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GOOFYLADIE

I just posted a long post on expressions about emotions and I hope my story gets thru, to all of you that I understand the roller coaster ride, the emotional, physical, psychological, and all the words here everyone festers to place on the board to help them find their piece of mind on the One hell of a roller coaster ride, we call fighting cancer and huge tragedies we have endured with our losses of all types and tryumphs that keep pressing us on forward. Please read the expressions blog titled "has to do with everything". Thank you, Cass
This was totally out of my realm but the boys asked I had to help. I always mind my own business. If anyone can tell me legally how to make the adult bully buzz off I would appreciate it.The story to long to post here.I tried to give condensed version there.

grammadebbie

Can't find
I tried to find the post(has to do with everything) on the expression page and couldn't find it. I just went to the expression page and opened it and there are no new posts.

Is it my Chemo Brain ?

tootsie1

Where?
I've been trying to find it, too!

*hugs*
Gail

GOOFYLADIE

Thanks for caring enough to ask
It is in the expression gallery. Not my own expression page. I will try and copy and paste it to my expression page though. Thanks guys, this Bully is driving the who town nuts. He raise cain for every board this at school and functions and sports rants and raves he has two boys and he treats them totally different like night and day! As far as supporting them in sports. One he wants you go on an on like a crazy man, the other he acts like hes not there. Its wierd. They are both his so not a his or her child thing.

GOOFYLADIE

I put in my expressions page too
I finally got it to save to my expressions page too. Thanks for any help any one can offer. I have so much junk to talk about that I can not put it all on here that is not what this is for. I just would like some help it doesn't seem right that a young man can't coach by someone here say. They still have not completed a full investigation and to my knowledge the coach went asked court house and local pd if he has a report against him Nothing has been filed. Seems to me, if the school is doing the right thing the police report of some kind should have been made. I do know that if the bully indeed report something they have 30 days to decide to move forward. I also know the other side has to know about the report. Which has not occured now at about 20 days since occurance.Thank you all.
Cass

Crow71

GOOFYLADIE said:

I put in my expressions page too
I finally got it to save to my expressions page too. Thanks for any help any one can offer. I have so much junk to talk about that I can not put it all on here that is not what this is for. I just would like some help it doesn't seem right that a young man can't coach by someone here say. They still have not completed a full investigation and to my knowledge the coach went asked court house and local pd if he has a report against him Nothing has been filed. Seems to me, if the school is doing the right thing the police report of some kind should have been made. I do know that if the bully indeed report something they have 30 days to decide to move forward. I also know the other side has to know about the report. Which has not occured now at about 20 days since occurance.Thank you all.
Cass

Great post Cass. I love the
Great post Cass. I love the image of all of the parents standing up in the gym, facing the bully, and then facing the coach. Very powerful. I live in a small town where I serve on the town council. We have a few bullies of our own. They are total pains in the neck, and like the school yard bullies of our youth; sometimes you have to stand up to them. There is probably a great metaphor in this story somewhere for standing up to the biggest of bullies in our lives right now - cancer.
Anyway - great job and thanks for sharing!!
Roger

GOOFYLADIE

I guess
I guess in short I am so damn happy to be here but so pissed I have to spend fighting Bullys, even if it is for the kids. I feel good I did it, bad for the family, pissed off because I know I wasn't kept it for stupid stuff even if this was important the Bully makes it ignorant and dancing like none other with gratitude to still be here and so those names on that banner on the wall with my boys names on it reminding me I am fighting for a reason even if it directly with my boys, it matters. The circle is never ending.
Thanks huge warm fuzzy hugs to all.
Goofyladie (Cass)

tootsie1

Yay! I found it and got to read it. Good for you for standing up to the bully!!! I'm sure your son is very glad (for so many reasons) that you are still here to be part of things like that.

*hugs*
Gail