I've been worried about getting cancer for the past few years because i have had A LOT in my family. Just recently I have been getting sick A LOT. Fevers in the middle of the night, my face just BURNING, then cold chills during the day (random temp changes), not being able to sleep, loss of appetite (lost 5lbs in the last week), SWOLLEN (and i mean SWOLLEN!) lymph gland at the top of my neck to the right (its been this way for maybe a year or two? or longer? My mom just thinks its some weird virus and wont take me to the doctor because she doesnt wanna pay.. NOW i have tonsilitus?? HELP! is this lymphoma?? im scared!