to death of that whole situation...good or bad. Thank god she has you by her side for support!
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  • Annabelle41415
    Annabelle41415 CSN Member Posts: 6,744 Member
    #3
    Sorry
    Your sister is lucky to have you. Bummer that her husband can't be just more caring and sympathetic to her needs and problems. Hope her and baby will be fine.

    Kim
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  • KathiM
    KathiM CSN Member Posts: 8,028 Member
    #4
    Sending my best...
    To you both!

    Hugs, Kathi
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  • AnneCan
    AnneCan CSN Member Posts: 3,673 Member
    #5
    Sorry you + your sister had
    Sorry you + your sister had such a hard night. I hope everything works out ok for her.
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  • khl8
    khl8 CSN Member Posts: 807
    #6
    AnneCan said:

    Sorry you + your sister had
    Sorry you + your sister had such a hard night. I hope everything works out ok for her.

    Hoping it all works out for
    Hoping it all works out for her.
    Kathy
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  • just4Brooks
    just4Brooks CSN Member Posts: 980 Member
    #7
    Sending my best
    Some guys trip me out. His loss. Sending my best that everything is okay.

    Brooks
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  • pepebcn
    pepebcn CSN Member Posts: 6,331 Member
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    just4Brooks said:

    Sending my best
    Some guys trip me out. His loss. Sending my best that everything is okay.

    Brooks

    l agree with Brooks some guys.......
    Best to you and your sister!
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  • tootsie1
    tootsie1 CSN Member Posts: 5,044 Member
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    Sorry
    I'm so sorry about your sister. She's very fortunate to have you, since her husband doesn't sound like much of anything. I pray she'll be okay.

    *hugs*
    Gail
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